I greet una my people. base on the way the countri done choke via d economic system wey our government done put us inside. Ah they see a lot of young people wey be say they they do things collaboratively. You go see house wey be say 4 persons they share rent they leave together. Weting they go just do nah to find money buy things like TV, AC, refrigerator and other house appliances and properties so that the house go make sense. Even sef for business you go see two people combine money start one large business.
Ah been they feel say nah most people like friends, relative or partners they mostly they do all these things. I con realize say this people sef nah different people wey be say they no even too know each other like that. but them just decide to collaborate. Other things i understand be say this people know say if nah only one person they do am the burden go heavy and money go finish kpata-kpata nah why they lock up collaborate.
If people collaborate like this e get somethings wey go they xup, things like.
1. Lack of privacy and at times peace of mind
2. Lack of trust after some period of time spent together
3. Jealousy or envyness based on one wey they do better than the other.
4. Fight for superiority and ownership of some things. e.t.c
Weting me i wan know now nah say which one they preferrable to they on your own or do something yourself (solo) or to collaborate or have a partnership with someone which one wey you think say go they better and go avoid you so many problems but if you they choose to make you consider your financial strength o if nah something wey you fit bear on your own.
Ah been they feel say nah most people like friends, relative or partners they mostly they do all these things. I con realize say this people sef nah different people wey be say they no even too know each other like that. but them just decide to collaborate. Other things i understand be say this people know say if nah only one person they do am the burden go heavy and money go finish kpata-kpata nah why they lock up collaborate.
If people collaborate like this e get somethings wey go they xup, things like.
1. Lack of privacy and at times peace of mind
2. Lack of trust after some period of time spent together
3. Jealousy or envyness based on one wey they do better than the other.
4. Fight for superiority and ownership of some things. e.t.c
Weting me i wan know now nah say which one they preferrable to they on your own or do something yourself (solo) or to collaborate or have a partnership with someone which one wey you think say go they better and go avoid you so many problems but if you they choose to make you consider your financial strength o if nah something wey you fit bear on your own.
Omo I can relate to this kind thing, because I don dey this kind situation before. The best thing to do as you dey with person for the same house na to go solo, because e no get how close people dey, them go one dey get issues, way fit lead to quarrel or fight, so the best way na to go separate ways make every dey him dey. That first time way two of Una first combine money rent the house, Una go enjoy am, but trust me with time Una no go dey tolerate each other excesses.
