Topic: Can Man Lives without Sex? (Read 905 times)

Man can live without sex,but it is very rare to see humans live without sex,because sex was there from the beginning,and it will continue to exist as long as human being still live and exist. Sex was made by God,because it has so many purpose that it serves.It is through sex that reproduction takes place,sex eases stress and relieves man,Therefore,it is essential for human to have sex.

I don't think so at all. because it is a matter of continuing heredity into the future and about the compulsion and urge of the libido that exists in every human being.
unless there is no such thing as libido. This libido drive is very strong. (This is the answer when answering the meaning of sex in question is in a narrow sense because the meaning of sex is of two kinds, namely narrowly and broadly).

Since humans are born until they become adults, humans have a drive called libido. Libido is a sexual urge that has been present in humans since birth. Libido in children is different from libido in parents.

notes:
Sexual satisfaction in children, the achievement is not always through the genitals, but through other areas, such as the mouth. a baby who is happy with his mother's nipple. (
in a broad sense)

but did not rule out there are people who can live without sex. but I think it's very rare.

and sex is not against God in fact it is recommended. with terms and conditions sex is done with the right rules. like married. even it gets rewarded.

Sex is good and enjoyable and it is possible for a man to live without sex if he do away with things that leads the mind to think of such . This include avoiding watching of porns as most men I have come across love this so much and always have them stored up in their phones.

He can  alive, but the real joy of life is that he cannot benefit from and if he wants to live such a life, then he has to keep himself busy with friends

Only jobless people spend all of their day thinking about sex sex and sex.
This is totally absurd, man has a lot to think of than that, as a man i have a lot to accomplish but when I get one I'll sure pounce on it.
I love sex but not always aroused for it, our families should be placed first over our selfish feelings.

Man can live without anything apart from food. Man can live with clothing and shelter which are the major needs of Man. I saw someone who included sex in the compulsory needs of man. Sex it's not, whether you have sex or you do not have sex you will live. Infact when I was small I was made to believe that some people commits sacrifice that they will not have sex till they die and they will be wealthy and they keep to it.
Sex is for satisfaction and one can still get the same satisfaction that sex gives without having sex. Sex also is for reproduction and one can also produce baby without having sex. This shows that man can live without sex and man can also control his sex urge.

Yes, that should be possible. Sex is, without a doubt, a need of the body. Though lots of people enjoy a full and satisfying life existence while never having intercourse. A person, whether male or female can absolutely lead his life without sex. Be certain and know what you need. Routine work-out should be continued as daily routine, make sure avoid tempting situations. Contemplation can fix any habits, that's my believe.

Men can live without sex. The question is; will there be a side effect for going long without? Obviously no. Having sex is dependent on some factors and the ability to restrain one or control one's urge for it.
For me, I see some men see sex as a means to obtain release and also a medium to "have a taste of so many varieties. Truly, sex can be controlled but engaged in wisely.

yes according to religious text reproduction can be entirely without sex.

I'd say it's possible, but I'd advise you to avoid feeling pressure in either direction,  don't feel pressured to decide that you absolutely need it, or pressured to decide that you can live without it. Try to be content with figuring it out as you go. This may help you decide whether your pursuit of happiness and well-being includes a partner and a sexual life.

I think sex should be transactional.

Too much poverty can be avoided if women (or anyone that can get pregnant) can think about how much she will be paid.

Non reproductive sex will be very cheap without anti prostitution laws.

Many people feel masturbation is the way out not to feel the urge for sex but with time you’ll still feel the need to engage in such act. I think the best way is to deviate and disconnect any connection that can lead you to have that feeling of having sex. But it’s still hard though, only few can take it up like that and learn to live with it this way.

anything is possible, genders are just small part of reality in nature are also genderless beings. like termites, that are genderneutral,

it is god or in other words higher spiritual force that keeps the likes and dislikes of people under controll.

Humans can live without sex where the person has been traumatized or his partner died (most women who can stand it don't remarry for the sake of their children)




Controlling sex can't be said to everyone, because basically the intentions and desires of humans are different
If A can resist the desire for sex when he sees a woman in sexy clothes, it is different from B, who only sees cleavage, is already excited.

It was not recorded if they had sex or not because it is not really necessary. It was not stated how long Adam lived before eve was created so you can't used this to justify if human can live without sex, but I can still say its possible for human to live without sex.

Are you ok bud?
I haven't seen much of your content lately.

The word SEX is likely uncontrollable because when sexual abstinence is involved one can have negative effect on their mental health such:

Immune system: lack of sex can make your immune system not to be resistance to some common sickness such as cold.

Anxiety and stress:lack of sex can cause stress and not sleeping well.

Relationship health: lack of sex can cause lack of communication in a relationship

Man can live without sex when he has join Rev. Father in Catholic Church. But man can't live without sex because God the libido is a sex deriving feeling which everyone has.

Also sex is not only intercourse from psychological angle, Sex is anything you do to have pleasure.
According to psychologist, shifting, kissing, intercourse, eating etc are all sex

Humans can live without sex, after all Adam and Eve lived together for sometime without having sex, it was after God banished them from the garden we heard about Cain and Abel. What am I saying man can live without sex, but as an adult you need sex once in a while to be sexually active. Remember I said as an adult.

No,man can't live without sex, because sex is what people derived joy in making ,sex is the satisfaction of the flesh,sex sometimes helps to ease up stress, it (sex)helps to balance some body issues, it is also a natural gift from God because God gives approval of it that man should go into the world and multiply,that is to say he wants man to have sex and reproduce.

Sex is tied to human existence, any man that is not getting   married in this world is sinner before the Holy Bible.

Because the holy Bible says, man should recreate the world and God told Abraham in the covenant that he Abraham will be the father of all Nations.

So what Rev. Fathers? Will they recreate their generation?

There are some people who are so religious they try to abstain from sex against their own will because their religion directs them to do so, some of this people thus develop inferiority complex and find it hard to woo or even communicate with the opposite sex, i believe it is as a result of this that some (if not majority) of them go into crimes like rape and turning into paedophiles, i think in that situation, the encouragement of abstainment (especially against will) has and can do more harm than good.

Having said that, i think people should be independent on how they want their sex life to be, irrespective of whatever religion they practice, they should also be open to their partners on their sex life and on the reason for wanting to have sex: pleasure, procreation, eventual marriage, fantacies, etc.

I think it's time for..

A SEXY PARTY!

Nice to have you back on the forum after your break. I've missed the ranting.


Evolution. People who don't want to have sex don't, and so don't have children, and so don't pass their genetic code on to the next generation.
Each new generation is descended from the subset of the previous generation who did want to have sex.
So which behaviour is more likely to persist across generations? Engaging in sex or abstaining?

Sex is part of a man's nature So he has to do it.
Sex has many benefits anti-depressant better sleep and heart health lower blood pressure ....

  Yes, a man can live without sex or intercourse with a woman. Sex is not the essential thing that we need every time it is just an innermost feeling if we like to get an affair. Having a sex is not a sin but when it comes in rape or crime it will be a mortal sin.

Most men like sex too much and I don't think they can live without it. I think they were created for sex sometimes, coupled with no monthly flow, or any other thing to stop them from sexing, they can sex anytime. Some women like sex as much as men do too but cannot always indulge because of our monthly flow, pregnancy and the ease of getting infected.

Can Man Lives without Sex?

Most of you jokers don't get it at all. How long do people live? 100 years or so? So, what's the point of giving us such pleasure and enjoyment in sex?

Why didn't God give us such great pleasure from scratching our elbows, or from jumping up and down, or from swimming, or from combing our hair, or from a million other things rather than sex?

After all, if God wanted more children, all He would have to do is command
So, what is the reason why God gave people such enjoyment in sex, and such a drive that few can simply say 'no' to it? Here it is. Let's start with the special gifts the 12 apostles were going to receive, Mathew 19:
How many of you are preachers or teachers of God's Word? How many of you bring lots of people to salvation? But God in His great love wants all people to have good gifts, but especially the believers. And the best gifts that God bestows come to those who bring salvation to people.

So, God is almost forcing you to have children. Why? You love your children. You would do the best for them. That's why you teach them about Jesus, so that they can gain everlasting life in Heaven, and miss the evelasting damnation in Hell... so that you can receive the same kinds of gifts from God as the preachers who bring many people to be saved (see the 'what will there be for us' passage, above).

You got some kids. You got them to be saved. You get gifts from God for doing this. God gets pleasure out of seeing His people enjoy their gifts. Look at the Apostles of Jesus. At the Pentecost, they received wealth donation in such quantity that they had to appoint the Seven in trust to spend it righteously for them.

And these same Apostles are enjoying Paradise right now, with Jesus.

How about you?

It is not impossible for humans to live without sex, the Monks and the Nuns for example. Sex is a part of lust and in my belief humans have been given a rein to control lust.
The bridle or key to controlling lust is to fast sincerely, then all lust control over the human body will weaken and we are the ones who control lust, not lust that controls us.

Can man live without sex? Yes obviously! Some people have proven it, especially some saints, monks, etc. But can a man live without orgasm? I don't think so. A man no matter how much he wants to channel his energy elsewhere, it always lives as a social animal where it interacts every day with the opposite gender and same gender, you can call it evolution or whatever but we are bound to have such feelings where we want to come close to another person. If we restrain ourselves from meeting the other person still whenever we will be alone we won't be able to control that urge. This especially becomes impossible for someone who has experienced the oxytocin rush for once.

21st century generation has taken sex to the next level and had carved out other means of satisfying their sexual urge. Men cant affirm to the statement that they needed sex and couldn't get it. I said so because sexual activities has gone viral that girls even advertise their skills online demanding for patronizers. if u can get it around you, change your location and u will get your satisfaction to the fullest. Also there are new technologies that helps men get their satisfaction without meeting a woman. If one also feels like not having sex, he can live strong and healthy but it is based on determination and self discipline.

Sex is an urge that comes natural, that is so real . Because of how strong the urge is some people thinks one can't do without it. Like I know their are people who have been in prison for so many years, they have been coping without it and they are alive , strong and healthy. So I don't think staying from sex may cause something bad to the health.

  "into their own hands" laughed so hard at this

sex is like hunger but the difference is food makes us survive as individuals while sex makes the whole of humanity to survive as species, so if I stop eating food, I will die, similar to what will happen to human species if sex stops. But I am sure people can live without sex, there are many saints who does it by completely rejecting normal human lifestyle and going to mountains or forests for their meditations, but the hormones will surely leak unless chemicals are induced to stop them from getting produced.

Do you have strong evidence to prove as a facts that man can not lives with out sex medically, man can stay with out sex. Because i have seen some men who are born blind and also disabled and right now they are still alive but no wife no kinds  but is up to fifty years. I want to ask if is not a man? And why he refused to die because he does not have some one to have sexual relationship with. I don't believe with that philosophy that man can not stay with out sex

Man can life without sex only if there is no sexual partner. I can't live without sex. Its like living without food. Some religion help men to attain the state of celibacy. But many of them have faced still opposition by devotees. Very soon the Roman Catholic priests might be given the privilege to get married because of the high rate of sexual abuse in the Church. One can live without sex through the following:
1) Removing the sexual organ
2)Joining religious sects that promotes celibacy
3)Leaving the planet.

this is the reason why many men are forced to marry young

to avoid free sex but nowadays marriage is not that easy

many are confused with the costs that will be incurred and that makes many men prefer to live alone and hire the services of a sex worker to satisfy their lust

Always take note of the following truth about intercourse:

Sex outside marriage is called furnication
The best way to avoid sext is abstenance
Get married early if you feels urge for sex frequently
Don't get early exposure to sex  at a teenage stage
Avoid isolation with a female counterpart in a lonely place
Get yourself busy with good and constructive daily work activities
Erace negative thought about sexual intercourse oftentimes
Avoid any form of pornographic images and videos
Dont masturbate or play with your sensitive organs

In Christianity, marriage is honourable and the bed undefiled and sex outside marriage is sin and you are expected to "flee from every appearances of evil".

Nice troll.  I'm assuming this is more about trying to stir up a pot and get some attention then any question about sex right from the start.

You've made your religious beliefs very clear here, but I'm not sure that not participating in fun activities is as godly as you may believe it is.  Again, nice troll to anger the atheists.

I don't know how healthy it is for your prostate to go without a release, but I'm sure it won't kill you quickly.  I honestly have no idea.  I'm assuming at some point a release wouldn't be voluntary, but who knows.  This isn't something I'm really knowledgeable about.

His huge what?  This is the line that really cemented the troll.  Sort of displays that the whole post was a joke. 

All in all, not a bad troll.  It's got God, sexual insinuation, comedic relief, and is sure to anger some people.  I give it a 7/10.

It is pleasurable because it is the reward for procreating. We have contraceptives now so we've basically decoupled sex and procreation.

And I think that's the more responsible way of going about it. Just imagine if people just don't plan their families ahead and just keep having sex coz why not... Oh wait, that's how you get "overpopulated" countries where people can barely provide for their children. People in the countryside in my country just have lots of kids coz they spend most of their time just gambling and having sex.

When you can't resist it, you might end up doing the craziest thing that you may ever do and could also lead you to a disease.

You've got hands to use and you know how to do it with it. There's a medical study and proof that even without sex and by just doing it with your hand, you're helping yourself trying to avoid disease related to it.

It is a known fact that sex is one of the basic needs of man,and man cannot do without it because there are so many things that sex does to our body.

Sex is one of the things that ease stress on a man.When he has sex,it relieves him of the pressure that was on him at the moment.  And because man needs to reproduce,and bear children,human being cannot do without it.

Medically man need sex to equipped his life and also activate his brain to be active, it is not that man can not leave with sex, sex is natural and is unity of marriage, also makes relationship to be compatible, some who don't have wife's lives for years without a sudden death, so sex is nothing in human life, what keepeth man alive is money and freedom, without having replacement of children sex would have not be important to man, i have not confirmed that sex activate brain but my doctor told that needs sex twice a week.

I guess that's why priest are wiser than that. They don't allow Satan to brainwash them like he did Eve and live in celibacy. Oh, wait...
Does it make you feel better after sex when you tell yourself that your flesh is weak because of what happened in the Olive Garden?

So it is now obvious that it was not an apple Adam and Eve ate at the garden of Eden. Alot of people should begin to realize this and recalculate their analysis of the Bible. You are correct, it was sex.

Man can leave without sex but it happens under some certain conditions,
By choice,
By agreement,
Through a vouch of never breaking a promise.
These are the only reasons why a man maybe able to leave without sex,but it one of the needs of man.
Man thinks about sex almost every time and it relieves man of stress.

I don't think man can't live without sex. As far as I remember, Catholic priests don't get married, and they live without having sex. Although, I know sex is important in life because it has it own advantages. For example, it reduces the risk of heart diseases. But, one can basically decide to abstent from sexual thoughts and behavior. However, the urge of sex usually comes naturally, a man can probably be reading a Bible and have sexual urge.

You should ask a Shaolin monk. He said he can control his urge by meditation. I can't vouch he is not a gay or didn't masturbate tho.

So IMO, yes anyone can live without sex, the same as you can live without eating carbs, meat, playing games, or any pleasure seeking activity.

Not to be hypocritical, the purpose of dating (girlfriend) is mostly for sexual pleasure, well up to 3rd base if you aren't old/brave enough.

Imagine you will spend the rest of your life taking care of your kids. You will need a huge motivation to do that, that's orgasm.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy sex as much as the next guy.. but I do think the main purpose/point of sex, in nature, is to procreate. If I were to create a species that I wanted to propagate (), making procreation enticing by adding a clitoris and g-spot would seem like a wise choice, one encourages the starting of the procreation process and one encourages the penetration to ultimately complete the process.. is it getting hot in here? lmao.

But at the end of the day, a woman probably needs more of a reason to want to put a man's dick in them to procreate, so these things are needed.

Although you did say g-pot, in which case, if this is some crazy strain of weed I don't know about, which also encourages procreation... then I have no comment there.

Of course the hormones would be part of it as well, including some fun ones that happen once a month.. you don't want to over-procreate, nature must maintain some balance, so you'd need to maybe make the females go bat shit crazy for a week or so to settle everything back down. So I think we can say sex is for both procreation and pleasure.. with the main purpose being procreation?

Yes man can live without it after all sex don't kill staying with it. Sex is not like water if someone should stay without it for some days the person will die. Sex a strong feeling man can do without though or sometimes avoid.

As I think sex is the basic need of men. As food, clothing and shelter are the most basic needs which are same as sex is the basic need. However, masturbation is the basic way sometimes.

Honestly we all know that every human could live without sex,
We could just compare sex to a food that we like we could crave for it anytime but we doesn't always get it (Most of the married couple could agree to this specially men).

I know for myself that if I don’t do anything about it, I become very tough. Fixation on problems and the desire to see things through to the end turns me into a perfectionist. It becomes much easier to commit some serious offense. A lot changes in the head and even in appearance.

I think so,man can live without sex,but they continue,masturbation.Better ,thwn to cheat,acceptable that way.No sex ,but now a days...they can make masturbation,they can play alone without there partner,understanding is one of the good ,not to put down there personality.Respect ,what they can comfortable how they release there,feelings to get better there feelings.

Generally all humans have sexual urge that will either lead to sex or masturbation, and as we all know, sex aids reproduction. And according to science, men needs sex because when they release it helps improve the quality of their sperm and immune system.

It may sound a little strange, although people can survive without intercourse.

If you do have a little research about this subject, you will be known,
There will be many people who have not had sex despite being adults Or been without intercourse for a long time. So I think, it is wrong to think of intercourse as the most important thing in life.

Well, sex is necessary for humans to reproduce, I guess if we don't have sex, we will eventually disappear. (And this is one reason why homosexuals are unnatural).

This is the real answer of a real man. But what if a man's age isn't enough to get married? Can dating always vent sex libido?

It depend on the freedom of man. If man has put in a prison to serve for life he can live without sex. But as far as a man has freedom , sex can be hard for a man to stay without because sex is a natural feeling to man. Some men can have a strong decision to stay from sex due to religion or some other things.

Sex becomes bad when you are not matured enough to handle what comes with it, it can ruin ones life and change the order of one's destiny if you don't exercise caution. It could lead to unwanted pregnancy, and other life changing infections or diseases, and this is not for Kids. I think this is why some religious leaders preach it bad because under the context of Christianity, sex is right only during marriage with a right partner, not only for pleasure but for procreation as well.

Sex is like the forbidden fruit, the day you taste of it, you will need more, that is why some Men are advised not to even start it at all, so they don't loose their way, life & dreams in the pursuit of sexual pleasure.

A man can easily have 300+ kids a year (uhm, well - there are certain biological limitations on the other side - so it'll require choosing the "right time" for women, meaning that up to several K may be required to choose from). And then what? What kind of father will he become? Who will support all that 300+ women during pregnancy and later on? Recently (like in the last century) a mother growing a kid on her own became pretty common and possible - though with some limitations. More that one kid? I've heard of a prostitute who grows 7(!, surely from different fathers, truck drivers) and they are completely "equipped" - clothes, food, toys, etc - so social workers can't do anything about that situation. What's in the head of that kids? No idea. But that situation is an exception and I doubt things will end up well.

Religion does promote responsibility although the form it does that is very indirect. There are societies where a man has multiple wives and there are opposite situations as well - it's all dictated by the life circumstances.

And physiological pleasure and hormones... What will make a man waste his life to support another person or even several? "for free" that is. You can't imagine what could one afford if he had no kids.

Imagine that you don't need to eat or drink to live (that is completely... like you're "solar-powered") - will you waste your time and effort to get food? Maybe you will - if you like the process of eating. Or maybe not - if you don't care or have other tasks. Now substitute the word "food" with "sex" - and you get the picture.

Don't get me wrong.
When God blessed Adam and Eve to be fruitful. He gave them everything they needed and if the first sex came through Adam and Eve the pleasure won't be like we see now but the first intercourse happened through satan brainwashed Eve that's what lead to the intoxicating flashy enjoyment of sex.
Thats what I am saying.

if we for one second jump into the philosophy that god made humans

and we go with suzanne 5223 saying sex is not for pleasure,
then why did god give suzanne a clitoris, g-pot and hormones

biology shows that we naturally have body parts that feel pleasure, hormones that maximise that pleasure..
however its WORDS of religious priests that are telling people that sex is bad

so the only words that go against nature, are those in religion that tell people not to do what comes natural

Man will always take sex as an intoxicating flashy enjoyment because when God created Adam and Eve sex did not happen during the time God plan it. It happened when satan brainwash Eve.
If you see any man intoxicating flashy enjoyment this is the reason.

Yes, men can live without sex but not forever.

Get busy with making money especially crypto mining and other important matter.

Exactly,sex is a thing of pleasure but men abuse it nowadays not minding the consequencies involved.
Rape is now very common among people because it's not everybody that have access to sex,some persons only have sex by opportunity,and when they see the chance,they turn it into rape.

Honestly, it can be controlled easily without hearing erotic stories and seeing these lovely ladies on the internet nowadays. It's hard to restrain and that's why if you have the means, you need to get yourself a lovely wife that will take care of everything for you when you are hungry with that. That's the easiest thing to do rather than looking at the things you won't ever get that would make yourself, even more, hungrier than before. I hope everyone can get married easily without any complicated problem because this is one of the main problems of the boys when getting married is hard and you need to be rich to be able to afford it.

More research is required. We don't actually know what the link is, only that more woman have reported menstral issues after taking the vaccine than before.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/coronavirus-covid-19-vaccine-adverse-reactions/coronavirus-vaccine-summary-of-yellow-card-reporting#annex-1-vaccine-analysis-print

See the numerous reports pertaining to menstrual issues.

I am not saying these issues are statistically significant, but again, as with anything vaccine related, to categorically reject the notion that there could be side effects to the vaccine that are currently unknown is to pretend that we know the long term side effects of vaccines. We don't.

And btw, Dr. Malone has plenty of patents pertaining to mRNA technology, I don't think his disgruntled wife changes that.

Yeah Yeah, A man does knows what he wants, he simply has to take the best decision that suits him.
This Generation seems to like sex more than anything,this more important than the loyalty in the generation..... having sex is good but such a pleasure should be shared amongst someone you love, fifteen minutes of sex with someone you don't love is useless.

R.malone is about as much of an inventor of medical technology as faketoshi Wright is bitcoin technology

R malone's "proof" of involvement is this
https://static1.squarespace.com/static/550b0ac4e4b0c16cdea1b084/t/60b62e4f1dcb1f52ad2d4c0c/1622552143483/Jill%27s+letter+about+RNA+vaccination+generic+v5+June2021.pdf
its a letter wrote by his wife.(facepalm)

she references work done by others where she "says" that R. malone was referenced in the work
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC280161/pdf/pnas00261-0279.pdf
but the reference is a B malone(different person) who showed financial interest in the experiments not any physical involvement or insight that changed the experiments purpose.

sorry but its not the same malone. and nothing to do with the antivaxxer R.malone who is just doing a faketoshi in the medical world.

the vaccine does not mess with the menstrual cycle. please close your conspiracy bookmarked pages and remove the tin foil hat.
if it did mess with it. there would be 125million american women (women=50% of all 250mill americans vaccinated) that are having period issues for the last year.
the vaccine goes in the arm not the womb

For some cultures, sex isn't enjoyment, they just do it to pump out as many offspring as they possibly can. Jewish communities in particular will have as much children as they can because it's in their own self interest to procreate. And if I remember correctly, a few Jewish communities might have even prohibited the Covid vaccine for children because of menstrual cycle issues some of the lipid nanoparticles are causing (this, according to Dr. Robert Malone, creator of mRNA therapeutic technology).

this may become another topic of debate. but its where some argue about the 'child support' where the consent of sex also forms a agreement to provide child support by default of just the act of sex, even if the 'father' doesnt want the child but the mother decides to keep the kid. (hinting about abortion law debates also)

i believe if a woman gets pregnant. and she wishes to keep the baby. she has to file a court order to put the father on the birth certificate which involves actually informing him that she is pregnant. this way there is no nasty surprise a year later "hi, give me money you have a 3 month old son"
if both consent all well and good the man pays child support or becomes part of the childs life with custody agreements or being a partner with the mother.
however, the man can then in court decline his name being put on a birth certificate officially by declaring he doesnt want the baby. this means women are not forced into an abortion by the man. but instead the man aborts(not literally) his responsibility of supporting a baby he does not want. and the woman can continue the pregnancy as a single parent.

the same goes the other way. if the man wants to keep the baby but the woman doesnt. he has to provide payment for the "surrogate" to bring the baby to term. whereby she can agree and hand custody to the man on the babies birth. or decline and not go through with it.

then the 'weaponising' can be stopped. and no surprise shoot-outs when its too late to defend yourself
in short. if there is any dispute of responsibilities and custody. .. settle it in court before names are put on birth certificates

There are 2 things to remember: psychology and physiology.

Physiologically you may need it once in a while even though nothing wrong will happen if you don't (except your abilities in that part will decline) or have it a bit more often - your body will adjust to that.

Psychologically you can want it "all the time" unless you have more urgent and/or interesting things in your life - like hobbies/work/hunger/etc. A dog starts licking his dick when he has nothing to do. If you follow your "desires" completely - this may not end well for your physiology either.
Sometimes you may be in need of attention and care more than anything else.

I agree sex is not the problem, but, the way I see it, the problem is people using sex as a weapon.
I can understand if a teenage girl "makes a mistake" and gets pregnant. But a cousin of mine got married to a 30 year old student of medicine, who "didn't know"... 
I mean, really?

Don't  get me wrong: as far as I'm concerned, they're both at fault here. She's a bitch, and he's an asshole. But bitch or not, if a woman gets pregnant from me, she's gonna get enough money to raise my kid like royalty, and I will be the best father I can be, but she's not getting a ring, EVER. 

I feel like this is on a case-by-case basis. but just like what suchmoon has said that "men have figured out to take matters into their own hands"(literally). as for my personal experience, when the urge arose I satisfy myself. you don't need to have a partner to satisfy the urge.

sex is not the problem .. the relationship/commitment is.
the drama of debate and conversation in a relationship should not be a reason to abstain.. it should be a reason to not commit yourself to long term relationships.

i am not religious, but i do like to use religious theology against religious people.
so..
FREE WILL has been given to us all to make our own choices, where forgiveness is always given to those who have done no harm to others.. so no harm no foul in having consensual multiple friends with benefits, no strings attached.

..
i do enjoy laughing when i see religious people preach 'freewill and forgiveness' whilst also preaching contradictory "die sinner die"

Yeah, all the religious bullshit aside, biologically men can live for years without sex, especially after having a scare of the "marriage" kind. Some women tend to think tricking men into marriage is a valid tactic. I disagree.
In any case, I have voluntarily abstained from sex for the last 7 years, and I'm still kicking. Not a lot of fun though...

It may be, you can try and tell us about your experience

Jerking. What else do we do but what jerking  

When your dick got problems like erection dysfunction, youll have no sex anymore. But you'll live.

When you finally have a wife and you got bored with your wife anymore, you probaby will prefer watching porn on tubes than having sex.
A friend enjoys more with porn than with her wife lol Some men that cant control will just go out and find a hooker.

sex is not meant purely for procreation.

biology put things into humans like sensations, hormones, urges.. offering pleasure, happiness and contentment.
this is nature, natural and biological fact from millions of years AGO
meaning sex is natural and pleasurable before religion said no

its only HUMAN politics and religious law that then limited sex to be portrayed as purely for procreation

what you learn is that history shows that before religion people had pleasure, people had vices.
but with that came the risk of spreading diseases and causing harm via non-consensual sex(rape)

so laws(religious scripts) were created to limit these. and over time religious extremists took these safeguards too far and made sex sound like its evil and should be avoided at all costs.

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sex for pleasure is not 'contemporary' or 'modern', it is INFACT older and more natural than the religious script propaganda
religion is actually the 'contemporary and modern' change to civilisation.. not sex.

you can spot that religion is contemporary, and that religious laws were based on safe sex. because ever since condoms were invented and awareness of asking consent religions changed their stance on their laws and made it so gay, unmarried, sex is no longer a sin(against their law)

As far as sex is not food man can live without  it, sex is mainly controlled from the mindset and if you have a mindset that sees sex as an act that is not something special it will be easy to handle sex and stay without  it for a long time.. their is a certain time in life which sex seems to be anything expecially when alot is in the head to meet up with. Man can live without  sex it is very possible.

Sex is a necessity for all humans, but sometimes to get sex also needs money, not to buy prostitutes, but at least invite your partner's dinner.

Man's need for sex is one of the basic needs of man,that is to say that it will be impossible to stay without sex.
The basic needs of man includes clothing,shelter,food and sex.
The urge to have sex comes naturally,and there is nothing man can ever do to avoid it.As a man needs food,so does he need sex,he eats it for sometimes and gets satisfied,and after a period of time,he becomes hungry again,that is exactly what happens in the case of a man's need for sex.

There is something called oral sex and it does not lead to reproduction. Maybe you will be more specific and define it as penetrative sex. How about that 



It is indeed taking matters into their own hands. But not everyone sees masturbation as a way out.

There is a much easier solution to all this. Forget what anyone told you about what God wants or doesn't want you to do. It's all utter bullshit.

Also "men" have figured out long time ago how to take matters into their own hands when sex is not available.

Sex is the intercourse between man and a woman which meant to reproduce likeness.

But the contemporary generation take sex as an intoxicating flashly enjoyment that causes sin which is against God.

Yes men can live without Sex but how possible is that because men love sex to the core that most of them can't even control their libido.

So, how can one controls his huge?