Remember: ELECTRUM DOES NOT GENERATE BIP 39 SEED therefore you can't use this SEED in your HW if you are using one. Electrum Dev's feel "their" version of SEED is better. You can still use your HW SEED with Electrum quite easily!
Can we just clarify what you mean here?
You can pair your hardware wallet itself (not its seed) with Electrum easily and safely, and lots of people do this. You essentially use Electrum in place of Ledger Live/Trezor Suite/whatever software your hardware wallet comes bundled with, using Electrum only as a software interface to your hardware wallet. You never enter the seed phrase your hardware wallet generated in to Electrum, and your private keys remain on your hardware wallet. You should never take the seed phrase your hardware wallet generated and enter it on Electrum.* Doing so completely negates the entire security of your hardware wallet, exposes your seed phrase to an online environment, and puts all your coins at risk.
Similarly, although you cannot import a seed phrase created by Electrum to a hardware wallet because it isn't BIP39, you shouldn't be trying to do this in the first place. Again the whole point of hardware wallet is the seed phrase is generated entirely within the device, and the private keys are stored entirely within the device. If you try to circumvent this then you weaken your security.
*The exception to this is if you are doing so on a permanently airgapped machine for the purpose of recovering your coins from a lost or damaged hardware wallet.