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Quote from: eXPHorizon on May 10, 2021, 07:23:08 AM

I think to keep the fire going you both need to do things that ignite the fire in you both, like excitement etc. try to feel like an Teenager again and explore the possibilities . That is my take

But how can this be possible if you are raising Kids?

how can you make things like a teenager when you have to feed, cook ,wash and bring to school your children?

i think this will be applicable for those who are in Mature married life meaning at least 15 and up years of being married?

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Quote from: JonWilliams on May 05, 2021, 09:55:24 AM

Look around the animal kingdom, few if any have this social construct.

Humans aren't that animals you think. Humans were created to have a soul and spirit being like God. That's what the Bible talks about at the creation of Adam - to make man in the likeness of God. I think the issue of divorce is mostly man's crave for satisfaction at every little frustration. That of the Gates takes the crown and beggars disbelief.

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Quote from: hilariousandco on May 05, 2021, 01:46:01 PM

Don't get married. Problem solved.

hahahaha, so true. Shocked

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Quote from: cryptospy eye on May 12, 2021, 09:05:52 AM

Be faithful to your partner simply.

this is a two way effort mate because even how faithful you are but if your partner does not then what is the sense?

you must put your children in center of the relationship and always consider the feeling of each other.

we are not deciding for our self but for the whole family as one.

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Quote from: BADecker on May 14, 2021, 05:37:48 PM

Sometimes it becomes murder when it's stopped.
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Divorce, how can we stop it.?

Sometimes it becomes murder when it's stopped.

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Quote from: Ucy on May 12, 2021, 12:34:50 PM

No one should divorce in the first place except a partner commits adultery.
/cut/

Seriously? Not even in cases of physical or mental abuse? What about cases of child abuse?
No matter what background you come from, I find it odd that adultery is the only valid reason for divorce that you mentioned.

Better to get counseled by qualified marriage counsellor (I recommend counsels from true servants of the CREATOR of Humans and the marriage institution).
If it doesn't get settled, the couple could stay seperatey, without getting married to another people, maybe until they are able to reconcile, forgive each and continue living as family.
It's also important they stick together for the sake of their kids

And who are the true servants of the CREATOR? Can you name some?

They are basically people annoited by the CREATOR of Heaven and Earth (GOD) to serve HIM. You serve GOD by doing things that pleases HIM always or by obeying HIS Law of Love and doing his Will

How to know HIS true servants : By their fruits, you shall know them.
*Fruit = their deeds

True servants of GOD do not produce bad fruits. They produce good fruits always. Once you find such people, investigate their lives more properly to make sure they do what pleases the CREATOR always...then you could pay them a visit for free of charge counseling.

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Quote from: Ucy on May 14, 2021, 05:12:43 AM

Quote from: decodx on May 12, 2021, 03:08:58 PM

Quote from: Ucy on May 12, 2021, 12:34:50 PM

No one should divorce in the first place except a partner commits adultery.
/cut/

Seriously? Not even in cases of physical or mental abuse? What about cases of child abuse?
No matter what background you come from, I find it odd that adultery is the only valid reason for divorce that you mentioned.

Better to get counseled by qualified marriage counsellor (I recommend counsels from true servants of the CREATOR of Humans and the marriage institution).
If it doesn't get settled, the couple could stay seperatey, without getting married to another people, maybe until they are able to reconcile, forgive each and continue living as family.
It's also important they stick together for the sake of their kids

And who are the true servants of the CREATOR? Can you name some?

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 05, 2021, 09:31:31 AM

For many years many have wondered the real cause of a divorce could it be cheating, money, name them. We have sen it all.
Human beings are insatiable and the human mind? Hmmm, we can't figure out the working mechanism of it. With the recent divorce of bill and Melinda gate, many are wondering what could be the solution to divorce. For a couple as rich and educated as bill and Melinda gates to divorce I don't no who can say the perfect plan to end divorce Is this.

It's somehow strange, at this age being married for almost 27 years what could probably course a divorce like this. Where and who are you going to start a relationship with. But to stop a divorce It's essential to recognize that fight-or-flight pattern in yourself and stop reacting. Your goal is to be the mature, kind, and loving person your partner fell in love with, not the anxious, angry person in survival mode.

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Quote from: decodx on May 12, 2021, 03:08:58 PM

Quote from: Ucy on May 12, 2021, 12:34:50 PM

No one should divorce in the first place except a partner commits adultery.
/cut/

Seriously? Not even in cases of physical or mental abuse? What about cases of child abuse?
No matter what background you come from, I find it odd that adultery is the only valid reason for divorce that you mentioned.

Better to get counseled by qualified marriage counsellor (I recommend counsels from true servants of the CREATOR of Humans and the marriage institution).
If it doesn't get settled, the couple could stay seperatey, without getting married to another people, maybe until they are able to reconcile, forgive each and continue living as family.
It's also important they stick together for the sake of their kids

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Devorse is something nobody can stop. It has been there right from the beginning. It's something that can happen to anyone. Nobody knew there would be a divorce in his/her marriage. If people See's divorce in the future of there marriage, they won't go into marriage.

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Divorce will always exist, because not all marriages can work well, and sometimes divorce is inevitable. Sometimes the original character of
our partners is only discovered after marriage, therefore getting married too quickly leads to a high percentage of divorces. We need to get to
know our spouses better before deciding to get married, so to reduce the percentage of divorce.

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Quote from: Ucy on May 12, 2021, 12:34:50 PM

No one should divorce in the first place except a partner commits adultery.
/cut/

Seriously? Not even in cases of physical or mental abuse? What about cases of child abuse?
No matter what background you come from, I find it odd that adultery is the only valid reason for divorce that you mentioned.

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No one should divorce in the first place except a partner commits adultery. Once you are joined together, you're bonded to become one body/flesh. Only thing that can seperate this bond is death. Why it's even allowed to seperate adulterous partner is because the bonding has been shared and won't be as strong as it was in the marriage..

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Quote from: eXPHorizon on May 10, 2021, 07:23:08 AM

I think to keep the fire going you both need to do things that ignite the fire in you both, like excitement etc. try to feel like an Teenager again and explore the possibilities . That is my take

and the best way? is to treat your Wife always being Courted , Give flowers and always ask Her permission in everything so the Heat will remain forever.

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I think to keep the fire going you both need to do things that ignite the fire in you both, like excitement etc. try to feel like an Teenager again and explore the possibilities . That is my take

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Quote from: boyptc on May 07, 2021, 03:58:46 PM

Go these two countries that has no divorce.

--> https://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-10-09/the-philippines-is-one-of-two-countries-where-divorce-is-illegal/10332600

Yeah there is no Divorce here mate but there are tons of separation happening Grin

it is not the law that will prevent people from separation or divorce mate , because i can vouch for that Grin

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me and My wife almost come to Divorce way back , but we manage to make it better and now staying stronger more than before.

i think it is not about the laws or something but educate people to know their partner better before they got married so they will have proper understanding of each other to stay strong in marriage life.

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We can stop divorce by focusing on prevention.

We can begin the conversation about commitment.

We can make sure we have strong marriage laws.

We can teach teenagers about the value of a lifelong covenant.

We can treat our spouses with respect and love and discipline with grace.

We can work to protect women's rights.

We can create a culture of love.

That's what I'm thinking about this Mother's Day.

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 05, 2021, 09:31:31 AM

For many years many have wondered the real cause of a divorce could it be cheating, money, name them. We have sen it all.
Human beings are insatiable and the human mind? Hmmm, we can't figure out the working mechanism of it. With the recent divorce of bill and Melinda gate, many are wondering what could be the solution to divorce. For a couple as rich and educated as bill and Melinda gates to divorce I don't no who can say the perfect plan to end divorce Is this.

There is no solution for divorce mate because this is a Human needs and feelings, the best way to lessen the divorce is not to Let partners have marriage until they are truly sure of what they want and what they felt for each other.

The problem mostly is that the misinterpretation of the word LOVE , they thought of this easier while the truth is they are only attractive to each others.

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Based on this article, here are 7 ways to stop a divorce...

Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 05, 2021, 09:31:31 AM

For many years many have wondered the real cause of a divorce could it be cheating, money, name them. We have sen it all.
Human beings are insatiable and the human mind? Hmmm, we can't figure out the working mechanism of it. With the recent divorce of bill and Melinda gate, many are wondering what could be the solution to divorce. For a couple as rich and educated as bill and Melinda gates to divorce I don't no who can say the perfect plan to end divorce Is this.

This billionaire couple really drew attention to the condition of their marriage which had to end like this. Melinda or Bill hope they continue their respective lives happily.

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I will use this opportunity to share steps you can use to attain a long lasting and a memorable lovely marriage. With these she can never compare you with another person. Firstly:
1.Make time to connect lovingly with your spouse every day.
2.Compliment your spouse regularly both in private and in front of others.
3.Love your spouse in the way he/she wants to be loved.
4.Take care of your appearance. Make yourself classic and good.
5.Remain faithful.
6.Do things together.
7. Spend time apart.You don't have to love everything your partner loves, but you do have to allow him/her the freedom to pursue cherished hobbies.
8.Be friends with your partner. Always enjoy he/she company.
9. Don't give him/her over sex and money but rather make lots of ways to surprised him/her and make fun.
10. Pay attention to her and pamper her like a baby or toy. And both of you should spend time playing with each other like teenagers do.
If I really got you covered on this let me know.

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Go these two countries that has no divorce.

--> https://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-10-09/the-philippines-is-one-of-two-countries-where-divorce-is-illegal/10332600

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I seriously thought at first to not marry so you can avoid divorce. But, I think people or couples may avoid divorce if both parties try to understand each opinion and talk it out smoothly. I know things can't be changed by just small talks but if the couple really wants to work it out they should both trust and respect each other. Accept the corrections of the other one if you did wrong. Although some things are unavoidable let's just make sure that at the end of the day we don't forget to love ourselves and our worth.

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Divorce can be heartbreaking experience that many couples are often afraid of getting into. They also fear that getting a divorce is akin to abandonment by family and friends, that's why, it is important for them to cope with it as quickly as possible. However, I do not agree that divorce should be prevented entirely. A divorce is preferable to a dysfunctional marriage, particularly when children are involved.

Oh, I forgot one more piece of advice: Do not marry an egocentric idiot. Wink

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Quote from: Shasha80 on May 05, 2021, 07:20:15 PM

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 05, 2021, 09:31:31 AM

For many years many have wondered the real cause of a divorce could it be cheating, money, name them. We have sen it all.
Human beings are insatiable and the human mind? Hmmm, we can't figure out the working mechanism of it. With the recent divorce of bill and Melinda gate, many are wondering what could be the solution to divorce. For a couple as rich and educated as bill and Melinda gates to divorce I don't no who can say the perfect plan to end divorce Is this.

For some people, money can be the main reason of getting divorced but it is not the cause for all divorce and it depends on every couple.

Even snoring can let you to get divorced on most cases so its up to how much toleration level that you partner got with you and the same applies to you to your partner decides how long you can be together.

Actually, many divorces occur because of economic problems, but many couples who are rich and end up divorcing. And, like you said, divorce
can be caused by small things, like snoring can be a cause for divorce. In my opinion, understanding is needed from husband and wife, if we cannot
respect our partners, divorce will definitely occur. So getting married is easy, what is difficult is maintaining the marriage.

So getting a divorce is better than staying together while hating each other both members mutually got into a feeling that it's time to get separated.

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 05, 2021, 09:31:31 AM

For many years many have wondered the real cause of a divorce could it be cheating, money, name them. We have sen it all.
Human beings are insatiable and the human mind? Hmmm, we can't figure out the working mechanism of it. With the recent divorce of bill and Melinda gate, many are wondering what could be the solution to divorce. For a couple as rich and educated as bill and Melinda gates to divorce I don't no who can say the perfect plan to end divorce Is this.

I read in an article a few months ago that the divorce rate of new marriages is around 50%. Which is insanely high in my opinion. The biggest thread to marriages is probably the internet, there are so many different dating apps in these days. We are getting offers all day long. So whenever something goes bad in a relationship or marriage it seems to be easier to just go for a new one, instead of trying to fix the old one. Also the celebrities these days are usually having being married a few times themselves so it kind of seems normal.

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To prevent Divorce ? Then Better Not to Have Marriages so from that there is nothing to Have a divorce right?

because there will only a need for divorcing if they are married and not if they are just living together without Papers.

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Sometimes people just fall out of love. It can be nothing to do with money or being unfaithful. It’s sad but I think divorce should stay as an option, people should’t be forced to live a life of unhappiness.

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Quote from: hilariousandco on May 05, 2021, 01:46:01 PM

Don't get married. Problem solved.

Best answer for me,
No marriage,No divorce.
But for real tho I think everyone has their own reason for having one,
And for me I think it is better specially if the relationship is being toxic it is best for both of you to separate from each other.
We could never know why they are going through it but we should also know that before they finalize it they have given time and too much thoughts about,
So we should just respect their decision.

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Quote from: hilariousandco on May 05, 2021, 01:46:01 PM

Don't get married. Problem solved.
Getting married and divorce is part of life. We can't stop the process to just stop few divorce cases.

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The root of divorce start from intimidation,mind poisoning, selfishness and carelessness on the insatiable desire. We all get married in one goal or circumstances in the other to love,care,have each other's back and make each other better. But imagine where your partner get expose to new things that convey his or her thought? Then the evil start lurking, the little things become big deals, selfish interest pulled in. As said that "nothing last forever" ofcus nothing but somehow cheating is not the only solution to solve a problem. Over too addiction makes you feel like you have had it all. Cool

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Quote from: semobo on May 05, 2021, 01:06:36 PM

Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 05, 2021, 09:31:31 AM

For many years many have wondered the real cause of a divorce could it be cheating, money, name them. We have sen it all.
Human beings are insatiable and the human mind? Hmmm, we can't figure out the working mechanism of it. With the recent divorce of bill and Melinda gate, many are wondering what could be the solution to divorce. For a couple as rich and educated as bill and Melinda gates to divorce I don't no who can say the perfect plan to end divorce Is this.

For some people, money can be the main reason of getting divorced but it is not the cause for all divorce and it depends on every couple.

Even snoring can let you to get divorced on most cases so its up to how much toleration level that you partner got with you and the same applies to you to your partner decides how long you can be together.

Actually, many divorces occur because of economic problems, but many couples who are rich and end up divorcing. And, like you said, divorce
can be caused by small things, like snoring can be a cause for divorce. In my opinion, understanding is needed from husband and wife, if we cannot
respect our partners, divorce will definitely occur. So getting married is easy, what is difficult is maintaining the marriage.

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Don't get married. Problem solved.

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 05, 2021, 09:31:31 AM

For many years many have wondered the real cause of a divorce could it be cheating, money, name them. We have sen it all.
Human beings are insatiable and the human mind? Hmmm, we can't figure out the working mechanism of it. With the recent divorce of bill and Melinda gate, many are wondering what could be the solution to divorce. For a couple as rich and educated as bill and Melinda gates to divorce I don't no who can say the perfect plan to end divorce Is this.

For some people, money can be the main reason of getting divorced but it is not the cause for all divorce and it depends on every couple.

Even snoring can let you to get divorced on most cases so its up to how much toleration level that you partner got with you and the same applies to you to your partner decides how long you can be together.

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Arguably humans were not made for realations with only one other person. Look around the animal kingdom, few if any have this social construct.

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For many years many have wondered the real cause of a divorce could it be cheating, money, name them. We have sen it all.
Human beings are insatiable and the human mind? Hmmm, we can't figure out the working mechanism of it. With the recent divorce of bill and Melinda gate, many are wondering what could be the solution to divorce. For a couple as rich and educated as bill and Melinda gates to divorce I don't no who can say the perfect plan to end divorce Is this.

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