Topic: Don't rush life.. (Read 282 times)

Just enjoy your life and don't rush things. By rushing everything it will affect your health and also your life it will stress you and maybe you'll be stress if you rush your life. Be sure to think and also understand what your doing or what you're planning because if you just go and go without thinking, you'll life may be worse. Be responsible on what your doing, be financially stable before married. Don't rush things!

Can you please reference me what is called The Book of life and exactly in which page or chapter of the book of life that is said that is time for everything.
And again before you provide me the reference, I would want to know when exactly is the time for everything when am I exactly going to be the president of my country.
When will you make your first million-dollar if you have never made.
Which day will the president of your country die?

What I mean to tell you is that there is time and time is time. It is you that will choose things would happen and how you want them to happen. I don't think that there is any spiritual or supernatural arrangements anywhere telling when things will happen.
If you commit suicide now, it would be said it's your time to die. What of if you never committed suicide, you wouldn't die at that time.

We don't even have to plan of rushing things because things is going to get out of hands if we are not prepared to work towards bettering our lifestyle. It is not easy to get to the level that we want to get to but we need to take everything step by step so that we can we can get what we want finally with double doing it.

everyone have the Spirit of getting or arriving to what you want and what we don't want so I believe that at this point in time we don't need to rush to anything what we need to do is to follow the steps that is encouraging a step that will lead us to the place that will profit us and life

Of course waking up to take the decision on being the president is a step which is to be followed by working towards it. Everything starts with you deciding and I seen many that just jump into being very religious because, they claim to have been called by the supernatural.

Rush might not be a good practice but, its subject yo context. When your comfortable about where you are or with the progress your making, you might not go far or know what you could have archived should you have pushed things further.

There is no guarantee that taking things slow might get you there and neither is rushing but something about rushing is, you might get to make mistakes and the chance to correct them in time with enough time to try other things. So, its not always bad to push things a little faster.

Sometimes I get worried about the way people are rushing everything about life. Parents in my country are doing everything possible to ensure that their children get a double promotion so that they can skip classes. They don't care about the emotional and psychological maturity of the child because their focus is to make the child graduate before their normal age. The truth is that they graduate to join the pool of unemployed and unemployable graduates in my nation. When I was younger, I also thought that rushing and struggling to succeed is necessary. But as I began to understand that success is when opportunity meets preparation. Since then I ensure that I get all the training, skills, and certification that I can and wait patiently for the right opportunity to come. You can rush and miss your opportunity because you are too fast to identify it.

Life shouldn't be rushed so that you don't regret it later. Life is step by step, there is no hurry in whatever that we are doing. Just do your best and leave the rest for nature. If you see life as a competition, this is where you get it wrong and you will be misled in your decisions. We all have our own destinies and the perfect time to achieve them. If your friend is rich and you feel that you are lacking behind, just relax and be patient with whatever you are doing and you will see it that the right time for you to achieve your goal will come just stay focused and don't be distracted with other peoples progress. Some of this people that you are jealous of,might have involved in different evils to become successful. In one sentence be hardworking and commit your success to God's hand,be patient for nature to play its part. The youths are not ready to be patient and hard working, instead are rushing in destruction.

Thanks for the advice op, I just wish every one in the world can just see this now and read it the way I did, sincerely hurry in life has cut so many youths half way, just because they want to make quick Money and acquire wealth, hurry in life also leads to money making rituals which is a top list in our society today, every body just want to be rich over night without having a legit hustle,and hurry in life is a cause of all this..
I see youths everyday who run mad on daily basis just they needed quick money and it is really disheartening...

There is no need to rush life. Allow things to fall in place as they are aught to be. Whatever you rush to acquire that is not yet it's time will definately not last.
Imagine a young boy of 21years old who dropped out of school to go and do internet fraud so that he can have much money to buy him self flashy cars, wears and impress girls, he will definitely not enjoy his wealth because he may not live long enough.
It is in human nature not to be patience and wait till it is their time.

Yes, life really doesn't need to be rushed. Because rushing will only bring bad results. Rushing through life can make mistakes and end up regretting it. We have to make an important decision first.

Why are we supposed to rush life when we are still going to die and go to where we belong. Life should not be the way we see it. We need to be prepared and work for all we wants from life and nit by killing people and doing something that we cause the death of people citizens just to gain power.

I have found it content of your friend worthy of nice because I've seen that many people do rush for their life and with such Rush they won't be able to achieve their target I understand that it is good oh cross-check whatever thing you are doing before going into it and that will make a good record of yours because already know the strategies to be successful at that point

your extremely right, having knowledge of something helps you overcome it, motivation makes you archieve your goals in life, just believe in yourself, and always learn how to be secretive to yourself, dont always tells people your plans, let them see for themselves..

We don't need to rush, but we shouldn't procrastinate or live too slowly in life either. Even if you have a perfect plan, but you don't start, don't make an effort, no matter how excellent that plan is, you will fail and be left behind. We not only live for ourselves, but our parents also will not have enough time to wait for us, if we are not faster in life. Time and health won't stop waiting for you, so don't rush but don't waste time either. We need to have a specific plan in life but also need to be faster in life, there needs to be a balance and harmony between the two.

To get a better life, make sure you're not comparing your life with other people. This is why most people get brainwashed because of social medias e.g. instagram, facebook, twitter, youtube etc where they see a lot people who's have a same age or younger than them are more successful.

You're also shouldn't life because of other people's opinions e.g. they ask you to get married ASAP since you're already old, they ask you to make baby, they ask you to buy a lambo etc.

These people are either an influencer who get paid by promoting an financial apps or they're have a rich parents

You are right, life is indeed very short. But The term #leave with no regret#  is detrimental to the ecosystem of life. You can't leave life without regret. Regret and mistake are the two connected words that guide both the human power of growth and Conscience.  If man does mistake and regret his act, he learns and there after grows closer to the sphere of perfection. Life without regret is a life without empathy and veneration to humanity in circle. If you don't regret your mistake for ones, it means you are perfect.  And no one is perfect except the supreme being(God)..In my own opinion,   Don't rush life means, every step one takes in life should be teleguided by the fear of God.

This is sooooooooooo relative and let me make an analogy why we don't rush life but sometimes life rush us.

Let's suppose you are a normal person that you have a family and a good job and you are happy with your life,you also like to gamble some extra money during weekends(no I am not talking about myself  ).This is your normal life and no one is rushing you at all,it is the monotony that keeps repeating itself which we consider our routine or our daily life.

Now one beautiful weekend you hit that multi million dollar jackpot and your life changes dramatically for the better as you don't need to work anymore but you start your own business and become a very busy person.In this context it is life that rushes you.

It's up to you whether or not you rush things, but you should know that each individual has his/her own timeline and pace. The trend about the glorification of the "young successful entrepreneur" is wrong and it shouldn't drive you to become one via the so-called "startups." You can be successful anywhere with any occupation, not just as CEO of some unicorn startups.

Living your life to the fullest is better than rushing things. Enjoy your life and the process at your desired pace, and you'll eventually get there at the right time as long as you keep growing as an individual. But, there should be a sense of keep pushing your limit, and not lazy. As Mourinho said "I am 56 now, and yesterday I was 20."

You need to have the knowledge and also you need to be motivated on doing those things in order to successfully achieve it. therefore, invest in something beneficial when it comes to your personal life because no one really in this world will gonna help you on doing that except for yourself don't rely on anyone in this world to help you achieve your goals because there is a saying "it's a man for himself" it's better to be silent when you are preparing to reach your goal and just be humble when you finally reach the top.

Life is stage by stage, once you miss any stage is gone, when someone has pass his or her 30s, then that person knows that time is going and may need to rush life, so he can meet up the pressure, the main still is to have a focus and not to fall into doing wrongs things just because you want to meet up, as we are growing the more pressure we face. Because people are already looking up to you. And almost everybody has a target that before I get to the age I won't have done this and that.

I do not think rushing life is the best option, neither is taking things slowly an option but in whatever step and stage you're at, it is expedient to take everything easily..

Rushing might land you in difficult times where ordinarily you wouldn't be so it's best to handle every stage with utmost attention, care and ease.

^^^ Need to watch the new movie "Jesus Revolution." That movie is all about younger people finding solidity in life through coming to faith in Jesus. It's almost a documentary about what happened in the 1970s in California.

If OgNasty's guess on OP's age is right, I think reason why OP brought this topic up is because you are in your early thirties under a lot of pressure. I have been there and totally get what you mean. Life should not be rushed and this can help you ease a lot of situations when you get into trouble now in this stage of life. However, things will change and one day you'll agree with Mr.OgNasty as you feel less time left and more things undone. "The days are long but the decades are short". All of us will get the meaning of it sooner or later so don't rush and don't judge, we will all know one day.

Nice advice, and one that is relatable. It is true that what is written for you will not pass you by, and it is also true that in order to achieve success in life, you must stand up and work for it. There are times to rush and times to be calm in life; just make sure you do the right thing at the right time. Life does not wait for anyone, so make the most of it while you still can.

You're right, everything takes stages. at the same time we are born into this world. we used to be toddlers, over time we become children, teenagers, adults, and elderly. work, and success is the same. all there is no need to rush, because it could be when you are too hasty everything will get messed up. enjoy the process, because that's where we will feel happy and grateful.

I just pick a word from your quote, dont spend time doing things that are of no value.

Life is too short so I would advise you to do everything you can to enjoy it as much as you can as often as you can. Don’t spend time doing things that are of no value to you & don’t waste time with people who aren’t good for you.

The only guaranteed thing in life is death, we are all going to die so make the most of every day you have on earth alive. Always try to be the best version of yourself possible & live with no regrets.

This life is to be taken with ease and not rushing while in pursuit of achieving anything, there's no shortcut in making it in life as everything about this life has protocols on time and season, everyone is placed with the same opportunity to make it in life only if we can discover such potential in us and work towards it in creating values others will appreciate and accept, and we must not watch others progress in other not to get us discouraged or rush as well about making it in life.

you have said it all, rushing without no good plan makes you end up in a wrong direction, having a good plan structure makes you archive your desire goal no matter the how long it takes...

Their is no need to rush life, life is about planing. It is better to be slow and plan well to be in the  right direction than to rush life, take a speed and still be in the wrong direction. If life is well planned their will be good outcomes of result but when life is rushed to achieve things so fast, mist times it normally ends so bad. Their are things in life which I never planned very well for them, I was just so in haste to achieve things but it didn't work out well for me. No need to rush life on a speed, life requires good planning,  even if planning will take time but as far as a good result is certain it is better.

on earth here everyone sees life as a competition especially when your peer groups are doing much better than you, you might not really tell the source where there richness is coming from, at that point you really want to meet up just like them it might end you up in doing something stupid just to make that money..

"Time flies so fast" the saying the we always heard as people go older. Most of the time we dont recognize time because of being busy on things we do in life. At some moment in my life, I do feel rushing my life how do I say so? Its when I cant stop myself ro get jealous when I see my colleagues reaching their dreams and here I am staying and trying to find what my real purspose in this world. Its hard to not think about it but I still keep holding on the saying "we have our own perfect moment and timing in life". Life is different on every people, it may be easy for them or hard for you, however we must always be strong all the time in order to reach our goal.

Right now im more on letting myself to go with the flow of my life. Im enjoying every moment I have with myself, family and my love one. Plans may not happen like we think on our life but believe that God has always a better plan for us.

Yeah,rushing the life is individual differences, just that everyone really needs to meet up the life activities, but rush with ease.

^^^ Right! Especially if you live in Rushia.     

I think this is a young man's attitude.  If 1992 is your birthday, you are literally in the period of your life that you need to rush life a bit.  You aren't going to live forever and as you age you're going to notice that things you took for granted become much more difficult.  Simple things take much more effort and preparation.  Don't fall into this trap that life is long and you can move slowly through it.  It isn't.  Your youth will be gone in the blink of an eye and someday going for a run around the block will seem like something you wish you had done daily until you were unable to do so anymore.

I say rush life.  Do all the things.  Someday you won't be able to.

In the journey of life, most times we are presured how fast the world is living us behind, so it makes us to think how to fast track our life, but the truth is that there is a difference between motion and movement..

You can be in motion still not moving, we can say direction is better than speed.The truth is that everything takes time regardless of how fast you go, you can't rush life;there is a saying if you want to go fast go alone, but if you choose to go far go with a team, rushing is always in our DNA(blood),we rush to become an adult before learning to be a kid, we rush to build a billion dollar business before working on our start up, and we also rush to have sex before knowing what sex is all about, when you rush life you lose out some of the beautiful things life have to offer, so life is all about stages, for example you can't just wake up one morning and decide to be the president of the country no it doesn't work like that, you have to work towards it, even the book of life states "there is time for everything.

In conclusion;life is stages, we count one before counting two, likewise you can't force some one to love you, the truth is just do the right thing be hardworking and have that believe your wish will come through, rushing life might end you up in a critical condition.At the end when time comes no one can stop you, whatever has your name on it can pass to another person.