Any suggestions?
1) Bitcoin-Qt's window getting black is due to the design decisions made by the Core developer's to keep the reference client tightly integrated. It is more of a cosmetic issue for vast majority of users who don't try to integrate with other financial software.
2) You computer is kinda crappy, from the vendor that is recently known to ship borderline-scam computers to meet marketing targets. Learn to make use of what you have or buy/assemble something better, even using older parts. Notwithstanding the above comment the reference Core client is quite well-optimized and serves as a decent hardware stress-test for CPU, memory, disks and their controllers.
3) Your network connection definitely seems sub-standard. Do you even have a real Internet connection or are you using some CG-NAT cheapie?
4) Avoid posting your actual IP address on this board. It is full of sharks who probably run all kinds of scans on your computer to find possible misconfiguration and steal your coins. There were all kinds of scammers offering remote help via TeamViewer (or similar tools) to rip people off.
The decision is really up to you.
1) Once the download was over (a couple of hours ago, after about 10 days), the software is running smoothly now , with no crashes at real time until now.
2) thanks. you're right.
3) I have a very good internet connection, I think.
4) I am well aware of that. My wallet is and will always be with zero bitcoins in it. Never keeping coins in it. Even if sharks attack my PC with malicious software - I will replace my PC with a new one if needed. I will not be a victim of a scam. Nothing to steal from me. Zero balance on bitcoin core, with known IP. Just trying to help the net. I am aware of needed Bitcoin security:)