Topic: Does a modern woman marry for love or for securities(money and the likes)? (Read 471 times)
March 25, 2021, 01:43:29 AM
I think there are many issues to consider when getting married. If a marriage is only based on love and no material, then love will be consumed under the pressure of life. But if there is no love in a marriage, it is even more terrifying. Because no matter how rich you are, you will not feel happy.
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March 25, 2021, 04:44:47 AM
Maybe those women want to secure their life by loving the rich man. Especially we are still in the pandemic which many people need money to survive. They can not be blamed and think that is normal, but that will not be good if somehow, that man becomes poor and loses his money because that woman can leave him and search for the other rich man. I am not sure about that but I believe that woman marries a man because of a love feeling inside of their heart, and no matter what their condition, they will always try to survive and pass it together.
March 24, 2021, 10:00:35 PM
It depends on whether two people really love each other. If she loves you enough, no matter if you have money or not, she will marry you, but it does not rule out that there are many realistic girls. If she can’t give her what she wants, she may not marry you. , After all, getting married is a lifetime thing
March 24, 2021, 08:06:24 PM
I don't even know now why do they marry because there are people who goes into a relationship for securities not because of love.
But I think there are still some who commits because of love not just for money or other necessities.
But I think there are still some who commits because of love not just for money or other necessities.
March 24, 2021, 05:33:20 PM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
the reasons people get married of course vary...some are married for love, some are married because of age or matchmaking and some are married for money. Basically, everything has a reason and if you think that getting married for security reasons you are not also wrong.
March 24, 2021, 03:12:25 PM
We need to love everyone (you need to come to this conclusion yourself through your experience), but devote yourself to only one person (or a man can marry several women, depending on what traditions and your way of life in the place where you live). As far as I understand, marriage is not love, but an agreement from love, in order to become even better, in order to raise a new generation in love and care. It is clear that not everyone thinks in this way, but I think that you need to strive for spiritual purity, for high ideals in everything.
September 09, 2020, 04:44:55 AM
It is depending upon the women nature, and preferance. If a women have real heart, no matter she is modern, she is marrying only for love care and respect. If a women have realistic preferences then women marrying for securities, property, money and bank balnce
September 09, 2020, 01:24:19 AM
It really depends. You should probably know tho, since I'd assume you guys have been dating for a while before you decide to get married. Marriage should be built on love, that's the foundation. But, we do live in reality, so financial security comes a long as well
July 13, 2020, 09:43:36 AM
Love and money are both important in marriage.Love is the ultimate
May 25, 2019, 05:58:33 PM
I guess it depends on the culture, and maybe we will never really know? The reason lies within the people who are involved. How stupid can you be if you think a person is marrying you only out of his/her benefit? Assess your partner or whomever you are about to be in. Do you think you’re both ready to be in it for the long run? Are you dating him/her just for fun? Or because you see your future with this person? A lot of cases for divorce and annulments due to miscommunication or maybe they weren’t supposed to end up together. When a couple breaks up or falls apart, it’s not a one-way situation, and it’s two way. No one is to blame but both of them. I’m not an expert these are all just theories and assumptions from people I’ve seen that have been through this.
May 23, 2019, 06:12:11 PM
Let us say somw women looking for a man for security reason they want there lives to be secure mostly in financial matter.but we also know not all women will marry a man just for security reason.they marry a man also for love and I believe that many women marry for love not just for money.
May 22, 2019, 09:15:45 AM
How to call these kind of women. 
“Pocket woman “I guess?lolYou mean golddiggers?
Woman that only look on how much you have in pocket before deciding to like you or not 😔
May 22, 2019, 02:15:38 AM
Of course, you will not receive due female attention if you don't have the money. A man must earn money. It is a fact. The more money the better. But initially you need to look for a woman for whom money is not the main thing. In the family the main thing is love and understanding. Look for a loving woman. For this, all the ways are good. Dating on the street, interest clubs, online dating sites (for example, https://www.flirt.com/ is good) and more. Yes, it may not be easy. You have to find exactly your woman who will become your wife.
May 21, 2019, 07:51:32 AM
A really hard topic to face for the rich people out there .
They wouldn't know if the love that their partner gives is true or just wants to be sweet to them because of their money,
If you really look at the current generation you would find that most of the people are willing to be in a relationship for
financial securities.
They wouldn't know if the love that their partner gives is true or just wants to be sweet to them because of their money,
If you really look at the current generation you would find that most of the people are willing to be in a relationship for
financial securities.
May 21, 2019, 04:51:42 AM
And secondly, about security point of view, you can have body guards, actually, husband can't give you security, but he will give you name and i think it is more powerful for you happiness and society point of view.
I believe it is about financial security.
One thing I believe, love can be learned. That is why, I believe most women get married for security then they will learn to love. There is some exception of course but most of the time one can't be together with who they loved and end up with who is available at that time. How can they marry someone they loved when the guy does not loved them at all? It is actually a complicated things
As the saying, Quote
Man does not live by bread alone
so does a relationship can't dwell on love alone. 
May 21, 2019, 01:20:37 AM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
I was surprised that you are asking this thread for yourself.
But anyway i will reply you, Firstly you should marry and better to choose which one you like most. Because you have a lot money and you could easily choose anyone, SO it is not a problem.
And secondly, about security point of view, you can have body guards, actually, husband can't give you security, but he will give you name and i think it is more powerful for you happiness and society point of view.
May 20, 2019, 10:46:29 PM
Well this is a topic that can only be in your decision, but I will help you, if you choose to marry for love, you will have all the possibilities of being happy, because your beloved will take care of you and accept you as you are, she will accept you until in coexistence and believe me is not easy, it is a delicate issue, at first everything is good, but afterwards it is difficult because the games of tolerance begin and it is very necessary that she is very much in love with you to accept all your things included with your mistakes and yours and the two can train each other, so it is good to marry with love, and when having children, it is something that totally changes life for the better, only when there is love, or there is love, because in the bad she will accompany you, however when you marry knowing that she seeks money or similar causes everything changes because the focus and the degree of tolerance on her part changes, she will not have the same acceptance towards you , if you have a to bad position, it is possible that infidelities begin to arise, if there are children a divorce is very ugly, but if the case is for love and if you have money, I think they will be very happy.
May 20, 2019, 11:31:03 AM
How to call these kind of women.
“Pocket woman “I guess?lolYou mean golddiggers?
May 20, 2019, 11:26:01 AM
I don't think "modern women marry for love"! We can see that by visit those Facebook group that deals with women as their discussion is security and money completely. If you don't have money your chances of merry a woman of your choice are very slim and since men understand that they also are focusing of making money to married beautiful woman.
May 20, 2019, 08:58:31 AM
Love and marriage are also became two different things in this modern world,people start loving the good and caring people but when it comes to marriage they will pick the person with huge bank balance even if they are a bad person.
As much as we hate to hear it, women nowadays are looking for those who has deep pockets. Doesn't matter how old the man is, as long as his bank account has 8 or 9 or 10 figures, then women can easily fall in 'love' with that man.Though I disagree on this one but it’s an obvious thing that in liberated countries money is all that matters for most of woman but in some religion countries,they still value the love that they felt than the money that they saw
May 20, 2019, 07:05:16 AM
I am sure that there is a woman who will marry because of love and not because of securities.
But what we see in out there, many of woman didn't really love a man because of love, but they love that man because of his money.
But I am sure that true love is real and many people already prove it that they found their true love.
So if you are not yet found your true love, I am sure that you will get it in the future, you will find the right woman who will stay with you for the rest of her life.
I agree there are woman out there that is willing to sacrifice their freedom just to secure their needs.But what we see in out there, many of woman didn't really love a man because of love, but they love that man because of his money.
But I am sure that true love is real and many people already prove it that they found their true love.
So if you are not yet found your true love, I am sure that you will get it in the future, you will find the right woman who will stay with you for the rest of her life.
They are the lazy woman who doesn't really wants to work and be sustain by their husband .
This is a serious one how would you know if the woman only accepts you because of your money not because of love?
May 19, 2019, 12:02:08 PM
For both and after she gets married, she gets none but has to just bear all the injustice that comes her way.
Well, why does the OP feel it's all because of women that marriages are breaking? I've seen many marriages breaking mostly because of the man rather than the woman so this question should be asked to the men as they mainly get married to good-lookers and then when their wife grows old, they look for younger women.
Well, why does the OP feel it's all because of women that marriages are breaking? I've seen many marriages breaking mostly because of the man rather than the woman so this question should be asked to the men as they mainly get married to good-lookers and then when their wife grows old, they look for younger women.
May 19, 2019, 09:13:44 AM
A woman marries for both, love and security. Why? Because way down deep, even the most liberated women... want kids... to fulfill themselves. Love and security make for an atmosphere that is good for having kids.
May 19, 2019, 01:44:22 AM
Only marry a true believer in the Word of GOD if you want your marriage to last long... better still, marry a woman/man of virtue.
A wife must be submissive to her husband for a marriage to work and a husband must love his wife with all his heart. This is the fact of marriage most people do not understand.
"Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them."— Colossians 3:19
"However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband."- Ephesians 5:33
“For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her." — Ephesians 5:25
“In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered." —1 Peter 3:7
"The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does." —1 Corinthians 7:3-4
"For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man." - 1 Corinthians 11:8-9
"Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives,"—1 Peter 3:1
"Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered."— 1 Peter 3:7
A wife must be submissive to her husband for a marriage to work and a husband must love his wife with all his heart. This is the fact of marriage most people do not understand.
"Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them."— Colossians 3:19
"However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband."- Ephesians 5:33
“For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her." — Ephesians 5:25
“In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered." —1 Peter 3:7
"The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does." —1 Corinthians 7:3-4
"For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man." - 1 Corinthians 11:8-9
"Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives,"—1 Peter 3:1
"Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered."— 1 Peter 3:7
This is the wisdom of the Creator. Time proved its perfection. Unfortunately, now people use other "wisdom" and are unhappy.
May 18, 2019, 10:35:09 PM
Love is very important in marriage and I believe that there are many modern woman still seeking for real love.
May 18, 2019, 05:49:15 PM
It is all about the money these days
May 18, 2019, 03:58:07 PM
You can't really generalize that sort of thing there are still good women out there
that aren't gold diggers.
I can't access the study because i'm in the EU but this is an example how new york women choose men for a first date
"INCOME (shown at the bottom) is among the top 3 in EVERY state polled.
New York's 'Perfect Man' (% Chance for a First Date):
Body Type (38 percent): Athletic
Education (26 percent): Graduate degree
Income (15 percent) $150,000 to $200,000
Eye Color (13 percent): Green eyes
Hair Color (4 percent): Brown hair
Drinking (3 percent): Social drinker
Smoking (1 percent): Non-smoker"
We can't have the comparison of a first date along with marriage which is a life long relation. In my opinion around the world people the relationship through marriage it is getting stronger day by day. Another thing very few of the kind, maybe 30% move based on securities while the majority 70% prioritize love unlike the wealth. that aren't gold diggers.
I can't access the study because i'm in the EU but this is an example how new york women choose men for a first date
"INCOME (shown at the bottom) is among the top 3 in EVERY state polled.
New York's 'Perfect Man' (% Chance for a First Date):
Body Type (38 percent): Athletic
Education (26 percent): Graduate degree
Income (15 percent) $150,000 to $200,000
Eye Color (13 percent): Green eyes
Hair Color (4 percent): Brown hair
Drinking (3 percent): Social drinker
Smoking (1 percent): Non-smoker"
May 18, 2019, 02:58:52 PM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
I bet most of the women choose security over love and care so you need to have a filled wallet if you want a girl for you,but there are many exceptions who might have the money but looking for the right person.
May 18, 2019, 02:43:08 PM
You can't really generalize that sort of thing there are still good women out there
that aren't gold diggers.
I can't access the study because i'm in the EU but this is an example how new york women choose men for a first date
"INCOME (shown at the bottom) is among the top 3 in EVERY state polled.
New York's 'Perfect Man' (% Chance for a First Date):
Body Type (38 percent): Athletic
Education (26 percent): Graduate degree
Income (15 percent) $150,000 to $200,000
Eye Color (13 percent): Green eyes
Hair Color (4 percent): Brown hair
Drinking (3 percent): Social drinker
Smoking (1 percent): Non-smoker"
that aren't gold diggers.
I can't access the study because i'm in the EU but this is an example how new york women choose men for a first date
"INCOME (shown at the bottom) is among the top 3 in EVERY state polled.
New York's 'Perfect Man' (% Chance for a First Date):
Body Type (38 percent): Athletic
Education (26 percent): Graduate degree
Income (15 percent) $150,000 to $200,000
Eye Color (13 percent): Green eyes
Hair Color (4 percent): Brown hair
Drinking (3 percent): Social drinker
Smoking (1 percent): Non-smoker"
May 18, 2019, 02:35:46 PM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
You have to assess this kind of decision, its your lifetime as married is another venue of life where you will going to commit yourself, if being practical, security is needed to be the first thing in mind, allowing yourself to know if the person you'll going to say I do can give you a better life, love will be learned if you are living a happy life, just my opinion. May 18, 2019, 01:56:15 PM
Love and marriage are also became two different things in this modern world,people start loving the good and caring people but when it comes to marriage they will pick the person with huge bank balance even if they are a bad person.
As much as we hate to hear it, women nowadays are looking for those who has deep pockets. Doesn't matter how old the man is, as long as his bank account has 8 or 9 or 10 figures, then women can easily fall in 'love' with that man.
May 18, 2019, 01:49:30 PM
Love and marriage are also became two different things in this modern world,people start loving the good and caring people but when it comes to marriage they will pick the person with huge bank balance even if they are a bad person.
As much as we hate to hear it, women nowadays are looking for those who has deep pockets. Doesn't matter how old the man is, as long as his bank account has 8 or 9 or 10 figures, then women can easily fall in 'love' with that man. May 18, 2019, 01:36:42 PM
Love and marriage are also became two different things in this modern world,people start loving the good and caring people but when it comes to marriage they will pick the person with huge bank balance even if they are a bad person.
May 18, 2019, 11:16:10 AM
Only marry a true believer in the Word of GOD if you want your marriage to last long... better still, marry a woman/man of virtue.
A wife must be submissive to her husband for a marriage to work and a husband must love his wife with all his heart. This is the fact of marriage most people do not understand.
"Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them."— Colossians 3:19
"However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband."- Ephesians 5:33
“For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her." — Ephesians 5:25
“In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered." —1 Peter 3:7
"The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does." —1 Corinthians 7:3-4
"For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man." - 1 Corinthians 11:8-9
"Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives,"—1 Peter 3:1
"Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered."— 1 Peter 3:7
A wife must be submissive to her husband for a marriage to work and a husband must love his wife with all his heart. This is the fact of marriage most people do not understand.
"Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them."— Colossians 3:19
"However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband."- Ephesians 5:33
“For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her." — Ephesians 5:25
“In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered." —1 Peter 3:7
"The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does." —1 Corinthians 7:3-4
"For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man." - 1 Corinthians 11:8-9
"Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives,"—1 Peter 3:1
"Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered."— 1 Peter 3:7
May 18, 2019, 08:53:30 AM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
You are getting married?with that point of views in life?i think better Not because you are questioning the personality and character of womanOr maybe you are living in a sin place in where woman are go for money and not for love
Because in our place love is all that matter(secondary’s are money or material)
May 18, 2019, 08:01:03 AM
I Think Love is the key ingredients Of Marriage
without Love its cant be sustained.
exception Are There. Independent woman who Just want emotional support And love. on other Hand in society there are Other greedy girl who just want only money luxary.
but its depend on the couple how they treat each other.
because love is two way connection.
without Love its cant be sustained.
exception Are There. Independent woman who Just want emotional support And love. on other Hand in society there are Other greedy girl who just want only money luxary.
but its depend on the couple how they treat each other.
because love is two way connection.
May 18, 2019, 07:20:25 AM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
I think that we all wants to find true love but also we are searching stability and security,
We want to find someone we can trust but today it's difficult to find such person.
Things are changing very fast and many people are unprepared for lifelong challenges and difficulties.
That is why we have a lot of divorce and marriage problems.
I think that physical and emotional connections without a spiritual relationship are not enough for a good marriage.
May 18, 2019, 01:32:44 AM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
Women are designed to chase men with more more resources,because this can guarantee their future generation.This is pure biology and genetics.
For me,love is overrated.Two people have to be in a relationship because they have similar goals,views,interests not because of love.
Falling in love can be quite delusional sometimes.
May 17, 2019, 06:18:13 PM
Modern woman a lot of them are using practical ways marrying for the money not for a love, my reason is with money love is uselss.
That's is truth and I agree with you, in this modern world woman choosing money for their securty, because love can learn it.
Love is the essential ingredient for any form of relationship. If it is substituted for anything,the outcome will be disastrous. So marry for love.
That's is truth and I agree with you, in this modern world woman choosing money for their securty, because love can learn it.
May 17, 2019, 12:04:59 PM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
I bet most of the women choose security over love and care so you need to have a filled wallet if you want a girl for you,but there are many exceptions who might have the money but looking for the right person. 
May 17, 2019, 11:12:00 AM
I am sure that there is a woman who will marry because of love and not because of securities.
But what we see in out there, many of woman didn't really love a man because of love, but they love that man because of his money.
But I am sure that true love is real and many people already prove it that they found their true love.
So if you are not yet found your true love, I am sure that you will get it in the future, you will find the right woman who will stay with you for the rest of her life.
But what we see in out there, many of woman didn't really love a man because of love, but they love that man because of his money.
But I am sure that true love is real and many people already prove it that they found their true love.
So if you are not yet found your true love, I am sure that you will get it in the future, you will find the right woman who will stay with you for the rest of her life.
May 17, 2019, 10:59:41 AM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
You have to assess this kind of decision, its your lifetime as married is another venue of life where you will going to commit yourself, if being practical, security is needed to be the first thing in mind, allowing yourself to know if the person you'll going to say I do can give you a better life, love will be learned if you are living a happy life, just my opinion. May 17, 2019, 08:19:00 AM
Love is the essential ingredient for any form of relationship. If it is substituted for anything,the outcome will be disastrous. So marry for love.
May 17, 2019, 08:15:14 AM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
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