I thought Electrum did also allow you to change the outputs before signing & broadcasting the second tx, but apparently it does not.
thanks for reply to all.
can you please detail more this step by step?
thanks in advance
1. Disconnect Electrum (for example enable proxy in "Tools -> Network" or turn off your router).
2. Open Console and type:
3. Press "F5" for refresh or reopen wallet.
4. Fill your new transaction (the fees must be higher), press "Preview", press "Sign". After signing press "Copy". Close this window.
5. Connect Electrum to internet. Your old transaction will appear again, it's okay, don't pay attention to it.
6. Press "Tools -> Load transaction -> From text", paste from clipboard your new signed transaction and press "Load transaction".
7. Press Broadcast.
Specify if there's anything you don't understand.