It has been explained really well by talkbitcoin and I don't think using a light weight wallet is really that big a issue.
In which thread do you think it is best explained?
Use search function because there are ton of topics that explain it.
Light wallet like Electrum is safe until you know how to keep your private keys secure. If you don't want to spend extra money on hardware wallet then you can encrypt your private keys with f.e. VeraCrypt and store them on external storage. Also you can create a paper wallet, there are many tutorials on youtube. Paper wallets are safe but less convenient and durable.