OK, thank for this technical answer.
and this guys want to raise the block to 8Mb ... ? they don't understand the basic setting of the actually stock client ...
Yes, apparently they do. They don't need to understand the "basic settings of the stock client" to raise the limit to (or close to) 8MB
Exactly, so it's easy to conclude that this doesn't fit you
Nothing. But if they don't change the settings to raise the limit, they probably won't change the settings to decrease the limit