So I encouraged a friend of mine to buy some bitcoins quite a long time ago. They have since become worth a lot. She wrote a long password (22 characters!), and kept the coins in an encrypted wallet-qt.
As they appreciated and appreciated I got more and more nervous, and the time finally came to put them in cold storage.
This was when we discovered that she had written down her password wrong. I tried 128 different combinations. None worked. I asked help from a lot of people here. Some good advice, but all a little too technical for me.
I felt the coins were basically gone, because as we all know, if you don't have your private key (or the password to your wallet.dat!) you don't have any bitcoins.
My friend wrote some code and took the password hash and ran almost 2 million different permutations and finally....cracked it! (Always put dots above your lower case "i"s my friends
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They have now been moved to cold storage, printed using an offline computer (with no hard drive in!) that ran the html for bitaddress.org.
The private key has never been near a webam or window (drones, government agencies), has been laminated (read about a guy on here accidentally spilling whiskey all over his paper wallet), kept in a safe place that only she has access to, TWICE.
I have learnt from everyone else here.
I hope to help everyone a little with my story. This new paradigm of having COMPLETE responsibility for ones own money is going to take some adjustment, but the more we help each other, the less horror stories we all have to hear about.
Good luck and happy bitcoining.