Cool, thanks. I’ll just pm you a pic rather than try to describe myself physically, or did you mean other types of details?
About the flirting, I’m kind of the quiet-serious-mysterious type, so actually not a very good flirter. In this scenario I’d go about it slowly, first just looking at you frequently and kind of shamelessly, making sure that you notice, and try to see if you feel flattered. If after a while you keep looking back and start touching your hair or something then I’d assume you are a little attracted to me and I’d try to make some innocent small talk while your husband is not around. Rinse and repeat through a number of days while getting bolder each time, trying some accidental touching and bumping, stuff like that. Say one day your husband is drunk or feeling sick so he goes to bed early, you go to the bar and find me there. After some talking I invite you to dance, you hesitate but agree. Then I invite you to my room and then to a massage as you progressively break your mental barriers and offer less resistance.
Of course, this is all an example of how I’d do it, you don’t have to play it out like that at all and it doesn’t really matter if it doesn’t feel like me since I’m more interested in your mental struggle to keep faithful but finding it harder and harder, how you tell yourself that if it becomes inappropriate you’ll stop but when you reach that point you can’t stop and push that point further.