But last year the device that we used for that specific wallet and also the notes of password were on my room, but the house got caught on fire and unfortunately everything was burnt down.
But last week i opened my hard drive to put my wedding pics on it, ive found the backup of wallet.dat on it, but we have no idea how the password could be.
I have the wallet.dat only the password is missing.
Both of you must do the best to remember pattern, length or other characteristic of the password. Have you checked these options?
1. Possibility that one or both of you also made backup of the password or note of the password.
2. Possibility of re-using password or password characteristic that being used elsewhere.
3. Whether you use password generation software.
4. Whether your hard drive contain the password or note of the password.
Bitcoin Core use strong encryption, which makes it's impossible to perform naive brute-force your wallet.dat file unless you used weak or short password.