Topic: Be in charge of these three things (Read 165 times)

I think his orientation is poor, going through his profile, his posts needs a lot of corrections to be up to the standard that the forum terms constructive. I believe he is still learning, and I also think he skipped some pre-requisites to quality engagement in the forum. His replies to posts sometimes needs some polishing to clearly send the information across. I'll direct him to the beginners and help board to go there and know his onions well because if not, growing will be harder for him in the forum judging from his patterns of engagement.  

People's opinions actually matters but it shouldn't be a basis of judgement for yourself, instead a fact for review and possible improvement, different opinions can be a mind opener to some mistakes you make that yourself isn't aware of and can help  you come out better only if you're not a pessimistic person. You need constant reviews about your activities so that you can improve on the quality of those activities. The key is simple, do not take reviews personal whether it is constructive or destructive, just have a self evaluation, pick important points and discard the derogatory ones and life goes on. Companies who serve the public thrive more when they obtain feedback from their targeted audiences. They use those feedbacks to straighten up their shortcomings and Improve service quality. In my team of developers, we request feedbacks from every member of the team and even the public sometimes to ensure success as two to three good heads are better than one.

Your attitude towards money determines if it stays longer or vanishes quickly, even before you have a good grasp on it. You ought to develop what is called financial intelligence which is how to maintain constant flow of income. The best way to keep money intact and appreciating is by investing rightly, the investments can be in form of a skill on yourself, Agriculture, Real Estate, Bitcoin, commodities importation, or whatever seems right and profitable to you. I must mention that you don't dive into investment without proper understanding of vital concepts and modulus operandi. Lastly, there is time for everything, adequate time planning will help you have time for recreation, friends and family so your quest for financial stability doesn't have the best of you.


Past experiences are there to guide you to success, your success is calculated not by how many times you fell down, but how many times you fell and got up to finish what you started. you need to be open minded so you can view every challenge not as a stumbling block, but a stepping stone to success.

Decision making should be personal and it should be a personal thing and by the influence of anybody or any thing, people allow themselves to be controlled by peoples advise but I think that this can be detrimental is not checked by individuals, we should always be in charge of the game, though I didn't say that advice given to an individual by some persons should not be taken serious, we should always filter advice and chose the good ones then dispose the wrong ones, but we must know that humans are very manipulative, they enjoy it when you put their advice be it good or bad into consideration.
Money can turn people into something else but it takes a mature mind to be in control and maintain his normal life style, humility should be the number one thing everyone should keep up because know one know tomorrow and that's they major reason why we should be humble at all time.
Past experience has changed the mindset of many people, the thing is that in this as people can only forgot their past experience once they encounter a good present experience, this things are natural and they are easily said than done.

Op all this things wey you take yan so, no be lie. There's some past experiences for man life wey dey discouraged person to give it a try again, some sef go dey make person dey reason say him be looser for this Life, nothing fit work for am base on say him don try am before and nothing turnout for am. Make we dey always remember say person wey never experience am before won't understand how e be for this life. Make past experiences be a lesson for us to motivate us not to trouble our souls. Everyone of get past experiences to the extent that if you try to do something again, bad Belle are always there to remind you of your past, we should always be ourselves and prove them wrong that it was our past not the present.

That's right, experiences of the pasts would always teach us lessions to figure what where we've actually been faulted which then brought us in a mile of failure. So it enables us to readjust in other to avoid all those wrong paths in other for we to proceed in person progressing with the acte of our past. So it's nice of the pasts can also be detected and defined for acknowledgements.
Also crucial to be adamant to the people with bad energies of influencing on our ventures.

Opportunities comes at a cost. Experience have taught me great lesson, I'm not giving up but always finding solid means to learn and unlearn before earning in the system. We become successful based on the fact that we've been holding our head up and anticipate in consistent works that will trigger promising results for everyone of us. We come acrossed top challenges every single of our lives on planet earth. We don't give up but strive for more excellent results, atleast we should be aiming for greater cause.

You are absolutely correct, na all these things dey bring man down, we too dey listen to wetin go talk and na the fear of that dey make us do wetin we no supposed do, or make us take some kind decisions wey we no supposed take all in the name of wetin people go talk, forgetting say human being na human being, if u do good, dem go talk, if u do bad, dem go still talk, so anything wey we do for this life, people go surely talk, so mk we leave wetin people go talk, just do the right thing and also money na one of the influencers for this our country infact the whole world at large, money dey good and bad but it depends on us whether we go allow am mk e mk us good or bad, also past experience na wetin dey really draw us back instead mk we just leave the past wer e dey, focused on our future and we go see say our lives go change for good.

Past experience should be used as a lesson for us to learn from if the experience crumbled us, or was a bad experience, so that we can avoid what led to such. The love of money is the problem here, because whoever loves money than himself will definitely be controlled by money. The moment you allow money to control you, you will make wrong decisions that you will regret later.

People are always there to act as if they can control us, and when you give them the opportunity, you are finished. This is because they will mislead you. Give it up all to God, so that he can take absolute control of everything that you are doing, and you will always become successful.

It is controversial to undertake people's opinions because no one is a master of all knowledge.
If you do not live to put in considerations about other people then you are probably an ignorant and would have more mistakes going about yourself.

We are Africans so let me bring you to this adage that says "He who climbs the tree might not be able to find the fruit that got him up but those who are on the ground are best in position to see the fruit and so also them being on the ground floor are the ones to guide him through where the fruit is situated and then he who is up can get reach to the fruit."

Let me also remind you that he who takes the wrong way would be ignorant to it until it is resulted negatively
So I am on the objective that we should also consider peoples opinions most especially considering the potential capacities of the individual in question of the opinion.
So otherwisely, putting peoples Opinions does not really mean they are in control of you but it by sensitive that someones opinions to you is for their selfish interests they  it is wise enough to desist from them

Making money is necessary because It serves us as ticket for exchange with our needs that is monetary affording such as basic essential needs and then follow the expensive and luxurious expenditures which are almost obtained by monies.

But on the course of chasing after this money is what we should be careful and Concious about because its interests is much enticing which could possibly attract an individual to fall lawful victim along the lines by striving to get the money by all means without considering the risk factors and also lost of consciousness.

Even when the money finally arrives at your doorstep you should not let it potential influence to rule by engineering you to engage on inhumanity actions such as oppressing and intimidating others below your worths with it or even spending unnecessarily believing the money has come to stay while money that is not invested has a potential of bankruptcy.

So being aware that it is necessary to grow your money to gain more would always help your financial fitness.

Your past experiences should always serve you courage to grow and conquer on your quest.

Sad memories should summon you courages to beat the sadden past and you must be inspired that life does not end when things seems unbearable for you so that alone should be an instigation to muscle you up so you could always have the past as history that motivated your forwardness of todays.

If by happy memories there it should also motivate you to do more better and you should also be inspired that there is no growth in a stagnation so you do not just have to be contented relying unwavering with your joyful past experiences. Instead the past should serve you an applaud to encourage you to further your winnings.

Without doubt. Let's begin with individuals and their thoughts. It's crucial to remember that people's perceptions of us are frequently shaped by their own personal experiences and prejudices, rather than who we truly are. For example, someone may criticize us based on how we seem or dress, yet this says nothing about our character or personality. Alternatively, someone may criticize us based just on a single error we did, without regard for context or circumstance. So it's critical to take people's opinions with a grain of salt and not let them define us. When we know what's truly important to us, it's simpler to disregard outside voices that attempt to guide us in a different way.

Em d dey very hard for an individual not to be controlled by any of the mentioned word "people, money, or past experience". It is either an individual is controlled by one or all of them as the case may be.

You see people and past experiences, peso go fit do away with them, not allow it to control them but you see "money'', money controls and changes people to be another version of themselves, wey go make people that knows them before will be surprise on the character they will begin to display.

You see money, it has ended people's long-time friendship, it has made brothers sell or kill their brother or friend because of their envy of money. Because of this same money, the young ones who have made money, money don turn them to be disrespectful to their elders, and it made them to be arrogant and living I don't care life of smoking and clubbing without taking about their future on how they can raise a godly home of where peace and unity would reign

Bro I know say you dy new here, but there is so many things wey you surpose no do, that's why e dy very important to read the rules and regulations before you start to engage in discussion, I decide to talk this issue here because you be naija person like me, if not, na for that politics and society I for respond to your op post.

You don create one topic and post am for two places, try to dy reason before you do some things, abi you think say we no dy near that (politics and society) place? Try to dy help urself, and no be like this you go use help yourself, see the link to the other post,   https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/no-matter-what-dont-let-your-life-be-controlled-by-three-things-5491460

Op this is true non of these listed items need to be ignore as long life is concerned. But the area I want to concentrate most is about people as their criticism is very important in our life though it may be two sided such as negative and positive base on how your able to manage it but people criticism is the reason why many today has reached the level they are now in their achievement,  allow negative criticism to weigh one down shows that the person itself don't know what he wants.

People criticism is tool to promote life weather negative or positive the ability of you to filter and generate good things out of all criticism make you balance in the realms of life.

Examples many people take challenges of criticism and change their narrative from what they are know before to something better that even those that criticized them, it means criticism is good but it's a matter of perception on the individual.

I think this is important and it goes in two ways, bad experience and good experience. Depending on the one we want to reminisce on, they are all capable of lessons.

So if we are going through certain present situation and such situation we have had bad experience on it then we should learn from the past to know how to work on it and never to allow the experience to happen again as they say is a foolish person dat allows fall for what he has experienced before. So also we can use our past good experience to help current situation both for us and people around us.

Life is not without its challenges. When they come its your duty to allow those challenges to win you or you remain the winner... You don't let yourself get controlled by this three things;

PEOPLE= their opinions of you doesn't really matter, take objective look at every criticism know what it is that readjusted and leave people in their trying to wound your life.

MONEY = it comes and goes but it your duty to learn how to make it stay and use it and don't let use you.. Don't let money deny long term happiness... Because when you finally get money then you will know it's limites in life.

PAST EXPERIENCES = you have memory not trouble your soul but to avoid mistakes you did in the past should scenarios show up again...

DON'T LET YOU BE CONTROLLED BY
PEOPLE
MONEY
OR PAST EXPERIENCES