I've read a lot of posts on this subject, so I feel a bit naive asking again. A week ago I had to start from scratch after restoring my wallet. I let the client run overnight and sometimes all day. The client only receives (in the debug window) ~ 2GB overnight. I never observe more than 8 outgoing and 2 incoming connections. Here's what I think is relevant that everyone asks about:
Maybe that last clue might suggest to someone where I can go from here?
(while typing this dazzlepod.com is trying to connect to bitcoin-qt and also getting CLOSE_WAIT as do some others)
At this rate, I won't catch up for ~ 2 weeks, if ever.
[edit] i'm watching tcpview while i posting.. ..some connections do establish. some go to SYN_SENT/LAST_ACK, i'm assuming most of this is all normal. I restarted the client just before posting this, and it seems that it's doing better in the last 15 minutes than it was some previous hours. however, i still don't understand i can't establish more than ~2 incoming and 8 outgoing.