Topic: Everything has changed (Read 1103 times)

It is true that alot has changed not only in your observations but everyone  knows about it far as one is alive everyday things must change wether for good or bad things must change so everyone must learn to take it as their fate in any situation they find themselves

Even the bible advised that hard times shall come times for trials shall come so the only solution for this changes is for you to position yourself in a way that it will suit you. It is not wise for anyone to wait for better days to come go for your better days work for it because better days are never coming to approach anyone just position yourself to live for your own comfort.

Look earlier people used to have a lot of conversation among themselves everyone played sports in the field inquired about each other everyone went somewhere together neighbors visited each others houses and talked but now these things have disappeared. Today's children also play sports but they don't go to the field anymore. Now everyone talks on various social media and doesn't go home and inquire. Everyone is now addicted to a mobile or social media the familiar scenario is no longer seen. Earlier village mothers used to pick up their boys from the field and come home but now mothers drag the boys out of the house so that they can play a little with the natural environment.

All the people in this bitcoin forum are experienced, so you can get any kind of help from here. The only change everyone can make is through their workplace, do yourself a favor and you can definitely improve from there. So especially we have to aim, so life change is easy.

The world we're living in now is good for us to be very be careful with the type of friendship we make out side, or even closer to home because the way things are going currently everything are changing back to back some people's one stay with you just just to spend whatever you you have at that right time.

But they see that what you have as gone they will definitely run away from you, and that's why if we observe some rich men's they don't want to be given most of the poorly people's face, because once they help them by the time they want a fevor after they succeed they will be find a way to betray you back which is why some of the rich men's don't give the poorly people's face; that's all about changes is something that we cannot see is a invisible.

Change is constant and it is always going to be constant. We shouldn't be complaining of how things are changing but we should change in direction of the ways things are changing and we won't feel the change.

Jobs are becoming difficult to get because we're still thinking of looking for jobs in the old ways of going foirm one office to another to submit our job CV. We can look for job online and it will give us many rooms to look for different types of job and still have time to do other things. Life will always change and things will get more harder.
If we keep waiting for things to get better we'll be left behind and before it occurs to you, you can't catch up with life anymore since you have being left behind by those you were starting life with. Life is a struggle and we have to be prepared for anything that is going to happen along the way.

 New bee here 😅 In summary, your feelings are valid and shared by many. Reflecting on these thoughts is an important part of personal growth and understanding the world around us. It might help to discuss these feelings with trusted friends or a professional to gain more perspective.

Yep, this is true

There are many ways for people to change in society, if you notice it is possible to change life only through hard work and business. A lot of politicians are changing their lives with lies, those lives must be gone in a few days.

You're right mate, Change is constant and inasmuch as life exists, things will continue to change from time to time. Yes in the past people lived happily both the rich and the poor because everybody can afford things to their standards but now the formation is that as you earn more you tend to also spend more due to inflation of the world economy. There is no way people can be always happy when things are becoming hard and difficult day after day even those that has acquired so much wealth but yet they are still looking for more because it looks like they ain't making enough money due to their expenditures. People are literally spending more than they earn and the debt rate of some countries is extremely high and economy of the world is going down and people are lamenting even while fighting for survival. We are certainly in a time a tag "survival of the fittest" because everyone is literally struggling for survival both the poor and the rich. However, Change is meant to happen, be it a positive change or a negative change.

I'm having the same feeling too bro, those days people use to be happy without having money or achieve what they want from the community because they where moving well in the community, and there was a peace of mind among people in the community, But these days, things has changed, rich people want to continue to be rich without having the mind of the poor people in their heart, and if they are living their political positions, they will like to put their children to continue leading the poor children which was not like that in our forefathers, but many things has changed now.

Socialedia has caused a lot of this kind of harm to people and it's possible that you're isolated from people and don't have people am that genuinely want to stay close to you. You know that part of the issue with the economic problem we're facing globally is that everyone is looking for anything that they can do as a source of living and no one really want to be concerned about reaching out to the next person to know what's going on with them.

Can't remember the last time I've seen my siblings or even had a warm talk with them. Most of them are trying to fix their lives financially and sometimes in the pursuite of this, we tend to overdo it and build only financial block around us without having real people to talk to when we're down. This is the main cause of depression we're seeing with some people who appear wealthy from mere looking at them with there cars and expensive materials but that don't really have comfort and peace of mind when they gets home.

I have a personal theory those feelings on change and the sensation things used to be better in the past could be fed by the unstoppable stream of news we get nowadays, being most of them negative and relating to inflation and the state of geopolitics, how nations are turning against others in a very slow but non-stopping pace.
We could even argue that news organizations have figure out that negative, explosive and sensational news are more likely to be paid attention to than positive news.
It could be that, or we associate the past with our own childhood, times when we did not have so much responsibility and we could enjoy more of our time, we did not have to worry about so many things we are now on our head. It could be a mix of those two things.

I still try to hold onto some hope and not immediately assume world is getting worse with each day that passes by.

With the passage of time, changes are seen at every level of every society and country which has happened in the past and will happen in the future. I can say from my experience that the spontaneous joy that I saw among the people of the country even 5 years ago is gradually diminishing. But now people have relatively more money compared to that time yet they are not happy because of environmental pressure inflation global impact etc. Change will continue to happen which is inevitable.

Everything is changing in society the best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others thousands of people involved in volunteering work day after day for nothing just to put a smile on other people's faces for their own pure satisfaction and happiness. There is a sense of satisfaction and self-satisfaction in volunteering that can only be felt by the people involved in the work. In real life people should have the vision to know them, if they are changing everything then how can they get everything.

See, this tendency of society to outgrow each other which I call competition did not happen overnight. Look at our own education system where human development or knowledge is not prioritized over who can be better than who. So if they can't change their mindset educationally or go through such a competitive education system then I don't think it will be any exception in real life. Another thing that catches my eye the most in society is that everyone wants to make themselves happy and to see themselves happy which is one of the main reasons for our unhappiness. If we sometimes devote ourselves to the dangers of others or engage ourselves in humanitarian work and social work, then it will be seen that peace of mind is available.

What you are feeling is the fact that fait doesn't mean shit anymore and is constantly losing value and companies don't care, government dont care, banks just keep lending money to peopel and they keep printing new money, and no one has talked about equating our working hours to the deprecation of fait, or try to increase our salary or makes things equal again, but rather our work value keeps getting high and the pay doesn't worth as much, your losing and your inner man knows, so what is they to he happy about .

Well said my dear friend, we are really going through a lot just to be happy and have peace. people see peace of mind as having enough money and that is why the society has seriously changed, let's look at our young boys now in the society no one wants to struggle everyone wants to be a yahoo boy just to have money and also peace of mind, but yet they are going extra miles to make the money with so many rituals associated with their circumstances. money is not peace of mind, but we don't also have another options because we are suffering, and we need money for our daily lives. The society is no longer sweet like before where the rich have compassion for the poor and the poor will also reciprocate positively but now everyone is arrogant and trying every possible means to be better than each other. sincerely the society has changed alot. even the small ones don't have regards for the senior ones because everyone is suffering.

Bro your quite right, money has lost its value so much that you need to work harder to be able to live a good life, our farmlands has been taken from us and they have given us processed food, back in the days eating was never a problem, even a very poor amily cab solve that problem so easily cause if farm but now everything has changed if you got no cash you are going to suffer and that is fact, the ugly side of civilisation and development.

As the days are moving forward, it is becoming unknown the people attitude. At present if you open a newspaper you can see that the embezzlement of money, killings harassments are increasing day by day. Everything seems to do with ones power and build a mountain of wealth. Most of the people who are in power these days are involved in all these wrongdoings and they do not hesitate to take away all the rights of the common man. I think all of these wrongdoing anarchist minds generate from the lies that fully support your views.

Having inner joy or enjoyment even when you have nothing really depends on us, our contentment, fun, enjoyment depends on how we would react on every situation.
It is true that there are so many fake friends or people who would act friendly cause they know they could use you and ignore you when they see that you are useless to them, but as I've said it all depends on how we would react.
You could enjoy have fun as long as you are with someone you love, it doesn't matter how many friends would betray or ignore you, you just need to be contented with what you have.

Nowadays people are able to do such things by resorting to the worst and lies. People kill people for a little money, and hurt each other for a little quarrel. This effect is most prevalent in today's society, because now people do not trust people and are not able to communicate with each other. Because they are the most people in the world who are ready to build mountains of wealth.

Expression is free and you can decide to covered yours it all your choice and i blame anyone that tend to blame you because it all about expression. I can blame but i can agree to disagree because if things doesn't change in your own way, on my own side things has changed a lot, for instance in this era no one is willing to help, rich people see any poor people as begger, back then things wasn't moving like this but we don't have any thing to rather we stand up for ourselves.

Mate I'm feeling the same. It could be a effect of age specially a 20-30 years old man who has a lots of responsibility to fulfill. That's why as you told, he may has some money but duities & responsibilities makes him tired. But Technology could be also a reason. cause nowadays people are busy with social medias and they don't have time to talk face to face. Even in ny country, corruption already increased a lot but things become expensive and people are getting unemployed. There are many possible reason what can't let people be happy like before

yes @op this is actually a reality, so many things have changed, and the society has changed drastically, trust has gone into extinction, fear has become a dominant trait. Even in most families the head of the family cannot trust his children and vice versa unlike before where people believed on each other and trust themselves that is to say that the society is sincerely changing with time.

There was a time in the society where the rich respect the poor irrespective of their class and see them like their brothers, but now the society has changed the rich see the poor as trash and maltreats them like they are human being, thy see poor as slaves, they see them as laborers, things have really changed .there is virtually no joy in the society, everyone is suffering and facing the societal challenges of hardship. people are actually changing with time as the world are evolving

I think it could be due to a sense of responsibility. When we were not working or under the care of our family, even if we did not have a lot of money we did not feel sad when we chatted with friends. But when the responsibilities of the family fell on me, that happiness was no longer available due to taking care of my subordinates or those under my supervision. Now I remember earlier when any religious event would come, I used to count the days until that desired time or event would come. And now that time has come, that inner satisfaction is no longer available. But we have to find joy in it.

I think you should stop thinking over everything because that may even affect your health. However, we don't have to expect everything should be the same, the more we grow, the more everything around us continues to change, nothing seems to be the same because we think life is simple at a young age. Let me ask you a question, are you still chasing the dream of childhood? No, because we don't know that this life is this hard. We aren't following the same steps as our parents because a lot of things have changed, we are in the modern world, and we will continue to live as we understand it.

Furthermore, talking about age and responsibility. That makes a man weak, if you take too much responsibility for your family and do not earn enough money to handle it, you may find yourself in a situation you do not understand, and you are stressed. But you said there's no inner joy even though the person has money to be happy, for real? I'm not sure if something is bothering you. Op I wouldn't be sad if I had money, or is it because a lot of people will become your enemy after making money? When you make money, some of your friends will leave, others will turn against you, and some will come because your condition has changed.

If you have money, I suggest that you try to make yourself happy. You can do this by taking some time out of your day, eating some delicious meal outside, and going shopping. If you have enough money to go to a club and party, you should. We don't have to be sad all the time, so cheer up.

I want to say that change is a natural process. The world is changing, we are changing and that's normal. It would be strange if over time everything remained the same, because we gain experience, learn a lot of new things, and improve all processes in life. In childhood, it seems that there are no problems, but this is because your parents solve them and take on the care and difficulties of raising them. We begin to live independently and learn that food is bought with money that can only be earned. We learn that all people are different and not all of them are kind and want the best for us. What can I say! We finally get to know our own parents, we understand them. It’s hard for a person if his parents took care of him for a long time and protected him from the outside world.

Yes that is reality there is one popular saying that the only thing constant is change , as long will are human change occurs day in day out it's not a new and not even a matter of age one can only count on age as the experience differs  but one thing is sure that changes is inevitable.

Today robot is coming in which was not technically and otherwise many things are changing even in cultural diversity many culture has be abolished by adoption of others people culture and so on and this are changes many life today is as result of copied culture and more of changing is different dimensions will still take place the age difference is what you able to witness within your time as others may witness another dimension of changes which may differ from what you have seen by way of modification.

When most of the people run after earning money then the happiness is lost from their life.  because when people depend everything on money then personal life social life everything depends on money and they think that. everything can be done with money. Ordinary pleasures are lost. I think money can agange  celibreation but money cannot buy happiness.

That is life for you, things either get worst or better every day, you actually expect things to be exactly the way it has always been, even as of old when things are not actually hard like this, there are still some people who suffer then and people were still not having enough, and some were also living fake life and betrayal were still existing then, so everything is just the same and nothing was so easy, just that it was increase and advanced unlike before.

Nothing changed, this is how life was even before but it has not gotten worse like this before, the world is changing every day and you can see that not what you are hearing today you will hear tomorrow, the price of things, not what they sell yesterday they sell today, that’s what exactly how the world has changed to, and the best thing you can do in this life to be happy and even your friends to be happy is to hustle hard and make money, money is life this day, although I know money can’t buy life but what money has caused is not a small thing.

As you said that the rich, poor and also the middle class are happy, I don’t think the poor are happy even the middle class is not happy, no one prays to be poor because property is a disease that if you have it, no one will ever come close to you, and also about the way you feel, I don’t know what happened to you but I believe if you have money and enjoy yourself you will not feel somehow bad or boring because money is good.

Every thing has changed!!!!!!


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We should always expect a change more often and often, we cannot be too used to doing the same thing over a long period of time and see nothing changed about it, we are to be always on the go for the current trends of the happenings in the society and economy at large, this will help us to use and maximize every opportunity very well for our own benefits, and for us as well to see the change we may so wishes in any area of our life.

When you have money and you don’t have inner joy, it could be because you don’t have your family to enjoy the riches with you. Or maybe lack of contentment for what you have. Sometimes it’s the little things like contentment, gratitude, self-awareness that make you feel joy and happiness. Money can’t do everything, this should be well known by now. Even the richest man on earth can be drowned by sadness and depression.

Change will always be a constant thing to experience in life, if we are to go back in those days, you will discover how the people also suffers and complained that things are very bad for them, as long as you have a crowd to deal with, you cant expect them all to have the same mentality of needs, everything about them have to varies. 


You cant vouch on the source of everyone having money, some steal it, some borrow it, some kill to acquire it and many other illegitimate means of getting money, when they now have the money, they cant have the peace of mind in spending it.

If you can flash back the kind life our forefathers experience in the past, I guess is different from the life we are experiencing now in our various countries because things has changed negatively in the mind of rich people and poor people because, those days you can move with money from one place to another without escorts to the bank and you will carry out your transaction successful without any attack on the road.

But these days you will have money but you will be afraid to move freely in your environment because, the environment is not safe for those that have money and, those that don't have the money are angry with those that have the money, what a negative change in our world these days.

You've struck on an essential aspect in this instance: the way in which individuals feel and communicate with one another is clearly changing. It's not simply the way you think; there are reasons why this may be occuring. One possibility proposes that our online connections are more important than our offline relationships. We may have thousands of friends, but it is not comparable to getting a few particular ones with whom we can communicate in person. Another is that the internet can make us feel insecure and unhappy because we frequently compare ourselves to others. So, rather of being influenced by electronics or the internet, we should strive to be totally fully present to every moment.

Yea village competition with the city is not only been course by inflation but allot is associated to it mostly the area of insecurities, precisely unlike my place where villagers don't access their farm and remember village is the back bone of city in the area of food where the city that depends on village to produce is now being dependent by the village even when they are not producing due to insecurities can leads to high level of inflation, but be it as it may village still have some things that make it hub for easy life where common man can survive easily because allot of green pastures one can access without spending compare to people in the city because , for city everything is money.

The truth is certain, in as much human being is concerned change can't be avoided I see it as inevitable, just you have said it one really need position it's self as the wave is moving not to be left behind.

Betrayal has been their from the onset, it normal to face betrayal unless we are not humans, in terms of technology and science a lot has changed but when you talk about betrayal is not a new thing to me unless you are just experiencing it now, human will never change that's their nature, don't expect more from humans because the more you expect from them, the more you will get disappointed that's human for you.
The people around you will have to betray you for you to to separate from them but I don't know exactly how you understand this betrayal of a thing, you mentioned age responsibilities, we can never tell it is also a pressing factor.

The year is moving like a lightening speed and I was still asking questions how 2023 ended so quickly before I know January is almost ending. This is one of the questions I keep asking myself. The world is revolving so fast and we don't even know why the world is moving in a fast speed like this. Sometime we plan to achieve some certain things in a year but before we know, the year has ended.
I think we are in the last days just like the Bible has stated it.

This is natural and it is happening in every part of the world. In the past, maybe most people are not do focused on materialistic things and are contended with the little they have. But today, even the poor and the rich are looking for a means to add to what they’re earning. The rich does not want to support the poor and the poor is not contended with what they have. This disparity amongst them makes the search for wealth more vigorous and in turn everything is now expensive to achieve. Don’t trust nobody, everyone is after what they can achieve in this world and not minding the consequences or sacrifices that needs to be made. Yes, the world is evolving and so will the people living in it will evolve to suit the new standard the world has created for them.

Of course as life passing the days everything is changing and its speed is so fast that it is not difficult for anyone to predict. Life can no longer be called life, it can be called struggle. Excessive greed of people, devaluation of money and change in morals of people is now visible. But it is never possible to reverse this sick trend, but if you want to survive, it is better to accept all these changes and adopt with the environment. Never get discouraged move forward at the speed of the court. Spend time in work and you will see that this kind of decay will not exist.

We used to have a happy life then, but things are completely different now. I don't know how things are in other nations, but in my country, things are becoming more and more terrible every day. Sometimes i used to pray that God would take me back to the way we lived back then,
because then our love for one another was genuine, you could move around freely and didn't have to worry about anything bad happening to you, but now you can't even sleep soundly in your own room because of fear to your fellow human.
you will witness two brothers who were raised by the same mother now, and they will hate each other without cause. This is the reason why sometimes I used to fear dying because of the people you will leave your children behind for and the lack of genuine love they will show your children.
Back then the rich and the poor worked together as a team, it was difficult to tell who was rich and who was poor, but some rich people now no longer treat the poor with respect. I always wish that this world could be changed back to how it was before.

The world is changing.  People are changing.  People are becoming mechanized day by day because of this the love of people towards people is decreasing.  Nowadays people have become very selfish.  They do not understand anything except money. However, the demand for money was there from the beginning of the age, but now it is more observed. Earlier, people were satisfied with little, but now people cannot be happy with little.  So they always run after money, due to which they forget to give time to their family.

Change is constant and we should expect this from time to time, we cannot keep up with having one thing and same style all over and again, things have to change, even people also changes and we cannot expect every situation for being the same way it has always been, what we should also expect is in seing ourselves changing for good and not worse, we need to take time in having a check on the way we live out lives, not always complaining about other's.

Hence money and other materials things don't give you inner joy, then you need to check yourself, is either psychologically you are going through some stress or your over thinking about a situation your either experiencing. Things are not the same as they used to be that is normal for human race, it is often said that change is a constant thing for the human nature.  the psychology of the huma nature is so that it helps us to adapt to change no matter how extreme the situation will be, so getting yourself together and understand that, this is the new reality will help you. Talking about people that are around you that are not real, according to you, you called them fake, however you need to change your circle of friends or better still stick with your family and your close relatives, because those people can hardly be fake.

Things are really changing so fast just like you have rightly said. Not just in human characters or behaviors. There are many things I use to see while growing up today you can't find them. People use to care for each other and share whatever they had in the past but today you can't find such. I think the climate change is not only affecting the environment but also affecting humans in a way we don't still realize. In the past people usually sleep without closing their house doors without being scared of being attacked but today even with our high wall fence we are still afraid of been attacked or being kidnapped.

That's the real world. You may feel different from other people at times, or you may feel the same as them at other times. Since nothing in this life can be guaranteed, we must occasionally exercise patience and kindness toward one another. Nothing endures indefinitely. That is advantageous for wealthy individuals who have already succeeded in life and can afford to overlook the impoverished, but they only spend their money on their families. They are unaware that the person they take for granted now might one day require their assistance. Because of this, we must be humble no matter what we have or who we are, and we shouldn't treat people in any situation we find them.

 The way the country is now moving, I don't understand, like say we don't have senators, people are complaining every day about the cost of products and they didn't take any action about how the poor want taky survive as the cause of living want to kill the living.

Just as the saying goes " the only thing constant in life is change" just like what dey said that "gun don't kill people, people kill people" implies that economic inflation doest not kill anyone but people use the influence of economic inflation and do silly things which is not good. If the society can maintain themselves, they would leave a free and cheap life. But rather they take advantage of the hardship by increasing price of goods and making the inflation a hyperinflation. Where as they could have just maintain the normal standard.

Before, village was a place of cheap life but now village is competeting with the city in price hyke. In the past, one can easily feed well in the rural areas but now it is nearly impossible to feed. So the economy I'd dipping down and the currency value is dropping that is why your money can't give you what you expect. Emagin spending $100 on food yet it looks like you didn't even spend any. So inflation is the reason behind it.

As civilization advances in this habitable world of ours, people are changing.If we think about the people from two to 100 years ago, we can see a lot of difference between their lifestyle and our present day lifestyle.

People are now more educated and earning much more than before, for which people's lives are changing and even people are constantly changing, which will continue to happen in the future.

From the time of creation we've always had the good the bad and the evil, so the only things that changes is civilization, in this age communication is easier because of advanced technology, but the human attributes mentioned are still there. So I guess the OP has been in the company of the good all along and is probably testing the category of the bad and evil in recent times, it can be a very painful experience. I sure hope that he now understands that as there are angels that there are also demons, so it is with humans, there have always been the good and kind hearted, also there has always been the wicked and evil minded, it didn't start today. Let him get used to it and try as much to avoid evil and toxic minded people, let him be strong and move on or talk about it with trusted family and friends.

I also seems like this and I also feel that the people who are are very far away from each other and the main reason for this is the money and time,
It means that they have become so engaged and busy in earning money that why they do not see the people around them, they are only engaged in a mission of their own.a person want to earn money, the only purpose of earning a money is to have nice car nice House. People's desires have increased a lot

Things are really changing and we have no options that to adapt to it. The rich are more beneficial in this aspect why the poor would have to keep hustling to make sure that they get food on there table. It is very easy for us to do things but it is not easy for us to get to the level we want. Things are becoming expensive everytime and there is nothing we could do about if the government do not look for ways to make sure that things get better. We just need to keep struggling to make sure we get to the level we intend to be.

Its a mutual felling cozd by getting aged, having more responsabilities, Passes Experiences that change ur view to the world.
Not forgeting the evolving nature, it always worked like that to keep the existence.

You are right, most of us feel this way for sure. Even I sometimes experience this kind of pressure when you see someone you know has already achieved it, it's not really a rush but it's also inevitable that you feel that way. Technology and social media have really changed the world so much that it is becoming more modern. But you should still remember that everything has a time, you can get it too, persevere and don't give up. You don't need to hurry because it can't be rushed.

I agree about Technology and Social Media, its also consumerism and accessibility to
global markets. Life is very complicated and people generally feel like they have to own
the latest, newest version of what they have already when in fact it doesnt make people
feel happy in the long term.

But to quote the thread title "Everything has changed" of course it has, and it is ever changing,
thats why we no longer live in caves and scavenge for food, its why we have Bitcoin! and in
25 years from now things will be different also.

We can say the majority of bad people now in this world is higher than the good ones. In life one must be careful on how they interact and the kind of relationship they build with people around them, some may play cool at the very beginning not knowing they are wolf in sheep's clothing.

It is advisable to keep most things anonymous to friends and some family relatives, not everything should be discussed with them. The more you keep telling them stuffs about you they understand your weak point and can easily back stab.

Life is just revolving, in my opinion; it has been the same ever since, but the changes we see are a result of the greed in humans that leads to this feeling. People just care about themselves now; back in the primitive society, life was just easy peasy; everybody cared about everybody, but now nobody gives a fuck about you. It was just heartbreaking. I understand your feelings, bro.
 
Social media and other things have changed people's behavior, putting pressure on them to achieve what others have achieved, forgetting that everyone has their own race to run. Anyway, just take life easy and enjoy the little things, because you might turn around and find out that the little things are actually the big things.

Things totally change nowadays. I could remember when I use to be a student, life was very easy and fordable then but now, things is different and one would have to be doing different shifts of work to be able to put food on the table for our family. It is not easy at all and we don't have to give up. We need to keep striving so that we can get to where we plan to reach. Living and working with a small salary does not make sense at all but there is nothing we can do since we all looking for a better job.

I think that this is a very privileged viewpoint from a person who has probably never been living on the edge, in a poor country with a government that does not take care of its people. Money is extremely necessary for survival. Especially when it comes to things like health care. And if you live in such a place and have no money, you will notice how bad things can really become. And at that point, your happiness is going to go down, drastically.

But in European/western countries, I agree. But only because the government takes care of the poor. They get to have food, medicine and a roof over their head. And they do not have to fear for their lives and what tomorrow may bring.

Life itself is only a survival of the fittest, we must strive for excellence in whatever thing we are doing, we have to remain committed to doing good, pursuing after the best of our own interest because no one would live you than you first doe for yourself, even the time past, people have always been complaining of living affordability and keep complaining about how things have not been easy for them to achieve, yet during those times, some never know lack till now, it's all about mindset and mentality.

The differences that we experience which feel heavier and more difficult could be because they are related to our burdens and responsibilities which are indeed greater. As time goes by, a person's burdens and responsibilities will increase from various angles. And someone who can manage and bring himself through this condition must of course have sufficient provisions to strengthen and make it happen. Well here, we ourselves are the ones who underlie what we feel and go through. The harder we feel, the harder it will actually be.

Just like in the world of crypto space, we might feel that during the bullish era a few seasons ago it was easier to get through, we in the world of crypto can really make a lot of money quite easily and many people become quite rich. However, lately we feel that what we hope for feels very difficult to do because after all we are faced with various problems and also different conditions in each cycle.

Change is a constant factor  since the exitance of life, Which could either be positive or negative considering our positions, actions and reaction.

Change is a natural process It cannot be controlled but we can control the process of how we adapt to change. We can also take a stand against change the world is constantly changing. If we don't keep up with that change we will fall behind. If possible cut off contact with the betrayer altogether. And if that is not possible then keep distance from him. If he is a member of your family show your behavior that you are not interested in him. All people are not the same you just need to have the vision to recognize people.

The world is not changing, the shape and needs of people are changing. Everything depends on the needs of people, there are good people, there are bad people. So good and bad people are living in this world due to which one causes harm to one another and they can cheat. In every country such sentiments are expressed as in our country, but due to changing needs of the people, such a situation is faced.

I don't think anything has changed, this is how the world goes. As you grow up
the responsibilities you have in life are increasing. Yes, there are changes such as the modernity of the world today, but the cycle of human life is still the same, maybe it's just a new experience for you, that's why you can say it's changing when you go through it, you'll realize it.

Just to offer a counterpoint, Americans have done all of those things for as long as I can remember. We've had way higher inflation in the past, and people chasing a buck is nothing new. I personally don't remember a time when "someone could live a contented life with minimal money in their account". For that matter, with so much free entertainment being available on the Internet and so many cheap things available, I think you can live a bare subsistence better than any other time in our nation's history. It's not glamorous to shop at Walmart for everything, but if you don't want anything fancy you can certainly live "okay".

I agree about people being under pressure and I think that's the heart of the problem, as I eluded to above in my post: people are unhappy for non-material reasons. From the standpoint of keeping yourself fed and sheltered and clothed and cheaply entertained, this is probably the best time ever to be an American.

Everything had changed. Things are not the same as they were years ago. Fifteen years ago downwards. Then someone could live a contented life with minimal money in their account, as goods and services were reasonably priced, labor was done with dignity, brothers looked out for one another, and there was no rivalry between individuals to outshine one another. However, things have changed drastically in the modern day. Hard work is not done with dignity. People are finding ways to make quick and fast money. Things are not affordable because of inflation, and no one wants to help others. Individuals are under pressure to live beyond their means to livelihood to feel classic to people around them. Furthermore, people see money to be the only thing that makes one stay relevant in the society they live in. Without money, someone won't be respected or regarded by their so-called friends or siblings 

Change is constant and many things and events can also cause change. Even sickness can change many things in one life. And upon all these things that are happening in the world, USA causes 99% of the changes. One of the major thing that cause change is the inflation. Because the more dollar increase it affects other countries currencies and it also affects the import and those who sell foreign things increase their prices and most of the clothes we wear in Africa are imported. So that now affects all the classes in the society.

And US also pressure some countries to devalue their currencies 💵 and promise them with juicy projects and at the end nothing was done and the people continue to suffer. The natural change never come to suffer man but to bless man but the change that cause by the leaders is the one we're all suffering in. Things are over cause in the global arena.

This is what I think too, this is the time one is pressed with so much responsibility,  working day and night to raise money for family that you can't enjoy. This is is the most terrible stage in man's life and if one is not aware that their is a time like this and know how to fight it. It can really leads man to serious breakdown. When we were young still under our parents life was sweet and easy because no challenge and responsibility that was giving difficult time.

I am feeling the same thing, and have the same question you have: is it just me?

But I do think there's real evidence of what you are seeing here, which is US politics: one half of our political system seems to be driven by non-tangible, non-economic factors. In other words, the "culture war". This is very different than the old days when the discussion between two parties was "more benefits versus lower taxes", wherein there were tangible benefits to factions on either side of that question. Now one side doesn't seem to care much about either of those things, and generally don't differentiate themselves from the other side (e.g. Trump doesn't talk much about tax cuts, or cuts to welfare, or really any economic issues at all [and for that matter, the GOP didn't even have a written platform in 2020]).

What this tells me is that there's a huge contingent of Americans who, even though their economic life is perfectly fine, they are profoundly unhappy and want drastic changes to the country. They don't want specific proposals or policies, they just want things to be "different" in the way that a different sports team is different. This isn't the way it used to be, and I think this is a really, really big change in our society.

This happens when you step into your 30s or mid 30s as everything gets replaced by responsibilities and you do have money but you don't have time to have peace of mind or even to spend that money on yourself. Every man goes through this unless they are born with silver spoon.I do feel this everyday and it has brough me to a point that I have become like a pre coded machine with the regular routine.

Just to get out of this uneasy zone and not to get into depression usually plan for a trip with friends atleast twice a year and trust mein even my friends are on same boat. This is life we have to take some time out of our busy schedule for our own wellbeing.

Sounds more like personal growth issue. As all the things you describe are subjective feelings and there's no actual data to measure. You even describe it as a feeling.

When you grow up, you get more responsibilities, and even if it comes with freedom, all the work, pressure and responsibilities can be difficult and little overwhelming.

At certain point during your growing up, everyone seems fake, because in a way everyone is faking everything. You just start noticing that more. They can avoid talking about their real feelings because they don't want to seem weak. This changes when you know people deeply enough and they open up. Also, you don't need to be part of it. You might act like it for your workplace or something, but even that is not neccessary. You can just be yourself, and avoid people you want to keep up appearances, competition and faking. Those people aren't good for you. You want real friends which you can be real you with. You just have to accept them as themselves as well. It goes both ways.

People have become discontented these days because of their love for money. It's like money becomes the most essential thing on earth, and without money survival and life's satisfaction will be very hard toa achieved. Even the rich people who have a lot of stack of money already still want to become richer and will do everything to in increase their wealth. And also the poor ones, their everyday struggles is all about money, and even if they can have that, living life seems lacking and meaningless at all.

The world is heading for a big change, and so are the people are. But at the end of the day, it's the people will decide as to what path they will chose to take, so they will find the joy and meaning of their life.

That is the honest truth about our generation now: due to the pressure within and outside, bills are increasing daily, and political policies are not friendly with faithful businessmen and entrepreneurs. Like you said, gone are those days when you could be happy even if you didn't have much due to a smiling environment, but now everybody is just pretending to smile at others to get from others. It is rare to have a faithful partner now in business or other aspects of life because of the pressure to meet bills.

But the secret to happiness is to be open-minded and faithful in all your dealings, because even a thief is looking for someone to trust.

Everything will change in time, but now change feels too fast, too instant, so for the baby boomer generation and generation x it is sometimes difficult to keep up with the very fast flow of change. Maybe the Millennial and Z generations can still follow changes this fast, but that's it, like it or not, whether we like it or not, we have to follow it. especially business and financial models, change really quickly. that's it.

Before now,  everyone whether rich or poor enjoyed pure happiness and were contented with what they had. But today, we get carried away with other people's lifestyle, the social media isn't helping matters either. Someone you knew way back can come on social media and display a luxurious lifestyle you'll wish you had an opportunity to enjoy, making you feel like you are not making progress with your life. Most times, these things they show you on the media are fake and just for contents.

We do not get this self satisfaction because we create unnecessary competitions for ourselves. We want to acquire new gadgets,  we want to join the new trends, we want this, we want that and when this things ain't forth coming,  we get disappointed. As technology is advancing, people just want to follow the trend and in the process of doing that, they lose themselves.

As everything changes like technology, fashion etc humans are not excluded as the idea of what is right and what is wrong has evolved. As the economy toughens and social media fake life adds more pressure, evil is flourishing. If you are kind and doing very okay for yourself, you have to be careful of the people around you because you will be shown a fake character and love because of the benefit you bring. Know that the hardship has made more people desperate and willing to do anything just to make money.

As the world is changing, our individual self is changing too so the best thin omehas to do is try as much as possible to hustle and get something doing that would take our time and would not allow is to be thinking unnecessary about what is going wrong in the world. If we keep thinking why things are changing, then we can be surprised that we might not even be able to live a better life and get to achieve something in life. We are all humans and we tend to become the opposite of what we claim so seat down and get yourself some coffee and keep riding and grinding.

I might not understand your comments that people don't have money but are still happy. Maybe you mean that people don't have much but are happy because I know that a hungry man will not be happy. The reason why many people are not happy even when they can afford basic needs is because of greed and materialism. People always compete and if they don't meet up to the competition they become unhappy. There are still rich and poor people who are happy because they are content with what they have. They are not in competition with anybody and are focused on their happiness.

I have observed that another reason why people are not happy in my area is because of insecurity. People are scared of armed robbers and kidnappers which is popular in my country. So people are just afraid and insecure which has affected their emotions.

Envy and unhealthy competition are the reasons for betrayals and fake love in our society. There are still people you can trust, however, they are few. You don't have to trust people wholeheartedly now because you might be betrayed or disappointed. I don't keep too many friends anymore because the bigger your company the higher the tendency to meet the wrong friends.

as you struggle and hustle to make earns meet, try to also create meaningful bond and relationship with people. The reason most people feel very lonely at the too is due to the fact that they spent their whole life chasing after money at the detriment of every other thing and when money is no longer the issue, they discover it's just the money they have as a trusted companion.

I know people can b selfish sometimes and it might be even difficult to find someone that believes in you at the point of your rising, the truth is that if you're unable to create quality relationship at the point of your rising, when you've risen, it would be very difficult to trust those trying to relate with you because you will always feel they are coming just for the money.

Life is not always easy for the poor especially if he lives in the midst of the rich so strive as much as you can to creating a reasonable wealth while you are still young. You won't have all the strength and energy forever and will definitely work this jars forever so work hard now and retire early so you can enjoy your later life in peace.

Having peace of mind is not a determination of having money or not, what are the comforts we get from the things we do, are we not overworking our mental health, are we not taking height that are too much higher than us, what are the things we do that takes away peace of mind far away from us, we are the ones to be mostly responsible for what happens to us pending on what we do and where we go.

Betrayal has been for long the fact is you've not experience it before, I don't really know what's wrong that's just the nature of humans, I will always say be careful with the kind of friends you keep but let's be sincere with ourself by asking if you're a good friend let's not just start pointing fingers, concerning the money aspect have heard about this word money doesn't buy happiness, I don't really believe if money buys happiness or not but average of people in this world money can solve their problem so all what they need is just money while some has tasted money countless times that's why they'll always say money doesn't buy happiness.
In this situation it depends on your country system and economy status or I  think the problem is coming from your mindset.

The world is not changing because it has it has been like this since then and what you are feeling right now is you can see more clearly because the people around you are showing their true colors. I felt the same when I learned about what the definition of real friends is and the truth really hurts when you realize that you only have almost no one that truly loves you. Some people have only 1 or 2 real friends while others have no one because of how poor he is. I recommend knowing your purpose in this world so that you won't really have any problem with how people treat you and you can be the happiest man in the world even though you are with few real friends or alone.

I think that regardless of whether you judge yourself from the outside or inside, your heart is wrong. Because I know the happiness we seek is not far away, but right at the moment we realize balance, maybe material ambition and fame make people chase after them without being able to satisfy them. In any period, joy always appears, so there is no need to blame the situation. I also see that everywhere there are good/bad people, rich/poor,... but that distinction is clearly determined by ourselves. And you also need to look back at the fact that you are not able to come into contact with many happy people, which does not mean that the current society is not happy. Look at your own mistakes first when talking about external factors that cause problems.

Inflation has become the order of the day and even if you have a lot of money with you, you will still have that fear because as time passes by, you will see that the money is losing value. Nobody knows where the world is heading to, and people are looking for every means to make quick money because of this they do all sort of atrocities. The government is my country is not helping things as the poor are being abandoned and ignored by the government, because the government put some harsh laws that only benefits the rich.

A lot of things are happening now that has made people to feel insecure in their privacy and financial life. Wars are ongoing and there is no hope that it will stop soon.

that’s just not true

do you think it was easy for poor people back then? nothing is easy if you don’t have the money imagine getting sick because you can’t afford a nutritious meal or a set of vitamins and then once you get sick you can’t even go visit the doctor because you can't afford it


nothing is easy in this world but this depends on your perspective if you could be content with what you have then you can say that you’re happy without much money


well like i said it depends on one’s perspective and i would say that the entire world’s perspective changed as technology evolved and capitalism has captured the world

The whole Covid thing has messed with a lot of people. Many businesses were destroyed that had been in families for generations. A lot of people lost their jobs. Many were forced to take injections or have their way of life destroyed. Children were forced to school from home and are still behind where they should be. I think a lot of people are still trying to come to terms with what happened.

The people of the world are becoming modern, people are changing as they become modern, needs, housing, environment are all changing like a struggle. Today life system is more beautiful and organized than the past life system as you can see hospitals and roads. All these things are evolving and people's tastes are changing. As everything changes, so do commodity prices and fiat money, and it all seems like a struggle to change rapidly. People are changeable and all their behavior will improve in the future. So the world cannot change, people, people's preferences and needs change.

The world is ever changing and the rate is faster than ever. It's a struggle to keep up with the pace. Comparatively life has gotten better. There are overall improvements in transportation, healthcare and social welfare from state.
Money has lost it's value. With rising inflation, people who are ought to earn for the family are spending more time to work than spending time with their family. That might bring the sense of discontended. Comparatively it has been safer to give birth to your child but costlier to raise them.
Social media and peer pressure is what stressing people. The deteriorating mental health is another reason why our society is breaking down.

Fine, I would elaborate, human nature never changed, man being man, woman being woman, animal doing animal thing, it is all functioning just as normal, yup I am talking about right now, EVEN NOW animal still doing what animal is doing, I know you want to talk about new NORMAL, new world order, recession! whatever bs, animal still is the same old animal, they are all animal and doing what you can expect the animal can do, what do you expect animal would do? If you cant get it go and watch the wild life documentary, see clearly how animal live a normal life.

I would advice you to check on those things you are feeling, very closely. It may not be the case, but if what you are feeling persist through time and you feel could be worsening, I am afraid it could be the beginning of a depressive period to you.
It sounds as if you are realizing negative aspects about life which you had not found before and the fact you mention money is not longer an escape to the lack of joy seems to be a pretty good clue of an incoming depressive period of time in your life. Hopefully I am wrong, though.
If you can, you should talk about the things you are feeling with your family or friends whom you have trust in, it may help you to vent and feel a healthy state of mind, if that does not work as you thought it would, then the next step is to find more specialized help.

Take care.

Nothing has changed, thing is just inevitable.

That is because of the influence of technology and social medias. People are flaunting, flexing what they have this time and this gives you the pressure and rush to achieve necessary things because of your insecurity. I'm not saying you actually but it is for those people that have been reliant on the opinion of other people. This is hard to change when they've been too dependent to the opinion of other people.

While these necessary things can be achieved slowly, easy and without having pressure at all, they chose what they think that shall rush them and then later on will complain that they're dealing with hardship through it.

Yup, that is the reality that the people are changing nowadays because of what we're adapting from person to person, and location to location. Thanks to the influence of modern technology that also changes people. Anyway, change is constant. Don't be too affected with what you want to achieve, take it nice and slow and no one's rushing you. Enjoy the ride as they say.

Probably you are going through a midlife crisis or just entered in your mid-20s and trying to figure out your path.

But what you are saying is not new and that's how the world was all the time but now only it came to your realization and talking about people they will be with someone only if they got some benefits or else they will throw you out.

I don't know whether what I'm feeling other people are feeling it or am just having this feeling based on the country where I'm located, or am feeling this way because of age and responsibility. Before now everything was easy for the rich , poor, and middle class, you can even be happy without having any money with you. But this time it seems different,  you can still have money but still their is is no inner joy. Now even the people around are not real and genuine but fake, can even betray for free. Is it that as the world is evolving people are changing too.