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Topic: Facts not feelings (Read 153 times)

jr. member
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July 15, 2023, 03:34:51 AM
#18
Criticism from others is a common thing in life. You just need to be yourself and be confident. Sometimes criticism from others can make you feel insecure and feel weak. But I think make that criticism a motivation to be more enthusiastic in achieving success. Because in every effort there must be criticism from others. But, could be that when there is criticism it makes you become better than before.
sr. member
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December 17, 2022, 05:31:34 AM
#17
How people feel about you or your opinion on this forum must not get to you in any way, so far you aren't breaking any rules never stop being yourself.

I got criticism too, the last one I remember was when I got married and the hotel was bugged, I dropped that post with my feelings and pure facts warning people about lodging in hotels when traveling but some people still say something else, some said its not real.


Don't let anyone get the best of you with their ideas, thoughts and opinions, never stop being who you are.
hero member
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December 17, 2022, 01:47:24 AM
#16
You have to let go of any negative feelings in this forum, getting criticized is an unavoidable fact when you make a mistake. You have to fight against any negative feelings here that can hinder your development. Forums have given happiness to anyone who runs on the system that has been determined. Don't take criticism as character assassination which causes feelings of sadness, make criticism as encouragement that can make you even better than before.
legendary
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December 16, 2022, 07:03:39 PM
#15
I've spent some good quality time on here in the forum and I've realized it's factor not feelings.
Most of the activities based here are facts not feelings  and there were times I wrote on topics and deep down my heart, I was expecting some real much accolades but ended up with nothing but lots of criticism, at some points I was letting my feelings decide for me but I stopped and started facing reality and then I realized life in general is about facts and not feelings.

And that is the very definition of a community isn't it? I mean everyone should agree to disagree on every topic. Because what is the point of discussion if everyone would simply nod on the topic?

And that is ok to got criticism, it could have been constructive and might help you improved yourself. So don't be dishearten, just face it and then move forward with new enthusiasm in this forum. And for sure you will do good in the future.
hero member
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December 16, 2022, 06:44:08 PM
#14
I've spent some good quality time on here in the forum and I've realized it's factor not feelings.
Most of the activities based here are facts not feelings  and there were times I wrote on topics and deep down my heart, I was expecting some real much accolades but ended up with nothing but lots of criticism, at some points I was letting my feelings decide for me but I stopped and started facing reality and then I realized life in general is about facts and not feelings.

The knowledge in this forum comes in stage by stage. 
When you can here newly, you thought it was about feelings but later on you realized that it is about facts. There is still more to learn and at another stage you will understand that it is neither feelings or facts, it is being your real self.  Whether you are having feelings or you are rendering facts, you do it as your real self without fear. Then you will appreciate the blessings that comes with being able to do anything (possibly right things) without fear of intimidation or what people will say.
hero member
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December 16, 2022, 05:58:24 PM
#13
And every you read from someone, if it's a fact still you have to verify it with the source that you can have like doing a bit of research so that you're sure that it's an actual fact.

Regardless of the information that's been shared to you. Take time to look at it for a minute or two and then search for its validation so that, you can confirm if that's really a fact.

Information is everywhere in the internet and you can do it on your own by just taking a couple of minutes just to validate that fact.
sr. member
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December 16, 2022, 05:34:30 PM
#12
Critism is part of life,especially when we do something that is not good in the eyes of people,if you are not criticize by others you won't learn the fact. You should learn not to allow what people say here affect your emotion because it is a learning place and nobody will pamper or praise you when you are suppose to be corrected. Contributions of people in the forum has helped so many people when they are out in real life. Don't see critism as bad attitude but see it as a stepping stone.
legendary
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December 16, 2022, 05:01:28 PM
#11
I think ultimately, it is more important to take a balanced approach, and try to address the facts while acknowledging and respecting people's feelings. Neither of these things alone is going to be the solution, or even the key factor in avoiding online trolling. But they are certainly a good place to start. Debate is healthy and important in society, but what is more important is providing quality information to people instead of baseless opinions. That said, if you cannot accept people's opinions and beliefs, I do not see how a discussion could ever be worthwhile. But if you can agree to disagree in this way, then the conversation will hopefully be able to move forward. My recommendation is to approach an online discussion with a balanced approach, acknowledge both sides equally and not solely from your PoV.
sr. member
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December 16, 2022, 04:51:30 PM
#10
I've spent some good quality time on here in the forum and I've realized it's factor not feelings.
Most of the activities based here are facts not feelings  and there were times I wrote on topics and deep down my heart, I was expecting some real much accolades but ended up with nothing but lots of criticism, at some points I was letting my feelings decide for me but I stopped and started facing reality and then I realized life in general is about facts and not feelings.
I have felt that way too in the past whenever I get the notification that my posts, reply has been deleted by the moderator or moved to archival. Or rather when I get a very cold comment. But then it is the reality of life. a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor. Getting your facts right is doing your research, studying the post structure of top members. Getting your feelings in check entails developing a thick skin.
hero member
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December 16, 2022, 03:34:45 PM
#9
Well what have you learned from it, and don’t tell me facts and feelings. All this came your way for a reason if you ask me and many of us has experienced it.

But the truth is that many newbies aren’t learning from the replies they get, you shouldn’t keep making repeated low Brain post. There are pinned post that even require you to read them before start posting, you don’t post low logical post and never expect criticism and you shouldn’t cry over it but learn through it.
legendary
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December 16, 2022, 03:30:08 PM
#8
OP remember of this, not everyone here likes or supports you. Some will try to bring you down to make them seem better than what you do. As cruel as this sounds, it is an inescapable fact in these online forum. Be wise about whatever other people say about you, in fact they shouldn't brainwash you and lead to bad opinions, but you can still expect some positive things from them.

You have the right to free speech in this forum, but obey the rules and say what you know. Keep up the interest and mind, you have almost succeeded in climbing more ladders.
hero member
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December 16, 2022, 03:15:03 PM
#7
Mate, you need to know this so that you don't end up hurting yourself because you couldn't get the attention that you are looking for, this is a forum where you meet people with different types of ideas, thinking, understanding, and culture. Be more concerned about your notion of being here, face the fact and let the feelings cause no one will want your feelings unless it has more to offer to the forum which I think it won't unless it is bitcoin related lol.
sr. member
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December 16, 2022, 01:46:41 PM
#6
I've spent some good quality time on here in the forum and I've realized it's factor not feelings.


This is a learning ground so you'll be hit with reality here which are facts. Nobody cares about your feelings here. You'll be criticize when you make a mistakes before been corrected. And when you're impacting the forum positively you'll be appreciated.

Here's a fact for you, this thread doesn't suit the beginners and help sector.

Thanks for the fact but if I may ask, where should I move this to?
The journey over here has been an amazing one with no regrets because I've learnt alot of things from this forum and I'm really learning how to express myself in writing and I'm open to all criticism when the need be and I've always tried my best to learn from my mistakes and that of others as well as taking every positive and necessary corrections given to me by the members over here.
Ideally, constructive criticism is needed but you should stay on the axis of having strong assumptions as long as you really know what you're doing. Motivation is important, besides your journey is still long and don't give up.
Yeah my journey is still indeed very long and if there is one thing I've ever dedicated my time to then it should be the forum ever since I got into it fully.
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement and I'm indeeds very grateful and hope you help hold my hands on this journey.
legendary
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December 16, 2022, 01:43:13 PM
#5
I've spent some good quality time on here in the forum and I've realized it's factor not feelings.
Most of the activities based here are facts not feelings  and there were times I wrote on topics and deep down my heart, I was expecting some real much accolades but ended up with nothing but lots of criticism, at some points I was letting my feelings decide for me but I stopped and started facing reality and then I realized life in general is about facts and not feelings.
Put your feelings aside and take advantage of constructive criticism. You must be strong while trying to grow, your emotions must be kept under control and you must not give up when criticism comes to make you stronger. Ask yourself if that's all you can do? Then put the pedals close to your feet, avoid a lot of hesitation and reach for it.

Ideally, constructive criticism is needed but you should stay on the axis of having strong assumptions as long as you really know what you're doing. Motivation is important, besides your journey is still long and don't give up.
hero member
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December 16, 2022, 10:37:56 AM
#4
Sorry if you feel let down by some comments you thought were criticism, But they aren't that. The way the forum counter articles or post that lack facts have actually been why it's being doing great. If you share a bad info here and because of hurting your feelings it was left uncorrected it will lead many to live into the post as facts, feelings shouldn't be mixed with investment and some people pick points from the forum to excute in real life

The usual corrections by this experience members shouldn't been taken as criticism even if the words used might be harsh.
newbie
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December 16, 2022, 10:28:59 AM
#3
I've spent some good quality time on here in the forum and I've realized it's factor not feelings.
Most of the activities based here are facts not feelings  and there were times I wrote on topics and deep down my heart, I was expecting some real much accolades but ended up with nothing but lots of criticism, at some points I was letting my feelings decide for me but I stopped and started facing reality and then I realized life in general is about facts and not feelings.

Having factual inputs are beautiful but at the same time your feelings should be in consideration too i.m.o. As it's through these personal feelings and opinions is self-reliance.
hero member
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December 16, 2022, 09:48:49 AM
#2
For me it should be both. You should post or comment only base on what post can give you a satisfaction by answering using fact. Use your feelings to choose the right topic to get involved and facts to answer. Remember this is forum and this is the place to socialize with other forum user based on the topic given because you can easily use google to search for an answer if we are only posting a content here with facts alone without human emotion.

Being happy, sad, angry towards some reply here is normal as we are human. Forum is simply our hangout spot for all Bitcoin/shitcoin enthusiasts.
sr. member
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December 16, 2022, 09:43:58 AM
#1
I've spent some good quality time on here in the forum and I've realized it's factor not feelings.
Most of the activities based here are facts not feelings  and there were times I wrote on topics and deep down my heart, I was expecting some real much accolades but ended up with nothing but lots of criticism, at some points I was letting my feelings decide for me but I stopped and started facing reality and then I realized life in general is about facts and not feelings.
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