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I’ve never thought about making myself less attractive to avoid attention but I understand the appeal. There are many times when I would prefer people not recognize me or really even acknowledge me.

For example when I walk the dog outside my apartment complex every morning, I usually wear a baseball cap and some sweatpants. This is partially because I’m lazy but I certainly don’t want to be noticed by anyone either. I suppose there a certain times where it’s more comfortable to be anonymous.

Ofcourse. Same here(in regards to the bolded) ... I mostly do that if have nothing important to tell people, or if I need a quiet time alone like people need quiet place to walk alone and think... or like walking on forest path alone to think.

To hide your identity and achieve the desired result you will probably need to avoid using things that will end up attracting attention to yourself, maybe by dressing and looking like people around you. People tend to focus their attentions on things or people who look odd



I don’t know. But I have definitely done things to avoid attention, like wearing hoods. I feel that masks have given introverts like me a liberty to go anywhere, without someone recognizing us. So, I do use masks when I go out.

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I don’t know. But I have definitely done things to avoid attention, like wearing hoods. I feel that masks have given introverts like me a liberty to go anywhere, without someone recognizing us. So, I do use masks when I go out.
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I’ve never thought about making myself less attractive to avoid attention but I understand the appeal. There are many times when I would prefer people not recognize me or really even acknowledge me.

For example when I walk the dog outside my apartment complex every morning, I usually wear a baseball cap and some sweatpants. This is partially because I’m lazy but I certainly don’t want to be noticed by anyone either. I suppose there a certain times where it’s more comfortable to be anonymous.
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Beauty and ugliness are two sides of the same coin. If you're beautiful you attract attention and if you're ugly it is the same situation. If you don't want to atract any attention you must dress typical for your age and profession and take care of yourself but not too much. Just not to stand out from the crowd

everyone has a different character. sometimes there are times when we don't want to, other people really look at us. but I think it's really hard to avoid that because, for example, if we are attractive, there will be more views towards us and if we are not attractive, there will be more views towards us.
  
so we should just enjoy it for what it is  it's because it's very difficult to avoid people's eyes on us.

Interesting. But I'm referring to the beauty side of attraction. Do we have beautiful/handsome people who want to look unattractive so that no one is too shy or lustful not to concentrate on what is being said or taught by them?


Do you ever thought of making yourself ugly to avoid attracting attention from people?


Typically many people try to look beautiful to attract attention or look attractive, but how about making yourself look less attractive to stop attracting attention to yourself? Are there people who think like this or people who dislike people staring at them because they are too attractive/beautiful for them. It's annoying sometimes to see people focus on your appearance while you speak to them... You notice they become too shy and sometimes with lustful look on their faces. This is kind distraction for me which tend to take away attention from important discussions you are having with them that you wish you had mask to make you look ugly or unattractive
To me it actually depends on individual not every loves attention and some loves people given them the whole attention just like babes want to get the whole attention to them self , people like introverts don’t like much attention  they just want to do there things and disappear some has for it as to do with individual characters.
Ofcourse. I wonder what introvert-like people could effectively use to solve the attention problem...Mask? Face covering, etc
Instead of covering  there face or using  a mask I think they should just involve in more conversations with people I think with that  they can actually reduce been shy so meeting new people  either in school  or any form of agencies you know this days   People prefer to relate with there phone rather than having a normal conversation with people.
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Beauty and ugliness are two sides of the same coin. If you're beautiful you attract attention and if you're ugly it is the same situation. If you don't want to atract any attention you must dress typical for your age and profession and take care of yourself but not too much. Just not to stand out from the crowd

everyone has a different character. sometimes there are times when we don't want to, other people really look at us. but I think it's really hard to avoid that because, for example, if we are attractive, there will be more views towards us and if we are not attractive, there will be more views towards us.
  
so we should just enjoy it for what it is  it's because it's very difficult to avoid people's eyes on us.

Interesting. But I'm referring to the beauty side of attraction. Do we have beautiful/handsome people who want to look unattractive so that no one is too shy or lustful not to concentrate on what is being said or taught by them?


Do you ever thought of making yourself ugly to avoid attracting attention from people?


Typically many people try to look beautiful to attract attention or look attractive, but how about making yourself look less attractive to stop attracting attention to yourself? Are there people who think like this or people who dislike people staring at them because they are too attractive/beautiful for them. It's annoying sometimes to see people focus on your appearance while you speak to them... You notice they become too shy and sometimes with lustful look on their faces. This is kind distraction for me which tend to take away attention from important discussions you are having with them that you wish you had mask to make you look ugly or unattractive
To me it actually depends on individual not every loves attention and some loves people given them the whole attention just like babes want to get the whole attention to them self , people like introverts don’t like much attention  they just want to do there things and disappear some has for it as to do with individual characters.
Ofcourse. I wonder what introvert-like people could effectively use to solve the attention problem...Mask? Face covering, etc
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Do you ever thought of making yourself ugly to avoid attracting attention from people?


Typically many people try to look beautiful to attract attention or look attractive, but how about making yourself look less attractive to stop attracting attention to yourself? Are there people who think like this or people who dislike people staring at them because they are too attractive/beautiful for them. It's annoying sometimes to see people focus on your appearance while you speak to them... You notice they become too shy and sometimes with lustful look on their faces. This is kind distraction for me which tend to take away attention from important discussions you are having with them that you wish you had mask to make you look ugly or unattractive
To me it actually depends on individual not every loves attention and some loves people given them the whole attention just like babes want to get the whole attention to them self , people like introverts don’t like much attention  they just want to do there things and disappear some has for it as to do with individual characters.
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In China, stockings with hair are sold specifically to make women unattractive.

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everyone has a different character. sometimes there are times when we don't want to, other people really look at us. but I think it's really hard to avoid that because, for example, if we are attractive, there will be more views towards us and if we are not attractive, there will be more views towards us.
 
so we should just enjoy it for what it is  it's because it's very difficult to avoid people's eyes on us.
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Beauty and ugliness are two sides of the same coin. If you're beautiful you attract attention and if you're ugly it is the same situation. If you don't want to atract any attention you must dress typical for your age and profession and take care of yourself but not too much. Just not to stand out from the crowd
Ucy
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Do you ever thought of making yourself ugly to avoid attracting attention from people?


Typically many people try to look beautiful to attract attention or look attractive, but how about making yourself look less attractive to stop attracting attention to yourself? Are there people who think like this or people who dislike people staring at them because they are too attractive/beautiful for them. It's annoying sometimes to see people focus on your appearance while you speak to them... You notice they become too shy and sometimes with lustful look on their faces. This is kind distraction for me which tend to take away attention from important discussions you are having with them that you wish you had mask to make you look ugly or unattractive
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