Topic: 7 bloody mistakes some guys make with women (Read 194 times)

The bloody mistake men make is chasing a girl after, don't chase them because you will be seen as a loser. If you want a girl to be interested on you then focus on becoming financially stable then they will fall for you. It may look like a cliche for the Genz but this is the fact remains same no matter how we see it.

Is this not a given? I think that every date should be fantastic. Although of course some ones would not have to be expensive or grand but just make sure that both of you are having a fun time.


Women value initiative and often even find it attractive. When you do not hesitate to reach out and try to make time to spend time together that is when it is most appreciated.


Some men often like to talk a lot but in the process they may stop listening to their partners. It is important to sometimes just listen and let your partner talk about themselves and consider their feelings.

Personally for me I believe that love comes naturally but it is the relationship part that needs work between the two of you. It is all about communication and what each of you wants from each other.

It's not that boys usually make mistakes, but since girls are a bit meticulous, girls find many problems. But some of the major problems that boys do with girls and mistakes are as follows:

1. Presenting yourself as something bigger than what you are.
2. Behaving inappropriately without fully understanding.
3. prioritize the body before the mind.
4. Walking around with a sense of Responsibility and independence.
5. Don't surprise her sometimes with a gift.
6. Lack of respect for interpersonal relationships.
7. Showing indifference to girls after a few days in the relationship

But it is not the case that everyone makes this mistake. There are many geniuses who avoid all these mistakes and want to carry on the day by loving each other beautifully. I respect them.

Show them who you really are and they're going to love for who you are. It's no longer needed to be so magical having those fancy dates and romantic dinners. I mean that they're still good to have.

But don't show them the impression that you can bring them there at all times because most of them will think that every time you date her, you need to bring her back to that fancy restaurant.

Anyway, it is you that shall know how you should approach a woman and make her in love. We all have our own ways of dealing with it.

This really depends on location/country and cultures.

That being said, I can speak for CA USA.

Women these days are down right mercenaries. They don't give a shit about you only to secure a place in the food chain hopefully higher than their friends. Single moms are the worst, your just a meal ticket.

With a swipe you are perfectly replaceable in minutes.  They will be on to find a simp they can bully around. Why not? Dick is free and falls from trees, why put any effort into it.

It's been my experience on multiple occasions they will be with you but never stop swiping for the next best thing.

If I was a young man I would NEVER get married, period no matter. Nothing in it for the male, only loss.

I'm not going to be wrong, it's part of life.  But still, the first mistake men and women make is not to sacrifice.

It is normal for women these days to have very realistic aspirations but they must know how to control themselves. Relationships are as simple and complex as everything must be done slowly. Changing human habits many people can't keep pace with the current times so it will become natural to manage with real life by applying one's own intelligence.

I have a small intervention regarding your topic
Modern women are very demanding, as they ask you for everything, but they also give you everything for free. As for the modern man, he is lost between the principles of the past and the changes of the future.
We build ourselves first, then we build our relationships with others

You forgot the 8th bloody mistake:

8. Sending dick pics.

Just be authentic as you can be. Whats the reason of being together if you cant be your true self. Building a strong relationship is about connecting for real. Let the relationship unfold naturally, without rushing. Being yourself and speaking your mind creates a real bond that can handle whatever comes your way. Mistakes are different in every relationship

I don,t know about what is main mistake but i want to say never mistake to choosing your life partner because everyone need to run long time with partner i means wife/husband.

its not just about lies. its about setting bad expectations
ive seen guys that rent a sportcar/book a 1 day test drive of a sports car, on a particular day they know they have a hot date.
they realise they like the woman they had the date with and want a second date. and end up either having to pay extra again to re-rent the sports car to keep the ruse alive. or come clean and ruin the chances..

setting a bad expectation wont help the relationship. if you dont actually live the sportscar lifestyle and cant afford to own a sports car, dont present yourself as a sportscar type of guy. be yourself find a woman that has the interests that align with your real self.
if your a nerd. find a woman that likes nerds. if your energetic find a woman that likes your energy.

if your a carnivore find a woman that likes meat too, dont be someone you are not. live your true self

the other part is confidence. when you give up "trying" to impress... other people stop seeing the fake facade try to push. they stop seeing the subtle presentation of you holding back.. and they see the real you, not the one hiding something..  you instead effortlessly just be normal and become real to the other person, someone they can trust because they see you are not acting a role.

the best line ive seen work that made a lasting relationship.
she was trying to quietly sneak out of bed in the middle of the night a couple times to go to the bathroom.. so just saying to her "all woman fart, if you need to fart just let rip. as long as you make me a bacon sandwich for breakfast..." laughter began and she was there in the morning with a bacon sandwich. no sneaking off after that

woman think they need to present themselves as models that dont do normal human things. the sooner they realise they can relax and be human the better.

the best relationships are those where the person you are with is like your best friend. you can tell them your secrets they know how you think, you can tell them anything or do anything and it feels normal, where you both dont need to act a certain way infront of each other

This good, relationship can be a complicated thing because most women are really complicated.
So trying too hard may not be recommended just try and be yourself
Don't try and be who you are not to please them because if the true review it won't be nice.
And don't engaged in one sided love this when you are showing more interest than the woman both need to love each other equally.

Respecting woman , Loving them and giving them what they need is more than enough to show how truthful we are .

We don't have to bringing them to expensive dates because we must be practical in our financial stability .

My Wife is more than contented in what I am giving Her since we met till now that decades of being married.

1. Taking them on a fantastic date might not necessarily be the case but how you compos yourself. For example trying to proove to here that you have money. Meanwhile you should just feel relaxed or be calm.

2. Making connections how? I don't really understand?

3. There is no how you can focus on a woman more than yourself. A man that focuses on a woman more than himself, is looking for something from the lady. After which might decide not to focus on her any longer. Except it's natural love.

4. Yes I agree with you. Revealing yourself might poss a great risk on you. Because women will treat you according to how you showcase yourself. If you are sincere they will accept you and if you pretend what you are not, they will still follow up.

5. I agree with you not seeing limit for her can put you in trouble because she will continue from how you have placed her. And it might be difficult to change over time.

6. It doesn't matter, but what matters is how you spend when you frequently meet her.

7. I don't understand what you mean.

what if you are not capable of that much? what if you are only capable of fastfood meaning this is not a fantastic date?
seriously ? more that yoursef? that is a stupid kind of love .

wish you will find better women/men and not beast type .

That is the conclusion if the whole matter as you just speak alot in my mind. Just as it's clearly stated when the foundation is faulty the building will definitely collapsed, so it's to relationship  when the relationship have some errors of lies  failure is set to be inevitable. Try to be who you are not just to impress your relationship, as many do just know you have dig your grave more deep than expected conclusively frank1 have analyze allot that any should not fall in in as much relationship is concerned.

the key to lasting relationships is to be yourself

1. trying to act more wealthy then you are is setting yourself up for failure, when that high status becomes the expectation you cant cover
2. starting relationships on a lie doesnt help either
3. acting overly interested/confident feels pushy, fake. sometimes its best to not exaggerate feelings or appear false

just be yourself where you are not even trying, feels more genuine real and something someone can get to know better and trust

things only get toxic when you are living a lie or cant communicate openly because you fear how the other will react with the truth

I don't about 7 mistakes but ill say Trusting them in a relationship is the first mistake that leads to hundreds of mistakes.

My personal opinion is that. Stay single stay independent. Being in a relationship nowadays are more toxic & Mental pressure.

If a man longing for a woman or a woman longing for a man is a disease outbreak I guess it is not a bad one.
However, to build a healthy relationship, it makes sense to handle these road blocks. Which might be a vaccine needed.
1. Taking them on a fantastic date on the first time.
2. Always making connections first.
3. Focusing on her more than yourself.
4. Revealing much suddenly.
5. Not setting limits for her.
6. Enquiring when next to see her.
7. Fear to flow along.

As much as possible, see hand all these factors can happen naturally not you forcing yourself. You did the first thing which is getting to know her then rest you both have a routine to play.