https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/what-is-a-bitcoin-in-my-computer-an-archive-an-abstract-value-974172
And how the keys work
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZloHVKk7DHk
Basically, you could just argue that a distributed network of people together power Bitcoin.
Or use some facts that may not have been completely confirmed. Only because ASICs can't compare with normal CPU/GPU operations.
http://www.forbes.com/sites/reuvencohen/2013/11/28/global-bitcoin-computing-power-now-256-times-faster-than-top-500-supercomputers-combined/
Also arguing with your wife/significant other never makes sense, because the couch isn't a nice place...
I tried to bring up the distributed network, but she failed to see how not everybody in this network would not try to break it.
thanks for the pointers. My couch is a very nice place though
In my language(Dutch) a couch is called a 'bank'.. maybe I should try to find a way to sit on the blockchain instead
(if it is not the proper topic, you can report it to be moved, but I thought it was a question of security and therefore technical)