It worked!! Thank you!
As soon as I ticked "Use Tor Proxy..." it worked immediatly.
I didn't even have to check other servers, because using "Select server automatically" was enough.
Why is it possible that I connect using Tor but not with my own internet connection? Even though using it in a virtualbox/machine works fine (same ip)
Your PC might have closed/blocked ports that Electrum servers usually connected. Try to disable the "Use Tor Proxy" again then change the DNS to 8.8.8.8 and 8.8.4.4.
You can find it on control panel> Network and Internet>Network and Sharing Center>Change adapter settings> Right-click the ethernet(or any adapter that connected to the internet)>Then choose "Properties"
Under properties find this "Internet Protocol Version 4 (TCP/IPv4)" then properties.
It looks like this
Click the “Use the following DNS server addresses:” then put the 8.8.8.8 and 8.8.4.4 on "Alternate DNS server".
If this still doesn't work try to find those blocked ports by follow the guide from here "
How to see if Windows Firewall is blocking a port or program" then try to disable them it should be work if there is no blocked ports in your Windows 10 PC.
If the above still doesn't work try to reset the whole internet settings from your PC and disable the proxy settings under internet settings.
You can follow the guide from here "
FIX: Unable to Connect to proxy server in Windows 10" only follow the two methods under "Internet options" and "Disable Proxy"