If you had a discussion with a lot of senior members on this forum about anonymity you would find out that a lot of them think Bitcoin is fool proof anonymous and they will die on that sword. I was reading a topic from a couple of years ago and there was multiple legendary members arguing that it is anonymous. It is not just newbies which believe this but those that have been registered for 3+ years.
It was anonymous for them. They could have hidden themselves behind any number of VPNs while mining without being discovered. As long as they don't interact with KYC systems, then they can possibly stay anonymously pseudonymous. Still, that means that they are limited in the ways they could use their fortunes.
if you know the name of someone, but don't know where to find this person, is this person anonymous?
That is not anonymous but identified.
is it a question about perspective? am i anonymous for some, but not for others?
Often, yes. You could have been identified through a way that you didn't realize, such as browser fingerprinting
https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2017/11/panopticlick-30if we talk about bitcoin and say it is not anonymous, are we talking about the holder of the bitcoins (the holder of the private key to be exact)? or are we talking about the bitcoins, from where they came and where they go?
For owners of addresses that have not been linked to an individual, they are anonymous.
They are also pseudonymous, in that their addresses specifically ties to an individual or group.
For addresses that have been linked to an individual, like through KYC, they are identified.
Identified addresses to/from a major exchange are anonymous to most of us but link to identifiable individuals.
So, normally people say bitcoin is pseudonymous. Not quite anonymous, not quite identifiable.