Topic: Do you mind being alone? (Read 447 times)
You need to have a foundation for the future in the form of a family and children, nowhere without it.
The scariest thing is to stay alone in old age, when no one even brings a glass of water. Take care of yourself and your loved ones.
Old age is really a very terrible time because at that time people will not have the energy to move according to the needs of the mind, there will be a huge gap between want and get. Also for those who have loved ones or family members by their side in old age, old age is indeed a terrible time. Therefore for the future life to be happy care and love of loved ones and family members are needed while there is time to support them in those helpless moments and make old age pleasant with their care. 
Dont mind staying alone cause sometimes one need space on his/her own terms and conditions
yups and the topic seems to be standing in some times and not everytime , its best to have lonely time as we can come out with better ideas and plans ,not mentioning the realization of everything specially our wrong doings.this is how i quit smoking and drinking when having alone time .
The scariest thing is to stay alone in old age, when no one even brings a glass of water. Take care of yourself and your loved ones.
exactly , this is why we must try to do our best letting one if not many to stay with us for the rest of our life .
The scariest thing is to stay alone in old age, when no one even brings a glass of water. Take care of yourself and your loved ones.
On the contrary, I appreciate loneliness and sometimes I need to be alone, think and relax.
You are working with a lot of people in reality and contacting a lot of people during you days off too, that's why you feel that you need to be alone, I'm sure.
On the contrary, I appreciate loneliness and sometimes I need to be alone, think and relax.
Being alone is good in some circumstances and some of the time. But NOBODY really wants to be alone permanently.
That's part of the reason why God offers salvation through Jesus, so that none of us need be alone forever. Rather, we can be friends with God and all people who accept being friends with God... all through Jesus, the man Who is also God.
That's part of the reason why God offers salvation through Jesus, so that none of us need be alone forever. Rather, we can be friends with God and all people who accept being friends with God... all through Jesus, the man Who is also God.
Everyone wants to be alone until you get lost in your own world and there’s no one to pull you out, being alone is a good sign of strength one doesn’t have to be with someone all the time but the essence or the core advantage of having someone is that in your darkest times you need a bit of light and no one can represent that light except the people you love, the only thing people dislike about having someone is the getting to deal with their excesses.
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
To me being alone is a resilient thing and it is very beneficial for me because I can realize a lot of myself during that time alone also being alone is a refreshment for me. For me being alone is not just confined to the house. I like to be alone in any place some of the time but not all of the time. So I think every person needs some time to be free from noise and free from complex life calculations but care should be taken that it does not stop any active human activity then the purpose of being alone will not work properly. I don't mind being alone. The most important thing is for a person to be himself, to be able to coexist with himself, but from another point of view, it is very difficult for a person to live alone for life. He is a social being by nature and it is difficult for him to live alone. one always needs help from his relatives and family. And in order to complete the circle on life like any other spaces, man has to complete his task in order to preserve human race
That's right, that's why it's so hard for us to be alone for a long period of time: socialization is in our genes. It's really hard to fight against your true nature. It's also a big question, should we fight against it?
I don't mind being alone. The most important thing is for a person to be himself, to be able to coexist with himself, but from another point of view, it is very difficult for a person to live alone for life. He is a social being by nature and it is difficult for him to live alone. one always needs help from his relatives and family. And in order to complete the circle on life like any other spaces, man has to complete his task in order to preserve human race
Loneliness is very bad but certain condition need such but for more proficiency in advancing in knowledge and others thing's one can't do completely been lonely because certain situations need people idea to move forward. I don't like being lonely in some extend but I restrict my self form certain crowed that may not be of help why associating to avoid being lonely.
Loneliness is dangerous example one with some illness don't need to be lonely as help may be necessary to avert sudden death where he can't help it's self. To be lonely is good and also bad others may but me I can't I tried been moderate by balancing my loneliness to associate with relevant friend.
Loneliness is dangerous example one with some illness don't need to be lonely as help may be necessary to avert sudden death where he can't help it's self. To be lonely is good and also bad others may but me I can't I tried been moderate by balancing my loneliness to associate with relevant friend.
Before one defines there present being lonely, there must be a proper psychological check... As some loneliness so said are but necessity... Some times being alone has to be deliberately.. As said balancing loneliness is also a deliberate action....
I love being alone it makes me happy and I feel more comfortable, when I'm alone I always watch movies and I enjoy watching movies alone I hate watching movie with someone.
I'm just trying to adjust so it won't affect my marriage in future but deep down I love being alone I enjoy it so much.
I'm just trying to adjust so it won't affect my marriage in future but deep down I love being alone I enjoy it so much.
If it makes you happy, keep doing it, mate. Just, keep it up! Few people in this world know how to achieve happiness so easily.
Every person has loneliness in their life, I think we also have in our life. Of course, outside of every work we have a mindset where we must be satisfied but there are many exceptions in our life.
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
I will certainly respect your stay alone. Because if you are alone, you can catch people's faults by yourself and there is also a matter of self-purification. But it is also true that people cannot live alone. Humans need society and families to function. In ancient times when people lived alone they still needed a group to feel the need. Gradually the group was born followed by the society. People in society help each other, and come forward in danger. But it can also be said that for some people in the society, the society becomes miserable for the people. Yet people love to socialize. Because people are social creatures.Again you are not completely alone, you are busy on mobile or TV. But these are also directly or indirectly supporting you.Being alone is really annoying. I don't like to be alone at all. But unfortunately when I have to be alone with no way I sometimes play games on mobile, or research the cryptocurrency market, I don't like to watch TV shows, although I have TV at home but I never watch TV, it's boring to me.
I'm with you on that, brother. I'd rather watch an educational [program on YouTube than a TV show, when I'm alone. When you are left alone it's normally not a good thing for you, but you can always turn it into some useful thing.
Indeed being alone gives one the opportunity to reflect on ones life, as for me, sometimes I just want to be alone so that I could ponder on the true meaning of my life
Not at all ,Sometimes i like to be in my own space alone without much disturbance
Being alone is really annoying. I don't like to be alone at all. But unfortunately when I have to be alone with no way I sometimes play games on mobile, or research the cryptocurrency market, I don't like to watch TV shows, although I have TV at home but I never watch TV, it's boring to me.
Personally I just go on random websites when I'm bored.
You can go to random places in real life as well. There you can find someone to talk with. A real person, not a bot.
Personally I just go on random websites when I'm bored.
Dont mind staying alone cause sometimes one need space on his/her own terms and conditions
Depends on the person. Some people can't stay alone more than 2-3 weeks, it starts being depressing to them. Other people can't stay alone even for 2-3 hours. It all depends.
Dont mind staying alone cause sometimes one need space on his/her own terms and conditions
I depends on the period of time, you are spending being alone. Anyone can bear a week or two, I think, but it's more than that it starts becoming problematic.
No I do not mind if I am going to be alone. It is a time for me to be in peaceful mind and not to worry about other things in my life.
If I am lonely well then i can text somebody or make a phone call to them. And I will not make my self addicted to my phones and other devices.
If I am lonely well then i can text somebody or make a phone call to them. And I will not make my self addicted to my phones and other devices.
Loneliness is very bad but certain condition need such but for more proficiency in advancing in knowledge and others thing's one can't do completely been lonely because certain situations need people idea to move forward. I don't like being lonely in some extend but I restrict my self form certain crowed that may not be of help why associating to avoid being lonely.
Loneliness is dangerous example one with some illness don't need to be lonely as help may be necessary to avert sudden death where he can't help it's self. To be lonely is good and also bad others may but me I can't I tried been moderate by balancing my loneliness to associate with relevant friend.
Honestly speaking loneliness is very dangerous to human being because when you are always lonely you see that your mind wouldn't be at rest that's why is not good to be lonely, although it can lead someone into early grave, however I think it's very necessary for us to always try as much as possible to stay with people because once you are with someone talking and laughing, chisting you we noticed that if you have anything in your mind that is burdring you at moments it we fanish. Loneliness is dangerous example one with some illness don't need to be lonely as help may be necessary to avert sudden death where he can't help it's self. To be lonely is good and also bad others may but me I can't I tried been moderate by balancing my loneliness to associate with relevant friend.
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
I do think being alone is a great way to relax and reset. When you only have to worry about no one but yourself, that's a great way to unwind. But too much alone time can lead to loneliness as I do think we are built to socialize and have human interaction. Finding that balance is up to you, however.
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
I believe this is about our bring up , how we are being raised because like me that starts being alone since childhood I mean in night time that we need to sleep in our own rooms , we are going to school all by ourself.Have you been with your parents since child?
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
That means you are holding on to the past. Kind of unrelated to hating being alone, as isolating in a positive way can lead to pretty good outcomes. For example, isolating for 5 or 10 mins away from a crowd is much more healthier than going full rambo and living in the woods to make a point XD.
I get what you mean about facing what you've done...truly I do. One of the worst parts about being alone is that you have nothing but the voices in your head, whether it's yours, God's, or haunting memories from your past. Doomscrolling is a super common response to being alone, as our phone is a window into the world we can hide behind the screen with. I highly suggest avoiding doing this, because it will just drive negative feelings further. All you see on social media is the "best" parts of peoples lives, and when you aren't at your best, that can be intimidating, daunting, depressing, etc.
Loneliness is very bad but certain condition need such but for more proficiency in advancing in knowledge and others thing's one can't do completely been lonely because certain situations need people idea to move forward. I don't like being lonely in some extend but I restrict my self form certain crowed that may not be of help why associating to avoid being lonely.
Loneliness is dangerous example one with some illness don't need to be lonely as help may be necessary to avert sudden death where he can't help it's self. To be lonely is good and also bad others may but me I can't I tried been moderate by balancing my loneliness to associate with relevant friend.
Loneliness is dangerous example one with some illness don't need to be lonely as help may be necessary to avert sudden death where he can't help it's self. To be lonely is good and also bad others may but me I can't I tried been moderate by balancing my loneliness to associate with relevant friend.
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
So perhaps you lose the present with the past or daydream about the future. No matter the situation, for me every moment of life is wonderful, being alone is okay because it is not synonymous with loneliness (in other aspects, loneliness also appears as happiness lost in the crowd)
I have quite a lot of things I can do while I'm alone like reading books, listening to music, watching movies, working, drawing, meditating,... there are really a lot of things I can do when I'm alone. don't bother anyone. Maybe I always feel complete with this life, even when facing challenges in life, I want to solve them myself.
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
that means you need to check what is wrong with you or you are addicted to the device. because if it were a normal person, they would not be afraid to feel alone because they feel that it is normal and don't mind it too much, let alone being afraid to face themselves. even when they don't have a device to play or watch, they will still be normal, at most they will find something to do whether reading the newspaper, sleeping, or enjoying coffee while looking at the morning/evening sky.
Do you mind being alone?
If you were a bad child, your Mommy might tell you to go to your room with no TV, Internet, or cellphone use. How many kids listen to their Mom and do what she says. They might go to their room, but the next thing you know is, they are on the Internet, or watching TV.
So, do you really mind, when you are alone?
If you were a bad child, your Mommy might tell you to go to your room with no TV, Internet, or cellphone use. How many kids listen to their Mom and do what she says. They might go to their room, but the next thing you know is, they are on the Internet, or watching TV.
So, do you really mind, when you are alone?
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
I think everyone has the same situation. I want to be alone as well but when you start a family, your me time is going to be occasional. Most of your time will be dedicated to your family and even with your work, you need to weigh things.
But if you have spare time and all you do is watch tv shows and scroll on your phone, that's fine if that's what is giving you a emotional heal.
Just do remember that too much in everything is bad.
Not at all Mosttimes i prefer to stay alone without any disturbance at all. We don't need noisy environments all the time
I think it is not that being alone, it is the state of loneliness that we are afraid of. You can be alone but secured at the same time that people love you. However, loneliness is a different case. It is a state wherein you think that you cannot find company in other people - no connection.
Nope, I don't mind being alone in fact I prefer to be alone most of the time.
I enjoy it and somehow it helps me clear my mind and relax.
I am not against being in a crowded place or meeting people, it is just that I only hang out to the people that I really like or comfortable with.
I enjoy it and somehow it helps me clear my mind and relax.
I am not against being in a crowded place or meeting people, it is just that I only hang out to the people that I really like or comfortable with.
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
Same here. The silence bothers me and I always need to be constantly stimulated either by audio or visual. I guess it has something to do with environmental factors as I was growing up. It doesn’t have anything to do with not wanting to think but more of a comfort that I crave a lot, I’d say. However if you are distracting yourself through busying yourself then it might actually be a lot deeper than you might realize.
It sounds like you're using distractions to avoid facing tough thoughts when you're alone. It's pretty common, but it might help to try small steps like journaling, mindfulness, or finding a hobby you love. Talking to a therapist can also be a great way to get support.
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
What have you done that it makes you feel bad when you think about it?We all have bad disturbing thoughts we wish to ignore but personally I like being alone. I am someone who value my personal space and my personal time. Don’t get me wrong, I love spending time with family and friends but if I don’t have my own time where I can just sit down with my thoughts I fear I might go crazy.
All of us wanted to be alone mate but you seems to be not loving that moment to think deeply
about what is the situation and what can be the better things to do upgrading what's in low because
we cannot be with someone everyday or everytime mate because time will come that we will be lonely.
maybe instead of feeling that mate> best to use this situation to understand what is happening and
what will be your future.
about what is the situation and what can be the better things to do upgrading what's in low because
we cannot be with someone everyday or everytime mate because time will come that we will be lonely.
maybe instead of feeling that mate> best to use this situation to understand what is happening and
what will be your future.
I need some me time for whatever reason and being alone is the best remedy for it. And being alone is not really a bad thing it gives you some time to analyse about yourselves and make changes within you if you feel necessary and you have to accept the practicality everyone is alone in this world so don't expect someone to back you up at your hard times.
I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows
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