Laziness : I am guilty of it too. I do not update my trust page very often. Don't know if updating it often will do any difference too. Well obviously when something happen like Yogg did then you remember that you have something to do or when you notice someone is highly abusive and it's an obvious without any doubt.
Fear of offending: I never felt that way. I think none should do. When anyone cares about the other then instead of only ~ him/her, have a discussion with him. Let him know that you are doing the ~ and when you will see he is improving in the matter then you will remove the ~. The receiver should not be offended if the attitude is correct.
I was not talking about you, I was talking in general. I am, at least partly, guilty of both of these.
I've done changes in my trust list a couple of times in 2022, but I still feel I could do better. And I've removed in 2022 somebody from my trust list and I still have a felling he may have felt offended by my move back then.
The hopes for inclusion: This is evil and I think these are the ones who have plans like I said in the OP. We need to be careful from them who has good plans to have a place in the DT system. Unfortunately many if not all (of course not all) who were effected by the merit introduction and then found a way from the Default trust change, started to use the system in hope for inclusion. The theory.
Your own DT status may suffer: Once we will not think about what we are gaining from it, I think that time we will enjoy the best benefit from the current system.
The theory is not bad. But I also feel that the hope for inclusion is wider. I think that DT is seen by many like a "club". And who doesn't want to see how is it in there at least once?
I am not DT for that long and I remember I've seen this or that becoming at least DT2 and sometimes thinking "how comes they're more trusted than me?". Now it's somewhat the opposite: I get notified when the new elections are posted (since my name is written) and I'm surprised I'm
still DT1; I feel like DT2 or lower is not a problem.
So... we may have an incorrect/short view on who is hoping for inclusion and why. I don't think that all have clear plans.
May be the whole trust and ignore list should not be accessible even by the member himself. Have button like ignore. Trust/Distrust. When you feel you want to add someone then press the Trust button, when you feel you want to ~ someone then press distrust button. But don't give the list like right now we have trust list and ignore list. Unfortunately we all know Theymos is not going to do anything sooner so let's leave it out from the discussion.
Actually there are at least 3 cases: Trust, Distrust, neutral (or remove, if you wish).
This "hiding" of the list may be a good idea in the case of ignores actually so that page doesn't get timeout for some users.For trust, I don't know, the list being not visible will make user X look for another user's profile and see what options he has available (maybe Trust is no longer there if it's already trusted). The list being visible
can help. I think that, although it's extremely useful, Loyce's trust viewer can also be a tool for evil - from planning to checking and whatever - since everybody can see how the others' trust list looks like; so the list being editable is imho much less "harmful" (not the best term, I know) as long as it's private compared to it being public. On the other hand, the evil ones can easily group together (there are actually such groups imho) and share the info between themselves.
So, all in all, restricting this or that won't stop somebody determined. (what a long turn around my own tail, isn't it?)
Oeleo (i can't really type his name on mobile) gave a nice summary: DT is a mess! I try to do my share in educating people, and once in a while point out the worst use of inclusions, but it doesn't change the bigger picture because the system itself is flawed. If too many people use it in the wrong way, the few users who use it correctly don't matter anymore. Maybe that's just how democracy works....
That's correct. Democracy has the same flaw: it can too easily be used for evil.
DT is a mess. Is it a bigger mess than the previous DT system? I don't know, I don't think so, but it's hard to tell. And even harder to make it better.