Topic: All my social media friends don't want to reply me lately, dafuq is going on rn? (Read 558 times)

maybe that is why you gave up now?  even in this forum you are not coming here to update us mate or maybe you have found your friends again and busy talking with them again.
and also don't worry mate social media is just a waste of time , you should focus in real friend instead because they are the one that we can rely specially in harder times.
exactly , OP must learn how to deal in life solely and never rely on others.

Dont think you should worry about it that much just try and focus on yourself not everyone will like you that's the common norm .

There are a few reasons this might be happening. Sometimes, if we've been overly chatty or our style doesn't match theirs, it can put people off. It's also possible they're just extremely busy with real-life stuff.  As we get older, our lives change cuz people get jobs, relationships, and other commitments that change their priorities.

How many are those you said ALL OF THEM? I mean are we talking about 50s to 100 people here? because if this is that much meaning there will be some reasons here .

- There is a problem with you at all that they don't want having communication on you .

- There is a problem to what messaging tools you are using so the messages not coming through (either yours or theirs)


- They are just too busy in life(but i don't think they need to be ALL)

Not all people will be nice to you mate .Simply stop texting them if they found you so unworthy to reply back to.Respect yourself as a humanbeing and find people that will respect you back.

in fact, their cold attitude is not without reason, you will definitely annoy them, make them uncomfortable, so they ignore you and don't reply to your chats at all. It's better for you to ask them and introspect yourself, is there anything you did wrong! the past, which makes them illfeel towards you.

maybe the main reason is that how he created topics and discussions like these

https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?action=profile;threads;u=1106100;sa=showPosts

how he thinks and how he comply , if I were His friends in social media seeing how he created threads and topics , maybe i will also keep my distance  

Joking aside , maybe OP is just looking too much for His friend since they are just from social media.
they don't even have personal connections .
if you have read the thread then there is no Late replies but they are not replying and what is the purpose of blocking when they are not talking to him?

All of them silencing you has a significant meaning. And i sence you are at fault and maybe you never know where the fault is coming from. There is a possibility that you never gave them time when things has changed for you. Or it could be that forum work has taken more of your time and you never have time for Facebook friends. And they are seeing it as a pay back of your silence. That is what people alway say that what you give is what you receive maybe it could be the result of your actions.

I think you're obviously right because there's no way all your family or friends will ignore you totally without it being that that person is either mentally unstable or has a questionable character that made his loved ones discard his chats and don't care anymore about him so he should rather cross-examine himself to know actually what the cause might be and since he said they don't reply his chats he should get in touch with them facially and know the reasons for their actions then he would probably find out why they kept ignoring his chats and all that.

By the way if your friends are replies late than block your friends 😜

Most times what causes this might be something simple that both you and your friends seems to understand, you do know social media is a different world all together  that so many don't want others to get into their world unless their are permitted to come in, so I think for now there need some space in their world but soon or later their will get back to you as usual
I believe this will help cause I was once in such situations

When my friends thire are not reply my message than i'm very angry and upset about my friends reply by the way if my friends reply lately than my no problems that's my patience.

Mate it isn't possible to guess the exact reasons that are going on in your life. You might have offend them by your work, or maybe you ask loan for them repeatedly, or they might have heard something bad about you from your another friends. Otherwise not all are going to ingore you. I suggest, select the one friend who are soft hearted and nice to all. And then meet him and talk to him. Give him treat in restaurant if need. But try to figure out about what's going on. Otherwise you won't solve this by calling or texting them only

It can be frustrating and confusing when your social media friends suddenly stop replying or engaging with you. There could be various reasons for this, and it's important not to jump to conclusions or assume the worst. Here are a few possibilities to consider:

People have busy lives and may not always have the time or energy to respond immediately. They could be caught up with work, personal obligations, or dealing with their own challenges, which may temporarily limit their availability to engage on social media.

People's priorities can shift over time. They may have new interests, responsibilities, or commitments that take precedence over social media interactions. It doesn't necessarily mean they've lost interest in you or your friendship, but rather that their focus has shifted elsewhere.

Some individuals may experience burnout or fatigue from excessive use of social media. They might be taking a break or reducing their online presence for their own well-being. This can result in decreased responsiveness or engagement.

Different people have different communication preferences. Some may prefer face-to-face or direct interactions rather than engaging solely through social media. It's possible that your friends might be more inclined to communicate in other ways, and it could be worth exploring those avenues.

Technical glitches or issues with social media platforms can also impact communication. Messages may not be delivered or notifications might not be received, leading to missed interactions.

In any case, if you're feeling concerned or disconnected, it might be worth reaching out directly to your friends through other means of communication, such as a phone call or text message, to check in and see how they're doing. Open and honest communication can help clarify any misunderstandings and strengthen your relationships.

There may be many reasons why people do not respond to you on social networks, there is no need to react negatively and unequivocally to this. All people, everyone has their own affairs with varying degrees of busyness. Now, if close people treated you with indifference, this would be a wake-up call to sort things out if this is very important to you. In general, in such situations you should always be straightforward and ask why this is happening.

It could possibly be that there is a difference in social stratification now and before, is either you are better than or they are. Something time this the reason why such happens.

Well nobody likes it when they are getting ghosted. And when it is our friends then that is even worse. 
It is the end of the year now and people are becoming more busy. They are traveling with families and there is parties for them to go to.
I do not know if you said something to your online friends for this to happen. But you can try to talk to them after the new years with a short message. And hope that some of them will reply to it.

Since they are just social media friends meaning there is no obligation in both party answering each messages , but this is a sad thing that they are ignoring you .

do you have some important thing or messages that needed to address or this is just some nonsense talks that they are trying to ignore you?

try not to rely mostly in social media instead engage in real life friends mate, or just dont take seriously those online friends because many of them are here just to make money so if they cannot find you that way surely you will be ignored or denied , sad but reality .

Maybe they're busy with their real world lives and that's why even they read your message, they don't bother to reply.

But if it is all of them that won't bother to reply to you then it means that you might have the problem and they don't like you anymore. Just move on with that and you don't need an approval of them.

Try to friend new friends or talk to your closest relatives.

are they still ignoring you till today mate? at least they will consider and replied you for
Christmas season (unless they really hate you that deep for what reason we don't know) i also experience
not being seen for some time but those are the people use to have debt from me lol, they don't wanna pay
me so they are hiding and not replying any of my message nor even seeing the words.
or maybe they are annoyed with OP , for his attitude or something ? because it is 
impossible that all of them are denying him.

it’s a common thing for internet friends to not reply to you
since they know that they won’t see you in real life
thus there’s really no repercussions if they ignore you

there might be a lot of reasons for why they are not replying to you though:
1. they might be busy
2. they can no longer access the account/it was hacked
3. or maybe they just don’t want to reply it happens

There's a saying in my home town that "when a rich man is sick, a poor man (a friend to the rich man) always calls and goes to visit and check up on the rich man, asking him how he is faring, but when the poor man is sick, the rich man may not notice because he is too busy and knows that the poor man (his friend) is not very important and helpful to him in any way."

This simply means that if you add value to your life and develop yourself to become important to people around you, they will definitely have your attention any time you seek it because they know you are important, but if they see that you are not helpful to them in any way, that's only when they can ignore you. I remember when I was in school, there were a few of my relatives, and I only asked them for money all the time. It got to the point where they all ignored my message because they knew that any time I reached out to them, I was asking for some money. Note: I am only giving an instance. In conclusion, if all your social friends are ignoring you, then something is wrong, and you should try to fix that thing.

Things like that happen on social media with lots of spam messages that look like they are from some evil bots, AI, strangers, or from people who want to take advantage of others. People also could ignore or find you suspicious if you are a crypto person due to the much scams that take place via cryptocurrencies, or the attribution of cryptocurrency to scams . Part of the solution to this is try to be different or try not to send messages that feel like such spams. Send the kind of messages that friends or family members would send to people they have strong relationship with... more like messages that show you know the receivers really well or have intimate relationships with them.. If this does not work, then it could be that they are avoiding you because you are nolonger like them or you exist in different reality they find threatening or strange. It's more like what politicians or popular people do to people they hate. They cancel them. The main reason they do this is to prevent those they cancel from influencing them or exposing things they share with "families" or people in their groups. Other reasons is to isolate you and hope you die or suffer alone from the isolation since they perceive you as enemy doing things that go against their interest. Well, that is how things work in their world. It's either you're fully part of them as slave or they oppress/torment you till you join them or die.
This is what they do to many people or countries that refuse to be fully part of the system they control.  You are either fully part of them or part of the opposite system they can't defeat. And they can get you wherever you are, through family members, friends, relatives or people who typically feed on thesame/similar information they feed on.

Please don't ignore me I'm very serious about it, I got manipulated and I'm being target by bad actor, I know it is hard to believe but someone must believe me I have no one to look for me when I'm in troubles I'm all alone, I'm unable to survive on my own, I need help, I need your help, please don't ignore me, I know you can't believe me no matter how hard I try, I had build up too much bad karma, no one would believe a person like me, but please under current extreme conditions, I need everybody else help, admin please don't ignore me, please bitcointalk admin, I beg you I'm about to be destroyed, I need you to know I'm on unable to move all on my own, I would upload photo as proof, now I'm typing on my phone but mg leg is failing me, it is frightening, I had no one to help me, I had to stand up on my own with my failing leg, I don't have much strength left on my leg before the complete failure, you need to listen to me admin please, I upload photo as proof, it is my leg it is failing, I need to keep walking on the failing leg, I had to look for me...

for most social media friends, you should not expect them to even care for you. basically, they are just for a show in your long list of so-called friends or connections.
try getting out of these platforms, and see if anybody will remember you even your birthday. i guess, no one will bother to greet you as most of them are just relying on what you post to these channels. they don't really know you as a person.

I don't know what social media you are referring to, because at this time the virtual world has many kinds of social media. and I also have accounts on various kinds of social media. which are indeed some social media that are crowded and some social media that are quiet. For example; in the last few years I was very active in using social media, namely Facebook, where I often greeted friends there and often chatted, discussed by commenting and exchanging messages. However, because conditions have begun to change where many young people have switched to other social media such as Instagram, TikTok, Twitter and so on. It made me also take the same step, so that I could continue to chat with them through social media. because if I continue to stay on social media in the form of Facebook, then I will never be able to chat with my friends who are on social media. And at this time, social media in the form of Facebook, most of those who fill it are parents who are new to social media. which is where their chat is not suitable for me.

I don't know the meaning of the social media friends. Whether you became friends with them through social media or they're your friends whom used to communicate through social media. If they're friends found through social media, then there is nothing to feel down. It is all because they've got someone else on the social media to communicate. If they're your friends who communite through social media then you might've done something wrong and the entire friends could've discussed on it. Everything is just an assumption, right way is to meet a person and try to know the real reason.

A few years ago meant more than a year, and I think what happened is normal because some people definitely experience and friends will experience changes when they haven't seen each other for more than a year. And this includes being indifferent if you only say hello or ask ordinary questions, because there are no important questions.
And they are just friends, not best friends. If they are your best friend, maybe they will reply or answer your messages even though they are busy.
Don't be sad just because of things like that, you have to keep thinking positively even if there is disappointment because thinking positively will make you fine. And there are times when we have to change, including what you are experiencing, even though you can't accept it because it makes you confused, you have to accept it. And that's okay because that's life, sometimes there are things we don't realize and vice versa. And we have friends or companions not only in the real world, but also in cyberspace or on social media who don't need to make us feel annoyed.

It is truly they all advice me wholeheartenedly to do something with life, for years, they keep trying to tell me the same advices, it was the time we could have any topic to talk about, but there is nothing can be done for loser like me, I even hate myself for being so bad ass, I can also tell my attraction level probably drop to the ground, nobody would attract to me anymore, they don't even want to talk to me or help to lift me up again. Honestly I don't have the plan to be in crypto for far too long, I was gonna dump soon and begin to rebuilld my life from scratch, I have enough of how rotten I'm right now in their eyes, I feel disgusted of myself.

tbh, I had commited greatest sin could possibly be, I personally took down the entire stock market forum, I thought it was fun but I didn't really think much about the consequence, I was real asshole and go around telling them they are all gonna get rugged just like the wsb, tbh now I feel full of remorse, I didn't know it was fun and better when we are having stock market, although we make all the bad and losing trades but it was fun despite we all loss a lot of monies, idk I think I am very wrong to destroy them completely.

No doubt I had been quite asshole lately to them, I was emotional, and I know I'm trying to play a game with them, we are just having fun, but the fun is over when the entire stock market crash and burn, I was the one of the many who bring the entire stock forum, it is very bad I even feel guilty about it, Idk I think I'm too unforgivable now, what a big sinner I'm for rattle them the entire world for fun.

People lose interest in a person over time and you are talking about social media friends so I assume highly that my assumption is the reason. But it doesn't to be a cause for concern according to me, if they don't give attention to me then I would say f**k them and move on with my life because I got my life to lead and I am not gonna waste even seconds for someone who doesn't care about me.

You will get used to it and to get rid of it just make new friends over the same social media and avoid connecting with them emotionally.

Fine, I get it now, I'm too selfish, too calculative, don't get me wrong, I would be generous very soon, it is just I'm being forced to switch mode constantly, what do you think should I begin to be generous to them from now on, obviously I was too harsh on them after they poke me real hard for fun, please let me discuss this I beg you, don't ignore me please!

It is quite unbelievable that no one on your social media friend list would want to chat or associate with you.  And it is also quite impossible for something bad to have happened to them all. There is definitely something wrong somewhere.

Before they ghosted all ghosted you finally, how has your mode of communication with them been? What kind of topics and conversation do you bring up? Probably,  there is something you do that is a big turnoff for them and over time, they became bored. You can go through your previous chats with few of them, just maybe,  you might find answers to your questions. You can try calling them if you have their phone lines just to satisfy your curiosity. If you can't get any concrete reason for their change of attitude towards you, why bother about people who clearly don't want to be friends with you? You can't be friends with everyone. Move on and be with those who want to be with you.

lmao, too bad, out of 1000 added friends in the social media, zero of them reply me, not even once, is it the time to delete all of them? lmao, honestly I find the social media itself very stupid from the very beginning, never once I thought it had grown to a monsterous quickly, btw it might be the time to finally give it a BIG left.

But last but bot least, I won't stop receiving dating letters, they are basically hinting me they enjoy it since I'm giving them a good night, omg I'm nearly bleeding my nose now.

i think it's what they call user-friendly.
they can only be there when they need you and use you when you have something to share with but in the times when are down, they avoid you.
happen all the time to people who are unsuspecting of someone's intention. in the trying times, the closest friends of yours who come to help are the true ones and without condition.

heh, I think you are trying to say, when the tough time arrived, you would know who is the friend within the group of beehive, when good time everybody trying hard to get near and befriend you. It reveal the ugly of human nature! They come to you for problems, they run away when your are troubled. Now they don't even give a damn to waste time on replying you despite all it cost them is just a few second of keyboard input.

Don't give them attention if they are ignoring you. Not everyone deserves your attention. Don't kill them with kindness, kill them with silence. If you keep pushing them to talk to you, they will see you as a desperate person and will try to take advantage of it. Just remember this, a boy becomes a man when he realizes that no one will come for his help. You will have to walk this path all alone.
Instead of focusing on what is past, focus on your present so that you can build a strong future. When you become successful, you won't have to worry about friends anymore. They will come to you.
Or am I getting the whole topic wrong? Is it because they are successful right now so they are avoiding you? Well this things happens. Don't take everything personally. Move on with your life.

It's tempting to believe they're ignoring you on purpose, but there might be other causes. Changes in people's life, such as increasing obligations or personal issues, might absorb their time and energy. Alternatively, group dynamics or interests may have shifted. Rather than leaping to conclusions, consider approaching someone directly to voice your concerns and inquire about the group's present situation.

It could be that they are all just busy or you annoyed them all lol people tend to dislike friends who comment on topics about Palestine or Russia. It's like the cancel culture is everywhere. It creates tension in friends and it breaks families apart.

Post some jokes and memes, they tend to engage when scenes are happy as it brightens someone's day. And when they react like thumbs up, that's the time you ask if you can loan $50.

Well, perhaps they feel you bother them so much without it being productive in the end, that's why they don't even bother to reply.
You OP, should be able to introspectively scrutinize yourself as to why such is happening. Maybe you haven't leveled up to their stand and don't intend to in the nearest future.

Let me tell you a secret, once you get to invest in cryptocurrency mostly BTC as you earn, with a steady DCA strategy, am sure in a couple of years, these same friende would be the ones to call just to hear from you.
Crypto is decentralized and personal to a very long extent, and the way you earn or make profit from it either by trading or HoDling, would guarantee your independence from these friends.

Well the long post is honestly spot on, no doubt I had sink into ridicule instead of having mind provoking thought when answering. Part of it is due to I'm getting quite drained of energy, if I was to go through one by one reply with deeply thought reply, it is insane, I'm not superman, I would have to be died to overthinking myself to dead just to please the readers, but it is disturbing, despite I'm hinting I would not entertain some unworthy reply but it is still spammed with countless reply which I couldn't do nothing about, it is here to wearing down me or it is just want to harm me idk, don't blame me for low grade reply, I am very drained to answer one by one honestly, I am also a lot less healthier now, you must know I need to be healthy to think deep, cheers!

Can you tell me what's been going on in your life lately? Have you been having any financial problems? When people find out about your financial struggles, some may not be able to help you and ignore you, while others may not want to help you even if they have the means to do so. Some people may be too busy with their own lives to lend a hand. I consider myself lucky because I know that if I'm ever struggling, there's someone I can turn to who will listen to me, even if they can't solve my problems. Having someone who will lend an ear when you need it is important. If you want to be that person for someone else, make sure you're willing to listen and support them, not just help them because you need something from them.

review your topics of conversation. scrutinise your conversations.. look at where your topics have not been part of the main conversation. look at where you have tried too many times to trigger a topic they have not wanted to discuss but you kept pushing
...

funny part is i do not ass-kiss people on this forum. and yet even after years certain adversaries still want to comment and get involved in conversations with me. its actually difficult to get people to ignore me because deep down they know my topics have substance and they spend time "trying" to overcome my points
they might end up just slinging insults instead of providing proof. but they still engage because the topics are worthy of discussing even if opinions differ

so look at the topics you discuss and see your history of peoples responses and see where you may have gone wrong and bored people to death or poked at them with topics of irrelevance, learn to fund topics of worthy converse, topics of depths that can promote discussion

the only real topic that would break friendships would be if you try to inform your friends of your similar experiences and comparisons between you and them of romantic acts YOU have performed on THEIR spouses.. definitely a friendship killer

Do you mean all your followers or friends on social media platforms don't give you any response to the messages you send to them, like on your Facebook or Messenger accounts? If your answer is yes, it means that there seems to be a problem or something wrong with you.

When you know they have read your message and only seen zone or no comments, it means either they don't want to talk to you or they may already know the reason why you chatted with them. It's like all your friends are weird and don't want to replay you; wouldn't you be surprised? Won't you think about what you did that they saw in you that they didn't like something like that?

How is your financial condition recently, if you are experiencing financial difficulties, it means they are avoiding you. The true nature of a friend will be seen when you are experiencing financial hardship or difficulty, those who only use your money will avoid you when you are in trouble. Stop trying to chat with them, let them sleep in silence without any chatter from you. Prove it to them with success, they will regret ignoring you when they see you are more successful than them.

If people don’t have time to reply to you then they are not worth bothering with. People who love & care for you will always find time to respond to your messages. If you feel like you’re getting ghosted then it might be time to assess your friendship circle & make some changes if required.

That’s normal especially if you havent done anything to make them distant from you. Are they your close friends? Consider thinking deeper. Well if they really are your friends and there is something going on thats why people arent messageing then they shouldve told ypu.
But usually, people might be caught up in stuff. Give it a bit, and they might pop back up. If you're really curious, maybe drop a casual message to see what's going on.

Let me tell you this in case you don't know, things don't just happened like that without having a reason behind it, now you're so worried of their non challant attitude to you, yet you're not busy concerned about what may be the reason for taking such actions altogether on you, but for someone like me, i will first suggest you look into these possible reasons and make research on them.

1.  You might have offend them unknowingly to you
2. Your account might be once hacked and they ignored the scammer
3.  They might have heard something wrong about you they are displease with and acted upon
4. Try reachout to other people and check for the same reason if it continues that people keep ignoring you
5. If you're less important to some people, they try to ignore you, things might have changed very much from how you left them.

Do you means you have no such problems? So everybody else social media is as busy as usual, it is just me that is the wrong? May be it is just mine is wrong, not you not him or not their social media.


I swear I approach them exactly just like how we usually do some years ago, even in the same tone and manners, even the topic that we used to banter non stop years ago, but I didn't see any reason why they decide to be complete silence, it was all the same chat just like years ago they should be able to effortlessly answer it, but they ignore it instead.

Just take some consideration since not everyone is active on social media so maybe they are busy on their own hustle and didn't bother to go back those messages they read online.

Also try to approach them nicely and say that your intention to approach them is not to ask some loan or credit and just want to say hello for them. Since usually people will not reply if they know the intention of people.

Extend more your patience since maybe they have other things that needed to take care for and answering you is not in their priority but later on maybe you might get an answer from them.

they didn't reply because
1. they are tired and they are on diet thus couldn't active no more
2. they find my chat is lower IQ than lukewarm water temperature and un-interested, thx to particularly years of debooking and anti-work and redpill
3. they are too busy answering calls, who want to use chat, want to reach me then call me not text me! Text me would be ignore automatically
4. they only reply to something interest them, so far all my topic is too broad thus they do not know how to reply, they just ignore them. I had to be specific when texting
5. their device is broken, or the internet is broken, or the text didn't reach them for unknown reason, censorship?

not all people will nice to you, but if all of them not nice to you, it means there's something wrong with you.

The silent is frigthening me, they was very active some years ago, but rn the last few weeks I try to chat with them, they don't even reply once but I swear they read my chat, but they do not reply, not even once, idk why they suddenly all turn, turning COLD, colder than ice, THEY basically GHOST me!!! Is something happens to them that they are so busy that they can't even reply once? I mean ALL of them, not just one or two or them, IS ALL OF THEM, it is like complete silence!