Why is the word "scam" tossed so carelessly around these forums? Let's not confuse "legitimate operational setbacks" with "scams."
BitInstant's debit card is real. It is in the works. You have no idea how much red tape is involved in the "real world" of money and payment systems. I know that "we're working on it" isn't an ideal answer, but we are, and we will deliver.
BitcoinWireless is also real and I know many are patiently awaiting it (as am I since I have a phone like everyone else =) There is not a good reason for its delay thus far, other than that there are bigger projects in the works (and lots of travelling) which just suck time out of the days and weeks. Nevertheless, it will be up very very soon.
Meanwhile, we are dealing with investor relations, customer service (over 5,000 support tickets from a week ago when the site went down), hiring of new staff (which takes research, interviews, discussion), press and PR, bug fixes, finance and money transfers, conventions and trade shows, lunches with Bitcoiners and finance people, workarounds for the glitches of other peoples' API's, and sometimes we even need to shower. We also have tertiary projects (Coinapult, Paysius, FeedZeBirds, SatoshiDice...). On almost everything we need approvals, the negotiation of careful contracts, review and consultations by lawyers, and multi-timezone collaboration. Plus we just had a hurricane. And there's like... five of us.
Delays always deserve an apology, and as such we apologize for the delays. Rest assured we're moving as fast as we can, trying to attack and build these things from all angles.
If you're getting impatient, I encourage you to start building things as well. Lord knows there are an infinite number of projects awaiting us in this new ecosystem. Please hang in there with us