so if another comes after this and pays ..what happens?
You'll receive the bitcoin without any problem
how come there is NO electrum help,, and "we" just give out our opinions?
.. lazy think
If you open Electrum application, there's "Help" option on the menu bar. If you click it, you will see "Documentation", which leads to https://electrum.readthedocs.io/
Forcing users to create a "request" that has a description, amount and an "expiry date" seems somewhat convoluted and potentially confusing for something as simple as trying to provide an address to another party... and yes, I realise that you don't actually have to enter any of that information to create the "request"... but if you put all those boxes on the screen it seems to imply that you do.
Unfortunately many open-source project suffer from similar fate due to low contribution from UI/UX expert.