To the people that say use hardware wallet and forget about anything else. I have one. But the thing is other coins i have... they are not compatible with the hardware wallet. So what do you do then?
Also if you trade on your computer for example and have wallets on it because your hardware wallet doesn't support those coins, you need to keep those wallets in your computer. So what is your option there?
So for example say your internet modem broke and you need to replace it. Or your internet router broke and you need to buy a new one. Would buying a used modem be fine or not if its used? What if the seller is very reputable? Now what if its a router? If you buy a used router from a reputable seller online, is that reputable? Because what would concern me is if the modem or router, you go online with it... then that person or anyone that put something in it could track your visiting websites and also track anything you do such as crypto or trading or banking etc. Could they put a keylogger or virus on a used modem? What about a router? I assume a router would be more likely but a modem isn't? Because if you need a new modem or router, is it unsafe to buy a used one or not? Also those of you that say well a new computer or equipment isn't safe because what you do it on can cause issues. Well of course. But i mean getting the actual equipment. So has anyone heard of cases where someone bought a used modem or wireless router and their computer got hacked/keylogged or anything like that with crypto?
A piece of paper with 12 words makes a solid cold wallet. You seem to be a little mistaken in what a wallet is, contrary to what the name suggests, it doesn't store coins. If anything, its the private key that allows you to move them, but they are not stored on any computer but the blockchain itself. What people lose when they lose their wallet (priv key) are not the coins, but the ability to move them anymore...
Now, being paranoid about the moment when you do want to move the coins is logical. You should, in fact, forget windows and osx, stick to linux, perhaps a live iso if only for the time you want to move coins around. If you use something like
Tails, it connects via
Tor only, so even if there is some sniffer in your router, it won't be able to catch anything.
If you DO install Linux, you can use encryption in your entire drive. With a decent password, even if stolen they won't be able to obtain anything.
While no OS is perfect, something like Linux is highly unlikely to fall victim to most common attacks. The best effort you can ever do towards protection, is starting to use it to drop any fears about it. There are
several distros to choose from, each catering to a different type of community. You should experiment and eventually find one where you feel confident, and start using that.
I have said it many times: It is far more difficult to secure windows than Linux, and for the most part Windows is always at risk due to its flawed design. The fact that you don't have full control of it, should give you a warning.