OP lost money, he is angry, frustrated, maybe sad. All of that is understandable. When he reads the above post of yours and the rest he will realize that he made a series of mistakes that led to the loss of funds.
I wish this would be the case.
A lot of people lose funds through multiple mistakes in a row, but quite a high percentage of them never sees themselves at fault.
They will keep blaming electrum (or any other wallet/service/whatever).
The majority of user here just want to get rich. They don't understand BTC and neither how to securely store their coins.
Instead of learning the basics on how to secure digital information, they just do whatever they are told on their colorful screen.
That's also one reason why it still is a long way until we reach mass adoption.
We need idiot-proof hardware wallets built into smartphones with double- or triple checking of each transactions. If then someone is going to lose funds by sending them to a wrong address.. well.. then they can't be helped anymore.
