Nobody sees my IP, wallets and assets.
Or does nothing come close to Bitcoin in terms of decentralization?
Just try to compare the cost to run Bitcoin and Ethereum nodes.
So I would need to deposit 32ETH for that.
I doubt that it is possible to pick your own block even if you stake 32 ETH cause as far as I know the blocks are assigned randomly once a committee has been assigned to a block, one member at random is given the exclusive power to propose a new block of transactions.
Note: ignore the above part, seems to be wrongly posting the draft.
Are the transactions there also randomly verifie?
After the Merge, Beacon nodes known also as consensus clients are no longer separated from the execution client. See: https://ethereum.org/en/developers/docs/nodes-and-clients/
Also, regarding how transactions/blocks get proposed, see: https://ethereum.org/en/developers/docs/consensus-mechanisms/pos/faqs/#how-are-validators-selected.