@OP ~ Sir iasenko was right. If you are not comfortable here then choose to stay in your local board to avoid this misconceptions.
Please man, no SIR.. or if you gonna use "sir" here in the forum then use it like in the military.
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Sir iasenko, sir ;)
Noo, jk, it is informal forum here so everyone are like friends, no need for you to show respect this way, just assume that everyone here are equal human beings /well except for the bots/ and communicate with them as you gonna communicate with your fellow mates.
. I know that's toxic yet we can't do anything but just to report them. 
I only got what OP meant after reading to half of the thread and few responses. We should try and make ourselves clearer. 