Thanks looking for a non-custodial wallet with both lightning and on-chain capabilities where I own my coins and can connect to my node...
That should work with Breez. So far, it seems like it's the most feature-rich mobile Lightning wallet, especially since it has a developer menu which offers all of the low-level LND commands. So if something's not doable through the GUI, you can type out the command for it.It does have the option to connect to your own node and the funds are non-custodial, meaning the application runs a full LND node and can create channels just like any other Lightning node.
Phoenix and Muun are also both non-custodial (I own my coins), but don't offer such low-level access where e.g. in Breez in case of an issue or something, you could literally go and manually force-close channels. Muun seems like a good option if you do a mix of Lightning and on-chain payments, since it keeps / moves part of the balance on-chain and another part off-chain. It should be practical for many users, however it often makes for more expensive Lightning payments (if the amount exceeds your 'internal LN balance', it has to be swapped on-chain with regular fees). A lot of time has passed since I last tried it though, so it's possible things have changed.
