Topic: Can divorced couple reunite?? - please share experience (Read 728 times)

This kind of look right response and I also think it is possible. Usually when you are separated with someone and you stay with other people, you may find out the things you can not compromise and most important for you and where you see those things. So it may be in your divorced relationship that you can even work out your happiness more. Therefore, coming back is possible if the two people have found that they actually love each other and have made a mistake for not giving their relationship a chance.

Sometimes I don't blame some marriages because people changes easily. There are some marriages that could have crumbles if the other partner do not have the sense if forgiveness when things go wrong. One of the problems inso many divorced marriages is unforgiveness and misunderstanding. There would always be differences but it is important we try every possible ways to rectify it so that we don't end up with the wrong decisions that could cause bigger problem in the future.

Be Careful: Less than a year ago a friend of mine reunited with his beautiful ex wife. She stole over $10,000 worth of possessions, a stash of cash, and now has Facebook photos up of her new boyfriend wearing HIS stolen clothes!

Memory does not necessary mean he wants her back in his life.They were married and something led to their divorce.He might remember and admire one attribute she possess and might not want her back again.Divorce in this our contemporary society has grown so rampant due to lack of mutual communication among couples,lack of trust among couples and lack of sexual intercourse whatever the case may be it's rare for divorce couple to reunite,it's not like it doesn't happen but it's rare.

a new person who is a into marriage can separate today or a week after the marriage so what it takes them is understanding for them to come back because there is no crisis that does not have accept to me so marriage is like education so when both of you have realized your mistakes I think there is every possibility for both of you to come back to become husband and the wife so I have seen severally where this happened but the thing is that the love will not be there as it was before and the trust would be divided so that is the only thing that it different from being divorce and the come back again

It would depend on the couple if they want to be reunited, but I think most of the divorced wouldn't want to come back to their ex, I mean why would you even break up if you want them? or would you be willing to accept your ex even if they cheated on you?
There are so many reason why couple chose to break up or have a divorce, do you think they didn't try to fix it before deciding to end it all?
Imagine your ex having a blast or time of their life after your divorce or break up, then decided that they had enough and wants to settle down again with you are you willing to accept it?

Don't know much about divorce but from what I've heard it's okay for divorced couples to reunite. After the divorce they may realize their mistakes and therefore decide to stay together again. If a husband wishes to remarry his wife after divorcing her. But the only legal system for him is to do halal. But there are some sharia, they have to get married again according to sharia.

If you can leave with the fact that someone dipped his dropper into your wife, or your husband used his magic wand for others then go ahead, reunite.

I don't have experience of divorce, neither have a withnessed a divorced couple that came back together as husband and wife again, but I believe that it's possible, because marriage should be by choice. I think that it'll be very rare for divorced couples to reunite and marry again, even if they later realize that it was a mistake for them to go their separate ways, they'll still move on because of their pride, and they'll hope to meet someone better. I don't think that it's a good idea for divorced couples to come back and remarry again, because they might live in fear of offending each other again, to avoid another divorce, and this might remove the excitement in the marriage.

I don’t think it is forbidden. If may they both find the love in each other again, they can definitely give it a try. Think of it like a breakup and then they get back together (even if this is more than that). It is a rare thing but it’s beautiful because they get back together as they should have been, and if they have any kids, the kids don’t have to suffer anymore for their separation.

This is majorly based on the agreement between the two of they want to come back and reunite maybe because of the bond or children they have together. It is very important to understand that sometimes it could be very difficult for a couple that have separated and gone their different ways to come together again especially when they both have the ego of not want to agree with each other.
The love between them also matters if it still exists for a new bond to be formed again.

Yes I concur , divorce is not a death sentence that separate couple permanently as long life exist between the two divorce individual possiblity of reuniting can occur. Human operate with conscious mind at the point your your conscience begin to correct you in your errors the person may desire to go back and correct any mistake he/she has made, beside divorce come through conversation and can also reunite by conversation.

Some divorce is as result of persuasion not conceptional by the opponent during divorce the two parties can't be at fault it's fault from one person and the inability to accept correction at that point, but when correction is taken as at when the man heart or the woman heart navigate the truth reunion may take place so far live still exist among them.

it is no longer a rare thing when someone reunites with their ex. because in whatever country it is, there is no prohibition for someone to reunite with their ex, whether it is after 1 year or more, the most important thing is how committed the couple is and how they have been able to accept their partner's mistakes in the past and have forgiven them.

but maybe this will be a problem if the person is a christian, because in the christian religion a couple is not allowed to divorce. but in the islamic religion, this is fine, as long as the ex-wife/husband agrees to hold the remarriage contract in the mosque.

It's possible cause not all divorce was because of the other party wanted to get some property, some happened because of a cheating party and the other did such cause of anger, and if they really loved each other then they is a place for reconciliation and they could amend thigns and go towards a better part of life.

Yeah so couples divorced can get back together just the same way broken relationship can amend.

IMO they can if the decide to do so, they may have identify each other lapses and decide to work on themselves to stay stay together, marriage is a union that takes understand for both partners to be together, it takes understanding for both partners to stay without excalated issues, normally we should understand that it is not an easy thing for partners to stay together without problems but allowing it to grow to the extent seeking for divorce is another issue together but I know for sure that there is know problem that's not solvable is just a matter of both party coming together unify once again and let go of their individual differences.

I completely agreed about this all with we are rarely having couples those after divorce came together again but still happening because few years back my cousin done this mistake and as he feels he was wrong, and he commits mistake they came again together and now living together with better life and better way because it's all about human nature.
But in most cases this never happen because there are issues of personal likes and dislikes with many other aspects are also involved which create serious misuse and then things never gone as they have so they usually decide to stay away from this all and try to live their own life with other options which give them better and suitable way for life.

Not a good idea to divorce. The best alternative to divorce is to live seperatetly without getting married to another, and they can later comeback together when the issues that caused the seperation are sorted out. You can actually seperate without divorce, and to seperate in this case is to live apart from each other without saying you are nolonger husband and wife.
A couple may only divorce due to infidelity(sexual affair outside of marriage) otherwise there was never a divorce in the first place even if a court granted it... it's illegal annulment. So they can still come together if non has slept with another man/woman after the "divorce".

Your piece of work is too economical of words. You would have stated the obvious. But that would not stop me from contributing my ideas.
Marriage perse is a Divine contraption contracted by God almighty. So no person could put it apart except death. I'm coming from the christain perspectives. Though the couples come from different background, God has the ability to unite them together, and such unity is binding for life.
But where there is a disagreement between the two, major or minor, leading to divorce, reunion is permissible by the Almighty God. So what God allows, no societal ordinances could contravene, it becomes null and void in it's entirety.

Any couple that divorced and come back must have seen that they made a big mistake to call for divorce in the first place. They must have seen that they cannot do with each other, amd maybe they finally saw that no one can make them happy than their ex.

However, it is rare to see divorced partners coming together again. This is because they must have seen some dislikes in the person that they cannot cope with, which must have to divorce. The moment they are done, they find a partner to continue their lives with. Some of them might have even seen someone that they want to settle down with, and that was why they went for divorce.

IMO, that a couple decided to divorce doesn't mean they can't come together again no it doesn't, if they decide to go their separate ways legally and later decides to come back later I nothing is wrong about that since they are both adults who knows what they want. Yeah I think I have heard of a case where the divorced couples got back together and started dating again when they realized they can't stay without each other.

I don't have any statistical data at hand though, but I have got the impression those couples who decided to break up and separste their ways are very unlikely to reunite, it is possible, but not likely.
Usually, when divorced people start again by their own they may start dating and hanging around with other people they would like to start a new relationship.
Those stories about divorced couples reunited are something out of a Hollywood movie, it has kind of been implied into the popular culture of the population through the broadcast in the media. It is important to realize, it is not the norm but rather the exception when a couple come together again.

Actually, it is funny you mention this scenario, because I have got a cousin who may actuslly get together with his spouse after years of separation, if they do, it would be something like a little miracle.

Marriage isn't as easy as people take it to be. It's a union between two different people with different characters coming together. For a marriage to last forever, both couple must learn to tolerate each other. There is no way issue won't happen but the ability to settle it easily make the marriage stay long. Love nowadays lack tolerance and endurance and these are reason we see alot of broken home this days. Nothing bad if a divorced couple reunite, so far they have learnt from their early mistakes and have decided to always try to tolerance each other.

This is just simple truth about divorce as you spoken 99% of my mind. I see  Divorce just as just a simple mistake, its error was  not corrected at the point of occurance. Person  who make mistake of divorce can't still correct it's error by reuniting as long they are both alive and have come to agree where they disagree.

It's possible for divorced couples to reunite and probably remarry, although I've not witnessed it personally, but I know that it can happen, maybe in the case where they've tried other relationships and come to understand that they're more compatible and getting divorced was a mistake. I believe the reason why it's not popular for divorced couples to reunite even when they realized that it was a mistake to divorce in the first place is due to pride, what will people say when they see them together again after publicly going their separate ways. So I believe that even when they realize that they shouldn't have divorced they'll still want to move on, in the hope of finding someone else that'll fill the vacuum that the divorced partner has created.

The answer is yes, divorced couple can still reunite depending on reason why they divorced, my uncle divorced his wife because of her bad behavior towards his family and himself but now they have reunite and come together because of their children.
No matter what happens between two couples if they want to reunite they can and no body will say anything about it

First, Is not forbidden.

Marriage is based on Understandings, Tolerance, Care and also Adaptation.
If you can't adapt to situations it weakens the marriage and lead it straight to divorce,
If you can't tolerate your partner,it also leads same way. Same goes to Understanding. They all work together, if 1 is lacking and not fixed,it will surely end in divorce in time.

For a couple to reunite,they should be ready and agree to put all these in check, else is nearly impossible.

So, for me... A single point to take into consideration is whether the relationship was at first healthy and respectful. If there has been violence, unfaithfulness, or other severe difficulties, trying to bring back the relationship is probably not an excellent idea. On the other hand, if the relationship was generally sound and the split was caused by outside influences, it may be worthwhile to give it another shot. However, it is important to assess whether reuniting as a couple would be acceptable to any new relationships. So maybe it's appropriate to reconcile with an ex is entirely dependent on the situation and the individuals involved.

Regarding divorce, my culture or tribal customary rules regulate that it is legal for a divorced couple to reconcile. In my traditional tribe, divorce can be called talak, which is regulated in my traditional tribe. If a couple wants to divorce by applying for a 1/2 divorce at a later date, they can still reconcile and unite again, but if the third divorce has occurred, in the traditional tribe I can't be together again, why does one partner file for triple divorce because there are elements in it such as hatred, very vengeance or really don't want to be together again in the future. It may seem strange but that is our traditional tribal culture. but I have also heard news that couples who have been divorced with triple talaq status are reconciled and have to go through methods that are very complicated in my opinion. for example, if a couple has divorced with the status of 3rd talaq and wants to reconcile for various reasons, then each husband and wife are required to remarry another person first within the specified time limit, then if they are already married. with other people, the time limit has been set, it could be 2 months/3 months, then they file for divorce again with that person. and in the end the husband and wife were able to reconcile even though they were divorced with triple talaq status. It may seem strange but this is true. In my opinion, marriage is only done once in a lifetime. God, I really hate divorce, but if the marriage is tainted by infidelity/deviation then there is no longer any tolerance. The conclusion is that if the husband and wife relationship can still be repaired, repair it. But if it can't be repaired, the only way is separation. My input for every married couple, if there is a problem in the relationship, solve it with a cool head and don't occasionally make decisions when we are controlled by emotions...

Divorce decisions are not permanent.  Couples who are divorce can always come together if they decide to come together.  People getting divorced doesn't mean they can't fall in love again to come together to live as husband and wife. I have seen some couples who got divorced but after some year they got united again.

As a patriotic citizens, we should be after the unity of others and contribute the best in our capacity to see that things work out for those around us from the little way we could renders help to them in seeing that our influence is felt in their relationship or marriage in a positive way, it is very bad in seeing that some of us are the reason behind some marriage break up, and all couple's should learn to have each other in mind and love continually to keep the marriage alive.

Most of the divorced marriages I have seen never come together again. Many of them are separate from each others and the children have no option than to start there own life without the guidance of the union of the both parents. A divorce is never an option and we should never think of it e en when we are having problems in our family which might have been triggered by misunderstanding most time. Most relationships that and went asunder was as a result of cheating partners which is the sole reason of crumbled relationships.
 

I've seen a few case of couple patching up after a divorce, more so if they have kids. But that percentage is very low. Some don't go back just because of the humiliation.

It is possible to reconcile with a divorced partner, if you don't realize the nature, accept each other, be open, of course there is use. Indeed, everyone has the same desire to be understood and loved, but there are conditions in which complement each other so that the debate does not spread to everything that has been passed together and pry.

In my religion during the 40 days of divorce it can be remarried to the same person or to another person, but the problem is in the selfishness of each of them to reveal and invite back, maybe you can say shame / prestige.

Marriage is to go through the routine of the house together, without humiliating and ridiculing each other because both of them definitely want to be considered as life partners not burdensome on someone alone. conversations are always there and of course if it is based on this, there will be give and take, there are questions and answers and some of them.

When you no longer have it, you will feel and see the positive side of good behavior is natural, separation is sometimes due to miscommunication that is too eager to be right. If it can be fixed, many people who experience this and can maintain the marriage even if it has to be twice

Of course, they can get back and live their life just like nothing has happened to them. I can give you a guarantee that such things are happening throughout the world right now and just because some partners get separated after marriage, they cannot be together again, no not like that because they can fall in love again just like last time and this time there won't be any misunderstanding because throughout their separations they have learned the truth about their partners. They will just simply consider it to be some kind of thing they need to forget and if they are in love with each other again, then they can reunite back and once again live a happy married life.

It happens but my opinion is better not to reunite with the one you broke up for the better of both of their future because they split due to the disagreement with their opinion then after a year or two one person wants the other back may not really be they want to be with them, it must be they can't find anyone else so they are trying to hookup with the one.

Marrying your ex-wife is not forbidden in any country/ religion, but you have to follow some rules before remarrying your ex-wife/ husband. In my religion, a divorced woman must get married to another person and the person willfully divorce her. Only then, she can remarry her ex-husband. In my country, there is a board specifically assigned for such cases. You have to get a written Fatwa (clarification) from an Islamic Scholar before the marriage.  This is the only solution. I have limited knowledge about other religions or countries. 

Yes, there's always a room for rehabilitation and reunion if two couples have issues and had separated for long, if they both can realized their mistakes and let go the past, then its very possible for reignition of their love back to the way it was before, making a reunion rekindles the love between the parties and one of the most dangerous courses to separation is the admission of a third party into a relationship, then tolerance.

Lol, it's a new fact to me. I know some religions have rules, like Christians have a rule that nobody can divorce.

When I open the news page, I see the story of marriage breakup. Reunion after divorce is very rare. However, there are different religious contexts on whether a divorced couple can reunite. I don't know about the rules of other religions, but as far as I know in Muslim society, a divorced couple is prohibited from reuniting. I'm not saying they can't reunite but there are rules - if a couple gets divorced. Then the divorced woman must be married elsewhere, then if the husband voluntarily divorces her or dies, then the previous husband can remarry her.

Personally, I don’t think so.

There is always a reason why couples break up it must be
a huge one if two people who had already promised and declared a lifetime to each other in front of the church, their family, friends, and even the government would want to take it all back.

They would have never broken up if things were working out in
the first place. Well, it’s better to get out of it instead of letting yourself live an unhappy life.

You don't step into the same river twice. Do you know this saying?

I know a few divorced couples and they usually don't even talk to each other. There's too much bad blood between them and they don't want to try to fix things bevause they had enough time to try it out and failed. They know each other well now and are aware that they're incompatible.

The only thing that often joins divorced couples are children.

“Is it possible?” and “is it legal?” Are two different questions which require both very different answers.

“Is it possible?” Yes, but not for all couples. Some couples are way past that rebuilding phase to ever want to get back together. Some relationship are just not bad for us and at some point we have to accept that and divorce. Some people however do realize that they might just needed a little break from each other. Maybe their relationship is still fixable hence why they can still go back together after spending time away from each other because they realized how much they love each other still and how much willing they are to try again.

“Is it legal?” Yes a divorced couple can still remarry each other after divorce as long as both parties are still unmarried. You can still definitely get married again after a divorce no matter how wasteful of time and resources that must be. It’s also a tas bit embarrassing but hey! Life is not linear so do whatever makes you happy the most.

Divorce signifies the end of a marriage but it doesn't necessarily mean that the couple can never reconcile. Some divorced couples may realise that they still have feelings for each other & choose to give their relationship another shot. This can happen if both of them are willing to work on the issues that led to the divorce & are committed to making the necessary changes. Reuniting after divorce requires open communication, forgiveness & a genuine desire to rebuild the relationship.

Divorcing couples are less likely to unite. But that doesn't mean they don't reunite. I met three divorced couples who reunited. I have heard from them that the comfort or freedom they once had is later taken away when they break up and choose another partner. So they later returned to their former partner. In today's context, the rate of divorce has increased a lot so everyone should follow these two words as a principle in life. First compromise and second sacrifice. That is, in life, it is not possible to get everyone 100% according to oneself, so everything that does not match with one's life must be accepted as a compromise and sacrifice. Only then will no more incidents like separation happen. Whether you get back together after a breakup is entirely up to you and your partner. And there is nothing to stop it, you must have independence in this case.

People can divorce for several reasons, and some of them don't mean the love or connection between the couple has ceased. Maybe the person is just trying to tell or show the partner something he or she is unsatisfied about, so they get distant from each other in the process for a while, but as the time goes by, they miss each other even more, until finally giving up on their personal prides and reuniting once again. If it's common or not, I think it will depend on the country or culture we are talking about. When people are more strict on their decisions, it's likely you are going to see this often.

If it's good or not to reunite divorced couples, I also think we have to analyze the personal situations faced by each of them. If there is a history of abuses and violence, being it psychological or physical, I tend to disagree with the possibility of reuniting, because people have to walk ahead in life, and not get chained to suffering and anguish for whatever reasons they might consider, being them usually fear, insecurity and lack of self-esteem.

Relationships, like plants, require consistent nurturing and care to remain healthy and robust. When people return to a relationship with an ex without addressing the issues that caused the first breakup, it's like attempting to grow a garden in a drought: the chances of success are poor to none.

Consider this: if you want a healthy, growing garden, you must first take out the unwanted plants and water the healthy ones. It is the same with relationships. If your friend's uncle wants to make things work with his ex-wife, he must do the hard work to express themselves honestly and addressing old difficulties.

Mostly divorce always come from the side of the woman because it might feel like the man is having affairs outside, broken marriage is caused by lack of understanding of marriage and advice obtain from the female always break down family, marriage is union and if both parties is matured in brain disagreement will not exist in the marriage, some of the speration in marriage is as results of lack of understanding

I’ve heard that this can happen but I figure it is most likely the result of children or cost of living being much easier to handle as a couple. The old saying is that a relit cigarette never tastes as good. I’m sure there are examples of divorce making a relationship stronger, but I would be worried about the longer effects of mistrust.

As humans, in every relationship there is always misunderstanding between couples, many have serious bad experience which there is high level of expectations and disappointment, which causes them to separate. For example, a man marry a young girl, and after few years the  wife discovered that he already have children outside with another woman, this can lead to separation or divorce due to lack of trust.These is still possible that after divorce, both can still be reunited if they have the spirit of forgiveness and true love for each other.

Another way divorce can be reunited is through Islamic religion among the Hausa's in northern part of Nigeria, the practice allowed and permit reunited after divorce a woman, they can reunite again after divorce if the woman will agree to marry another man after the divorce from her first husband, she have to marry again with another man before her first husband can accept her back or before they can be reunited back according to the Islamic law.

Their is no curse upon any couples who decide to reunite after so many years of divorce; this is just something that's about the two people who are really coming together, and it's never anyone's business. 

It's only become a concern in a place where they live with so many traditional laws, laws that will forbid their daughters or sons from involving themselves in a divorced marriage, but those come with conditions like, during the time of the divorce, if the divorcée has any kind of affair outside of the marriage during this period of time, then their son can no longer have anything to do with the person. I have seen a tribe with such a law. 

Apart from that, I have seen many couples that got divorced and later came back together; it's just a matter of understanding between them, although they don't stay together for years before coming back together. 

Trust is broken and the reason of marriage was already cut and that's why divorced was made for these couples. They should have thought of it before deciding to file for divorce instead of going for a divorce then eventually they'll have a comeback and become stronger with their relationship. I just don't find that it should be like that because being in a relationship is a serious matter and even we have fall downs of our times, you need to think for so many times before both of you decide to partway. But then, it's in the agreement whether you want to be back in each other's arm but whatever the reason for the divorce, it's easy that those blaming and reasoning on why you've separated will come back to life. The lesson is before divorcing, don't decide when you're mad because you can really tell bad words to your significant other and you'll regret that later on. And it's much worse if there's a kid involve and it's overwhelming to see that this type of setup is like a norm these days, gone are the old days when 1:1 partner lasts long. People should consult the elderly on how to keep their marriage sacred and relationship last long.

It is not forbidden. There is something called reconciliation that can happen no matter how destroyed the relationship was, so far both parties are ready to commit to making the new relationship work, it will work. Couples who even reconcile have the strongest chance of staying longest together because sometimes the most serious conflict in any kind of relationship results in the best relationships or stronger relationships afterwards.

it happens to many families when they have kids, it's really possible especially if they consider the future of the kids.

or when both grow old already and are now seeking thier kids to take care of them and you will see both parents who were very mean to each other when they were in their 40s experiencing midlife crises are at peace reminiscing old memories they had together. seen it happen before my eyes.

What did you think causes divorce in marriage, it's all about misunderstanding between the couples, everyone want his own ambition and selfish interest gets to hold, if they cab settle this discrepancies and make amends, do away with ego or pride then there can be a marriage reunion or reignition of marria vows and they both can stay happily after, diverse is as a result of being frustrated and it can only cause depression, but reunion works out for those ready to amend on each other.

Of course, there are chances the couples can reunite again whenever they realized their mistakes and consider apologizing to each other. The only problem is when they decide to take revenge by looking for another partner and when they find happiness with them and that would gonna eventually ruin their past marriages because when a woman finds the right place with some other man, I don't think she will gonna go back to you again because of what she experienced from you that she don't really like rather she will continue to stay out of your sight and will learn to find happiness without you and I think that also goes for a man when he no longer finds the sweetness in their marriage.

Anyone can make mistakes, and come back and return everything that was certainly possible, if two people want it.

Reuniting of divorced marriage can only happen when there is fear of God among the couples because this will only happen after they realize the vow they made to each other on the alter the very day they got married and also most divorce today happens if maybe the husband is unable to carry out his responsibility as the man of the house this may warrant the wife to be in patients on the other hand most woman are not helpful to their husband only sitting at home and given instructions in our world is believed that one hand washes the other so if both party are likely to help each other in think theyes will build a better home and there will be no reason for divorce

There is nothing forbidden about getting back to your ex-wife or ex-husband. Though this is rare to see them come together and live under the same roof as husband and wife, some just stay friends after the divorce and nothing more.

The most well-known reason couples reunite is that they perceive and determine the issues that tormented their marriage. In the event that something didn't resolve in your marriage, something needs to change, or it won't figure out when you reunite. In the event that an issue has been settled, for example, absence of closeness or monetary pressure, couples may reconnect. Issues, for example, substance misuse, ignoring the marriage and over-zeroing in on profession, and depression because of absence of consideration from an accomplice — these are issues that can be settled with a promise to couples or potentially family treatment and making changes at home. In the event that funds have been the essential stressor, the non-working accomplice could seek after a task.
An individual with fixation could demonstrate a guarantee to temperance or treatment. An accomplice who disregarded his mate and youngsters could decrease his plan for getting work done.

Reuniting after divorce is really possible but it has lots of things need to consider. But before that, what is the real reason first why they get to that point. If the reason is to heavy especially like cheating, I guess its really hard to make it work again. The trust that loses on one of them is hard to build again. On the other hand  One reason that make divorce couple reunite is because of their children. After realizing their faults they slowly accept and forgive each other. And I believe that is the best thing to do so the children will grow with a complete family.

in my country I just saw a case of two famous people from my country who were married when they were young, had children, but years later the young man's wife cheated on him and because of that they separated for a few years that they reached the point of breaking up divorced, the young man found another woman and had a child, he even married another woman in the traditional way, although in my country this type of marriage has no legal effect, but after some time he left that woman and went back to live with the woman he he had married when he was young. even now that I am writing about it I am laughing at this story, because it is a very strange case

I keep asking myself how a couple like this can be living well with all these events that I told you, and a very interesting thing is that after the separation they just went back to living together, but they are no longer legally married, neither of them comments about the possibility of someday getting married again, my question: will someone you love really cheat? how can someone say they love person z but the next day they are cheating on person z. I can't understand it

and currently, society no longer gives more importance to marriage and fidelity, people get married, but when one of the parties has no money they get divorced, in europe, america marriages no longer last at least 1 year, these are very low cases, the most women in europe and america just want a rich man and have no interest in marriage

people who is separated from long time but there we are compatible due to two issues come up and separate them can come back together so the problem is that then come only take time for them to come back together but what will make them to come back together might be as a result of their children or advice from the both parents

Life is now becoming more flexible and nobody is ready to be submissive again. The woman that is means to be submissive and ready to make sure that the marriage works are now in the street doing what they like to make money. This is one of the problems we have in the society now. People are not ready to endure, they prefer scattering there marriage and getting divorce.

It's normal that there's a low percentage of divorced couples that reunite and the reason is simply both sides are not ready to make corrections and focus on the first reason they decide to marry in the first place which is love and it's the only thing that can overcome all the reason you stated.

Why not, anything is possible if both sides want to reunite. there are many reasons and considerations, whether it's because of the child, or both parties still have feelings for one another. everything can be realized, but it depends on the agreement of the two parties involved.

In my country, marriage is a sacred bond that can only be separated by death. but in the last few decades, everything has changed with the changes and developments in the times. there are many phenomena of divorce, especially when we refer to the marriage of public figures, such as famous artists.

But in essence, marriage is two souls becoming one and how the two partners sail the ark of their household, whether joy or sorrow. going through a marriage is not easy, because there will be where the hard times come, where there will always be disagreements. however, the marriage was not bad as you can see. because, you will feel how happiness comes, waiting for special moments, emotion, whatever it is that cannot be expressed in just words. which in essence marriage is not just limited to status, but more on a person's life partner until the end of his life.

Perfectly said..
Research shows that 10-15% of couples reunite after some years,  and you can see how little the percentage is. This shows that it seldomly happens. In all the stories I have read online about this,  I noticed it ends with the word remarry. So for every divorced couple to reunite, there most start afresh. this includes going through the whole marriage process over again,  and accepting to forget about each other's past and moving on completely into a new start. But the only thing I am perturbed about is filling for a court Toga since it involves the same couple. reason is to delete past divorced stories in the law court. To me, this also is important.

Yes, the divorced couple can still reunite if they still love each other and are ready to make an amendment to what led to their divorce. An example is Sylvester Stallone and Jennifer Flavin, Jennifer Lopez, and Ben Affleck, etc.
With that said, if the man or woman keeps talking about the positive side of his/her ex then he/she still has something for the person and can make up if there's a chance.

It is an exaggeration to think that the re-marriage of two divorced partners may be prohibited under any legislation.

Personally, I consider that divorce is a healthy option in all cases, whether to end an uncomfortable relationship for one of the partners or to review the mistakes of the relationship and rebuild it on solid foundations. Often the decision to divorce is final, so the cases of remarriage of two divorced partners are almost negligible. On the other hand, it is better for the marriage decision to be carefully considered to avoid the remnants of a failed marriage.

It is not forbidden for divorced individuals to reconcile and resume their relationship, but it's important to consider the reasons for the initial divorce and whether those issues have been resolved or addressed. Reconciling after a divorce can be difficult and requires open communication, forgiveness, and a willingness to work through any problems that may arise. It's also important to consider the feelings and emotions of any current partners or children involved. Ultimately, the decision to reconcile should be made carefully and with the well-being of all parties involved in mind.

One thing I've noticed with relationship is that, people that have fallen in love before and later broke up, might always reunite if the opportunity knocks on the door.
Reasons will be, because they've had strong feelings for each other before now, they've understood their flaws, they are ready to make amends, they've known how to communicate with each other without saying a word, they can barely let go of the past they've had with each other, so they are constantly reminiscing the good old days, and lastly some partners feel those traits they enjoyed from their past partners cannot be gotten anywhere, So coming back together to start from where they stopped will be the best decision for them.

It is not forbidden to go back to each other and have a new start. I've seen stories of relationships that have gone through a lot and then still managed to break up, file for divorce, and then went silent for years. But in the end, they were still the ones that have feelings for each other.
Sometimes the reasoning is about the shared responsibility towards their children and then that builds up the fire again for them to understand and reminisce the times that they've been together. And that's why I believe that even with break ups or divorce or worst, as long as there's a chance, a couple can still be back together again.

You are right.. Thanks for your opinion. I have seen a situation where couple regret their decision but find it difficult to re-unite. this makes me feel that reunion after divorce is forbidden.
they sure do   realise their mistake after their needs are not met by their new lovers and at this moment they figure out their mistakes and then develop a the huge of fixing things.  But this seldom happens.

I have never been married, but I have gotten the impression that those couples that decide to go through divorce rarely come back together, instead take their chances by meeting new people who they believe are more compatible with.

Western society these latest years has become very used to the idea of being able to marry anyone and they divorce if things won't go as good as expected. It was not like that before, marriage was taken more seriously, I think.

Reunification is possible, but I would not bet on it happening often.

I'm not married but have been in a relationship for over 5 years now. We have had our fair share of fights over the course of our relationship, but we always managed to work things out and have never broken up for more than a few days. Our principle is to fix things and not give up the moment a problem arises. Life is tough, and you'll have to work through your problems together. I believe in second chances; depending on the reason for the breakup, if it wasn't cheating, maybe I'd consider getting back together with someone.

The broken marriages are increasing day by day, I don't know if the problem is coming from the men or we the women, and the reason most of this  couples are breaking up is just because of a minor issue which is fixable, but what I believe is that a divorce couple can reunite, but most women today don't want to be sumitive to their husbands, but is possible, it is just a matter of understanding, but the truth is if divorce couple come to an understanding their reunion will be more stronger than before.

I don’t have any experience with this but I can provide a neutral, unbiased opinion. I believe that a divorced couple can reunite, it’s definitely possible. A couple may divorce, go back into the dating scene & realise that they’ve made a huge mistake. They may realise that they still love each other & want to reunite.

A divorce isn’t a death sentence, it is not final. They can always get back together & maybe try to start the relationship again.

People tend not to know the worth of their spouses until they lose them. Sometimes we think that another man or woman will treat us better than our spouse and we end up divorcing our current partners. After the divorce, it might become clear that we have made a very big mistake because our former partner is far better than the one we ran to. This will lead to regret and the drive to divorce again and return to our first love.

But when the marriage ended on a bad note maybe due to domestic violence, adultery, or other unacceptable behavior, both parties might be glad the marriage ended. Nobody will be willing to go back to a relationship that was toxic or irresponsible. I have seen people that experienced the peace of mind after they divorced their partners. While some of them came back begging on their knees because they want their former spouse back.

Forbidden? In where and by whom?

But answer to the question is that every couple is different and not every coulple have same answer to that question.
But the question one would need to ask is: What has changed so that it would work this time?
There's usually a very good reason for breakup and if something fundamental hasn't changed, like personal growth and attitude towards the partnership. Then same problems as last time will appear to deal with. And most likely they will be dealed with same way, by divorce.

This days There are diverse news of broken marriages all over the world, with little news of reunion. Lately my friends uncle just resurrected an old relationship after 1 year in divorced zone. but on every disagreement with his new fiancee, He keeps reminding us about the positive side of his ex wife. This leaves me with the thought that he will still take her in if there is a chance, but such incidence is rare in our society, But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this