Do i need to use that one? Or i could use the one i always used?
You can use any address that is shown in your addresses tab. Electrum just shows you a new address to give you a better privacy and you would be able to know the source of the coin.
The bitcoin address in my receive tab is not there. The first bitcoin address under the Used is there of course and has over 50 transactions etc.
So which is the bitcoin address i need to put in the bitcoin refund address tab?
Any address under the "Receiving Address" can be used as the "Refund address".
Also since when you put the amount of btc you want for litecoin for example, they give you a specific bitcoin address to send to. So wouldn't that mean when they receive it, they know which litecoin address to send to? Thus they put the bitcoin refund address only if there is an issue?
Yes. Probably.
When i tried to send from electrum, i get a message saying the fee is unusually high. Its like 3.80 for this fee to send like 12 dollars worth of btc for some litecoin. Im doing a tiny transfer first to test it out.
Can someone confirm that these are the fees? When i moved the fee bar to the lowest on electrum, it says within 25 blocks, the fee is about 50 cents or so. But when its with 5 blocks or the next block, it shows the fee as around 3.80. Do most of you just send it with those fees?
The fees depends on your number of inputs and/or output. If you have lots of inputs and outputs, the size of the transaction will be high. Your client will have to adjust your fee to ensure that it meets the optimal fee/byte. Miners have limited space in their blocks and it is necessary for them to maximise their profit.
How long would it take to receive the litecoin if you just send with the minimum fee? The thing is im just sending about 12 dollars worth of btc. And the fee is like 3.80 which to me is ridiculous.
Probably from a few hours to a day. You can use viaBTC's transaction accelerator to push your queue in their mining pool.
Can someone answer my other questions and also this one? How long does it take if you send with the minimum fee? How long if you do the default fee set by electrum?
If you send with the minimum fee, it would take a very, very long time. If you are sending with dynamic fee, you should get a decent estimate.