Tricking people is easy, keeping their trust is harder, even if they are beside you for years they won't trust you ever, these people do not value logic or preservation, they are run by emotional values... a different breed.
Sooner or later someone will create a system that will not require that escrow service, Satoshi wrote that it would have to be done that way sometimes, unfortunately. But the dialogue is happening, new methods and technologies, new systems are being created now that this Bitcoin, the proof of concept has been proven. Sooner or later someone will find through process of elimination the best most resilient implementation.
Systems with absolute openness that are indestructible, ineffable, incorruptible, unbribable... the concept that a program combined with a solid system is unquestionable... the system will simply not allow you to do it any other way, you signed the terms of usage the moment you used it.
Just imagine if someone did this to our constitution or our bill of rights? Wrote those rights into a program and with a decent amount of insight created a system to work with it?
- What are the advantages of bitcoins (except anonymity) while making a transaction with an untrusted user?
- How to make a transaction with a party you don’t know? Are there alternatives to Escrows?
you have to assume the risk of the transaction can you trust them? can you afford to lose that money... are you aware that all transactions are recorded on the blockledger? you can keep track of that individual forever!
That is one big advantage the trust is removed my friend... if you get scammed you take that address and you follow it till the end of the universe or you find them. Yes a lot of work but if you follow the money it will lead you to a wealth of information about the individual, maybe even find their entire network, they have to buy something sometime and that will have an address.
To make a secure transaction without an intermediary would require you to be face to face, if it is done online you assume half the risk, half now half on delivery.
oh yeah you can do a triple+ signature requirement, so that the money is a little safer just using a intermediary, lets say a friend you trust who introduced you to someone they know for a purchase.