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Topic: Does it bother you if your wife earns more in a month than you ? (Read 316 times)
September 06, 2018, 12:41:23 PM
August 29, 2018, 05:23:00 AM
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
I would be so happy to hear that, because I would knew that she found herself in this life and she is enjoying it. I just want her to be happy. That's all. August 29, 2018, 04:39:41 AM
No i'm not bother. I'm only bother when my wife f*ck other man.
August 29, 2018, 04:22:49 AM
My wife also earns more than me, but it does not hurt me, because we both work for the common good!
August 29, 2018, 04:12:14 AM
It totally depends on the partners that make up the couple. If they can sort themselves properly, things will be fine. There are some cultures however that make it difficult for the man to be comfortable with earning less than the wife. Some women will naturally become arrogant and less cooperative with the husband. Some husbands too might lose some amount of confidence due to this. I personally will not like to earn less than my wife. The key, though is that both partners should be comfortable financially and understand each other too. Financial issues in marriage are really delicate.
August 29, 2018, 03:28:41 AM
She better earn more than me ! She is way smarter than me and I paid for some of her education. 
August 29, 2018, 12:05:13 AM
It does, definitely. A man must be the provider in the traditional sense. 
August 28, 2018, 10:28:49 PM
I feel like I would be kind of upset about it but overall its fine.
August 28, 2018, 09:37:27 PM
Does it bother you if your wife earns more in a month than you ?
Of course it does. She's still not earning enough so that I can quit and live in style off her earnings.
Of course it does. She's still not earning enough so that I can quit and live in style off her earnings.
August 28, 2018, 07:34:22 PM
Not necessarily! We both have equal responsibilities, but it doesn't necessarily follows we have same amount of share. It's not about the amount, but the value. Fulfilling our responsibilities is not a competition and is not based on pride, but rather it's based on love, understanding and respect. If she's more successful than me, then I should be happy for her and grateful to have her as my wife, and vice versa.
August 28, 2018, 07:14:26 PM
ok to my opinion it does not bother at all. It all depends on the woman . If she still shows gratitude and honor to you despite for the fact that she still earns more than you. However the only way you should be bothered is when she starts disprispecting you anyhow. She doesn't do what you want, she sees you as stupid and other worrying situation , then my friend you should be bothered and do something about this situation
August 28, 2018, 06:15:27 PM
No, why would it bother you? You'd have to be nuts to get bothered by that.
August 28, 2018, 03:48:54 PM
In as much as we have the understanding to live together as husband and wife, a man is more confident and proud to be the bread winner of his family. On the contrary if my wife monthly earning is better than mine it will definitely get me worried. As a man and the head of the family, watching my family depending more on my wife’s income will bother me a lot. Women are meant to assist their husbands and not shoulder the responsibilities. Even the bible made us to understand that any man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.
March 31, 2018, 03:47:17 PM
no, as long as he does not make me feel.
because the husband should be appreciated
because the husband should be appreciated
March 31, 2018, 03:32:34 PM
itu tidak mengganggu,
ketika kita menikah sudah menerima kekurangan masing-masing, tentu saja ketidakseimbangan ini bukan masala, ini akan sangat membantu keuangan keluarga.
ketika kita menikah sudah menerima kekurangan masing-masing, tentu saja ketidakseimbangan ini bukan masala, ini akan sangat membantu keuangan keluarga.
March 31, 2018, 01:32:17 PM
If self-respect and your love for each other is genuine then it is not a big issue and consider it as blessing, and if you can, earn on Bitcoin so you can match her a little.
March 31, 2018, 11:34:03 AM
For few husbands, yeah it bothers. Because they thought that if their wifes could earn more money than they could earn, their pride would sink. But as for me, having a wife that could earn money for your little family is cool. It would help a lot in your finances. You can back up each other back.
March 31, 2018, 11:12:19 AM
The bottom line is the income statement of the family.It is not bothersome
for my wife's salary to be more.It is very welcomed as the family would
not depend on my income alone.She being a wife shall support the family
very excitedly with her income.As long as she is that humble woman I know,
what she earns does not really bother me.With love and affection between us,
we make the most use of our income for our family's good.
for my wife's salary to be more.It is very welcomed as the family would
not depend on my income alone.She being a wife shall support the family
very excitedly with her income.As long as she is that humble woman I know,
what she earns does not really bother me.With love and affection between us,
we make the most use of our income for our family's good.
March 31, 2018, 06:47:08 AM
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
It doesnt matter for the husband if his wife is earning more than his income. It only matters if their inlaws are watching them. Sometimes they are the cause why couples quarrel. This also matter when the husband and wife has misunderstanding. Their salaries came out. The wife will brag that she bring home a bigger amount of money and that shes the one who support her family.
March 31, 2018, 06:47:00 AM
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
No, it will not bother me. I believe that we are already in an era where women have the same right and previlage same as men. Unlike a long time ago, only limited jobs and opportunities were offered to women. As long as it is for your family you should not be bothered.
March 31, 2018, 06:14:14 AM
I think that monetary issues should not be a problem in a family, and the basis of the family is unlimited cooperation and solidarity. For this reason my family is according to my understanding; there is no place for money and money's feelings.
March 31, 2018, 05:50:19 AM
No, it doesn't bother me at all -- and it's not because i'm a feminist, or because we live in a egalitarian society.. no, it doesn't bother me at all because i have no wife 
March 30, 2018, 01:25:52 PM
I don't see a reason why would it bother me.
It would definitely make me happy because we are both earning money and our saving for our future would be much more bigger,
And we could afford to buy the things that we want and we could send our kids in a good school.
It would definitely make me happy because we are both earning money and our saving for our future would be much more bigger,
And we could afford to buy the things that we want and we could send our kids in a good school.
March 30, 2018, 12:34:08 PM
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
And why would you hate someone that brought a help to your family? Is it because of your trashy pride? If so then too bad for you since you are blinded by it that you can't see the goodness it can bring which you should be thankful. As a husband and wife, you need to be hands in hands. Jealousy to one another is not a thing. Be happy to what the other achieved like it's your own achievement too. We should throw away those stupid things. These stupid things that I'm referring to is obvious and no need to expound. 
March 30, 2018, 12:27:49 PM
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
No and definitely not. If ever my wife earns more than me, I would be proud of her and support her all the way. I believe that being envy towards your partner isn't healthy. It is still better if we'll just earn together for the betternes of our future. Working hard together would make a relationship even more stronger.
March 30, 2018, 11:03:28 AM
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
I am not bothered if my wife earns higher in a month than I do. If you are too bothered; it would escalate to jealousy and you will start hurting her. I believe the most important thing is the love and understanding that exist between us. LOVE COMES BEFORE MONEY March 30, 2018, 08:22:45 AM
It's good and not bothering at all both have on duties for family financial even the wife earn more.
March 25, 2018, 06:39:55 AM
I don't care about that at all because being a woman doesn't make them inferior. They also have their destiny to be fulfilled
March 25, 2018, 06:31:56 AM
Of course I don't mind.I don't know why people are burdened with this issue.Most guys would be proud that his wife is making more money from him.They are in the community, and all that money is their, jointly.Such a life is the most beautiful, when there is no difference.Most people would be bothered, it's the opposite of me.It doesn't matter if a husband or a woman is making more money, it is important how much money is earned together.
My huaband dont bother if i earned more than him.my salary is big in my regular work.even my husband work in other country.the import isa we can provide the needs of our son.we work together for the future of our son.
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
Yeah this is true. I earn more than what my husband is earning in a month. But, it doesn't matter to him nor to me because what is more important is how you provide to the needs of the family, especially for the children's need. The couple nowadays work together in order for the whole family to live a comfortable life.
as long as he does not forget his duties as a wife and fulfill his responsibilities and obligations, I do not think it would bother me if my wife earns more than I earn. because we must complement each other.
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
Why even bother? Isn't it greatvthat you have greater income so you can provide better for you family? Take away that pride and remember we are in the 21st century, gender equality is bow being practiced.
It doesn't bother me. Why not? Because we measure our earnings on a weekly basis. Three weeks of the month I earn more than she does. There is only one week of the month that she earns more than me... but she earns more in that one week than I do all month.
That's why we measure our earnings weekly. I win 3 out of 4, but she only wins 1 out of 4.
That's why we measure our earnings weekly. I win 3 out of 4, but she only wins 1 out of 4.
There's something sexy about productive women.
Unless of course you are both on welfare and she gets more than you:)
Unless of course you are both on welfare and she gets more than you:)
that would make me happy actually
No way, doesntt bother me at all. any income is good, plus two people earn more than just one often.
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
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