At some point when you're receiving hundreds of payments per day, your Hot wallet may not fully sync while connected to public Electrum servers.
Setting your own server and changing the setting related to that limit will work but you may as well use the required full node's wallet that doesn't have that limitation.
Some clarification in BTCPay Server's options:
3. Private key or seed - Provide the 12 or 24 word recovery seed
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- Second: I cannot use that option
- Third: Everything I do there gives me an error on top of an error.
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if I take my Seed 12 - 24 words and paste them into the field, I get an error:
The master fingerprint and/or account key path of your seed are not set in the wallet settings.
Useful if you want to keep the wallet Air-Gap to be used for signing purposes only and let BTCPay create the transactions.
Number three option requires you to set the Account Key path in your BTCPay's setting which is equivalent on the "Derivation path"
showed below Electrum's 'Script type and Derivation path' window when you restored it there.
Then the "Master fingerprint" is the first four bytes of the HASH160 (SHA256 then RIPEMD160) of the public key pair (without the chain code) of the master private key.
Electrum doesn't show it, some wallets like Sparrow and Bitcoin Core do.