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Topic: Do you consider age before marrying? (Read 564 times)

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October 18, 2018, 07:50:05 AM
#46
For me, yes. Having a relationship and getting married is 2 different things. Age doesn't matter when it comes of having a relationship. But for marrying someone, you have to be mentally prepared and it comes with maturity and age.
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October 18, 2018, 12:37:51 AM
#45
You can marry as long as their parents and yours are okay with it. That's the law.
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October 17, 2018, 08:41:08 PM
#44
I would never mary someone who was much older than me. The bigger the age difference you may have with your significant other, the more likely you are to have disagreements with your partner. As a person ages their needs and expectations does as well. You really have to be in the same frame of mind to able to overcome a big age difference, If you actually make it through these differences the physical limitations that will arrive with the passage of time will probably get you. It's rare to see it working over the long term.
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October 17, 2018, 03:02:34 PM
#43
These days people are running into the marriage without finding the right person. But still you need to make at least 25-26 so u can enjoyed your wild life and now you can sit on your ass.
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October 14, 2018, 08:45:31 PM
#42
Its been long ago that we all witnessed the royal wedding where the bride was a bit older than the groom. Some say age is just a number. As a man would you marry a lady who is older than you? As a woman would you marry someone younger than you?
Definitely yes , age matters before marrying someone , there are some places in the worls that age matters , its important that before marriage , both are in exact age before entering in matrimonial , specially women , because it is not advisable to get marriage if the women is not in the exact age.
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October 14, 2018, 07:29:40 PM
#41
If you love a girl you will not care if they are older than you or not, you need to care whether you love the girl or not. If you love that girl, do not worry everything will be fine.
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October 14, 2018, 07:16:03 PM
#40
Age is just a number, but maturity definitely plays a part. Also, you have to find someone who is in the same time of their life as you - this is not necessarily about age, but about what they are ready for (ie. you may have a 25 year old that is more than ready for marriage, and then a 34 year old who is definitely not ready for marriage)
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October 14, 2018, 12:45:08 PM
#39
I'm not considering age at all, age is just a number, but I think you should married when you age is above 20, and your fundamentals also is a thing.
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October 14, 2018, 09:21:55 AM
#38
Age does not concern me that much. As long as the couple are inlove and if they get along well, I don't see a problem.
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October 13, 2018, 06:49:21 AM
#37
Just need that is the one you love and that person also loves you, age isn't a problem.
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October 13, 2018, 05:39:47 AM
#36
Yes, and no, actually.  Cool When I was younger, I would rather want someone that's older than me. But when I got older, I'd rather want someone that's younger than me, for some reason. Roll Eyes
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October 13, 2018, 05:17:43 AM
#35
Why not. To be ready for family doesn't mean to reach some age. Some times big difference (more that 5 years) may play its role, but I think it's more about mind, not age.
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October 13, 2018, 04:53:32 AM
#34
I guess it would really depends on a person's situation at a certain point in one's life, depending on the circumstances. Cool
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October 13, 2018, 04:12:24 AM
#33
No, I don't consider age as a factor before marrying. As long as you're responsible and mature, you can get married.
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October 13, 2018, 03:49:09 AM
#32
Age factor is old age concept

This supposedly used to work as a man needed to have authority in the household, but then they found out that the ladies still had the authority, so nowadays its more about compatibility and understanding.

Best wishes to the newly married,

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October 12, 2018, 08:22:44 PM
#31
for me, i dont consider age that important, personality trumps all
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October 12, 2018, 04:18:27 PM
#30
Its been long ago that we all witnessed the royal wedding where the bride was a bit older than the groom. Some say age is just a number. As a man would you marry a lady who is older than you? As a woman would you marry someone younger than you?

My girlfriend is three years older than me, in fact, age really affects. Only age is not in terms of numbers, but in terms of a person’s experience, his knowledge, principles and worldview.
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October 12, 2018, 09:45:21 AM
#29
I think that if the difference in age is not very big, then this is not a problem. But if there is a difference of 20 years and more, then the couple may have problems understanding each other.
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September 04, 2018, 02:49:44 AM
#28
Yes there is time for everything
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September 03, 2018, 10:19:33 PM
#27
I am also a man who is eager to marry a woman who is more mature than me. Older women will have the ability to take care of the household, including in difficult conditions. This is because the woman has more experience so she knows how to deal with tough times. So that charm makes my man fall in love with the figure of an adult woman.
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September 03, 2018, 10:04:08 PM
#26
Its been long ago that we all witnessed the royal wedding where the bride was a bit older than the groom. Some say age is just a number. As a man would you marry a lady who is older than you? As a woman would you marry someone younger than you?
No, I'm not considering age before marrying because as long as you love each other you can get married to the persons that you loved. even though she/he was  in teenage life. . as long you love each other, no one can stop your loving to each other,..as long as both of you are happy together. Just go. .
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September 03, 2018, 10:00:47 PM
#25
love knows no boundary especially when it comes to marriage. as a guy getting married to a a girl older than me will not be a big deal provided that the love and understanding is there and i always believe that maturity is in the mind and not on age of an individual.
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September 03, 2018, 09:56:37 PM
#24
for me marriage is a mate from God and we will not be able to manage it, we can only plan. if you hold on to that principle then age is not something that must be debated in choosing a partner to marry
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September 03, 2018, 06:00:17 PM
#23
there are other factors that are of utmost importance other than age when planning marriage and those other factors are understanding and trust, where these two exist, then age is just a number, it doesnt matter if the man is younger or older than the female, love, trust and understanding is what matters.
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September 03, 2018, 04:35:57 PM
#22
in my opinion if you love each other then age is not a consideration, because if we have a goal and commitment to get married then age does not matter.
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September 03, 2018, 01:04:56 PM
#21
I think that if two people feel something very good for each other, they do not have any age.
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September 03, 2018, 12:51:27 PM
#20
I can marry a lady that is older than me if I love her and she also loves me. The lady am dating now is older than me and we have already planned  to get married
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September 03, 2018, 11:24:45 AM
#19
It is said that "a woman is like wine" the older the better, so I would love to have an older wife.

Wow many think otherwise you are special
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September 03, 2018, 11:05:04 AM
#18
Its been long ago that we all witnessed the royal wedding where the bride was a bit older than the groom. Some say age is just a number. As a man would you marry a lady who is older than you? As a woman would you marry someone younger than you?

Small age gap doesn't matter but a huge gap will be a problem
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August 23, 2018, 08:13:21 AM
#17
Its been long ago that we all witnessed the royal wedding where the bride was a bit older than the groom. Some say age is just a number. As a man would you marry a lady who is older than you? As a woman would you marry someone younger than you?
I think age doesn't matter but in matter of fact there are some lines we should't pass... at least at young age...
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August 23, 2018, 08:12:45 AM
#16
age does not matter, if you are both psychologically mature.
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August 23, 2018, 08:04:14 AM
#15
Its been long ago that we all witnessed the royal wedding where the bride was a bit older than the groom. Some say age is just a number. As a man would you marry a lady who is older than you? As a woman would you marry someone younger than you?


For me age difference must be maximum 3 years. As a man it doesn't matter for me if i marry a lady who is older than me or not.
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August 21, 2018, 06:42:09 AM
#14
No I don't the age doesn't matter for a good marriage
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August 21, 2018, 05:33:23 AM
#13
I consider, in terms of being too old, or too young to get married.  Huh
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July 01, 2018, 12:56:54 AM
#12
i don't consider age just be stablished before marrage.
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June 30, 2018, 02:04:07 AM
#11
For me bot to old or to young, when you marries to old or to young partner it's will come with your neighborhood gossiping about you and it's will disturb your married life. I prefer marries a girls that younger than me.
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June 10, 2018, 12:32:08 PM
#10
It is said that "a woman is like wine" the older the better, so I would love to have an older wife.
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June 10, 2018, 11:55:27 AM
#9
Hnmnmnm. Truly, Age is number, and this happen to be the view of the new generation. However, there are some certain customs predominantly in Africa where a man is seen as a superior and head of the family. In such culture marrying someone younger in age for a man might lead to inferiority complex. Man is seen in his natural state, that is, dominant being who need to protect and defend his family against external oppression. In those culture, man is expected to provide for the need of the family. There is no principle of sharing formula. He is to make provision for shelter, feeding, clothing, bills and outgoing, including children school fees. Women are just too render little help if they could. Such men will always demand respect from their wives and for them to achieve this, they will prefer to marry somebody that is younger to them.
But the truth of the matter is that, a successful marriage require commitment, sacrifices, mutual understanding, mental and emotional intelligence, trust and love. True love didn't recognize age. Maturity of minds is the key.
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June 10, 2018, 11:52:03 AM
#8
Not as long as she is younger
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June 10, 2018, 11:48:16 AM
#7
marriaging before 25 years old its not fine
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June 10, 2018, 10:19:21 AM
#6
Yes, marrying before 28 is not good, you aren't mature enough and will make mistakes
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June 10, 2018, 09:31:43 AM
#5
Its been long ago that we all witnessed the royal wedding where the bride was a bit older than the groom. Some say age is just a number. As a man would you marry a lady who is older than you? As a woman would you marry someone younger than you?
Why not? It depends on how much we love a person and not because of their age and how young they are. We marry a person because we love them and because we wanted to be with them for the rest of our lives and not because we display them in public.
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June 10, 2018, 09:14:53 AM
#4
For me, I dont consider much a bout age.
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June 10, 2018, 09:02:55 AM
#3
For me i don't consider age as wall as long as i love her and he deserves me it will be worth it.
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June 10, 2018, 08:35:07 AM
#2
I happen to be an adult woman, I like adult women because adult women are more able to control emotions and always think hard before acting, so if I marry an adult woman will memininalisir the divorce.
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June 10, 2018, 06:52:07 AM
#1
Its been long ago that we all witnessed the royal wedding where the bride was a bit older than the groom. Some say age is just a number. As a man would you marry a lady who is older than you? As a woman would you marry someone younger than you?
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