Regarding your 2nd question: https://coinomi.freshdesk.com/support/solutions/articles/29000009720-what-will-happen-if-you-stop-developing-coinomi-or-shut-down-every-server-will-i-be-able-to-recover-
Thank you @mcaizgk2, yes the BTC just finally cleared almost 2 days later (this morning when I woke up I saw the BTC confirmed so that is good.
And I tested the backup worked good so I'm going to start using this wallet the Jaxx one doesn't always ask me for a the 4 digit pin when I send and this one give me an easier over view of all the coins and a tally so I plan to use this one more unless I find something better.