Topic: Are you nice to people who are mean to you? (Read 796 times)
Yes very nice
I always behave nice to every people whether he/she used to behave rude or nice Because I also mean to that person so what the difference between them and us remaining.
My latest nice act: https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/m.12804435
Oh Gleb. You always make me giggle.
For me yes but offcourse he went beyond the line involving dead relatives as a joke then its different.
just ignore them if they're being mean
you can't change them that easily
you can't change them that easily
No matter how other people act, you always have to be nice to them.
My latest nice act: https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/m.12804435
If someone is mean to u, u cant just smile to him. I either ignore or act meanly as well.
Yes, because I believe in karma, and karma says you need to be good if you want to receive good from people.
I am trying this new concept where I'm just nice to people that are mean to me.
its not a new concept , all religious God's became famous by doing exactly that.it can only prolong the fight IMO.
It's not your fault you couldn't tell though. Poe's Law, and whatnot.
As for prolonging fights by being nice, well....it kind of depends on the person and how big their pride is, and if they want to end the fight. Most of the time, I like to reveal when I'm feeling threatened or hurt by sometimes lashing back. Sometimes if you bully someone that's bullying you, they stop. Not in all cases though.
For how long can we fight though would be my main point. I would rather just love than hate.
yes, off course. If they are not nice to you, they are not the right ppl you should be friends with. In our life, there are always that kind of ppl. But if you are nice to them, I bet most of them would be nice to you.
I agree with what you say.
Most of the people will be good to you, if you are good to them.
Sometimes they become mean because they want you or challenge you to become more responsible.
They want to see if how you'll handle that kind of situation.
yes, off course. If they are not nice to you, they are not the right ppl you should be friends with. In our life, there are always that kind of ppl. But if you are nice to them, I bet most of them would be nice to you.
I agree with what you say.
Most of the people will be good to you, if you are good to them.
Sometimes they become mean because they want you or challenge you to become more responsible.
They want to see if how you'll handle that kind of situation.
Most people, if not all, who are willing to be aggressive to others have real issues and usually nobody who is really behind them. Also if you show respect and understanding in scary situations they often just disappear (in my experience).
It depends on the situation.
yes, off course. If they are not nice to you, they are not the right ppl you should be friends with. In our life, there are always that kind of ppl. But if you are nice to them, I bet most of them would be nice to you.
No if someones treats me like dirt the favor will be returned,
respect earns respect
respect earns respect
Agreed one in return for the other.
No if someones treats me like dirt the favor will be returned,
respect earns respect
respect earns respect
I am trying this new concept where I'm just nice to people that are mean to me.
its not a new concept , all religious God's became famous by doing exactly that.it can only prolong the fight IMO.
Hm? Tell me.
I am trying this new concept where I'm just nice to people that are mean to me. It doesn't help to fight fire with fire. I would rather just love you and hold you and have you hold me too than hate you and fight with you all the time. It takes more muscles to frown than to smile, and you get more anxiety from tension rather than no tension at all.
I am trying this new concept where I'm just nice to people that are mean to me. It doesn't help to fight fire with fire. I would rather just love you and hold you and have you hold me too than hate you and fight with you all the time. It takes more muscles to frown than to smile, and you get more anxiety from tension rather than no tension at all.
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