Topic: Gambling loss is the only reason (Read 111 times)

Even though you're being given the best advice which could help you out and whereas you didn't take some actions to help yourself out getting out of addiction, the case will still remain the same. However, to help yourself, set rules about how many or number of times you will get to gamble in a day, set aside the amount of money that you would use and don't go above it, finally reduce the amount of time you used to spend gambling.

Let me start with gamble with what you can afford to lose and also to warn you that gambling doesn’t make you rich, you’re closer to been rekt than actually making it with gambling. One of the most common things that causes gambling addiction is the fact that the gambler who later gets addicted is actually obsessed with making quick money and that’s why they are also obsessed with betting and later on get addicted. One of my first advice is spend time more with people that usually advice you on gambling reasonably and avoid the quick get rich quick zone.

Another advice which is the most solid is looking for a work or a passive income because this is will help keep you busy and also give you extra funds to spend rather than depending on gambling funds,

Although OP's behavior seems rational and sober, it is unfortunate that the gambling circle has become his favorite space and the area where he finds his pleasure. This is an indication of an advanced pathological condition in which the person has become in harmony with his illness.

What is strange in OP's case is that he is fully aware and conscious that he is in a state of behavioral addiction to gambling, which is considered the most important stage in recovery. The specialist doctor will devote a large part of his time and efforts to convince any case that he is sick because almost all addicts live in a state of denial of the behavioral defect in their personalities and therefore they are very late to start looking for help. Since OP published his experience for people to benefit from it so that they can avoid falling prey to addiction, he is most likely very close to the stage of recovery and all he lacks is determination. I do really wish him the best of luck to recovery sooner.

Don't gamble if you can't accept defeat, yes, we all must have violated it, because there are times when we are not willing to lose, but the best step is to stop, besides that you don't need to count how much you lose, it makes you enjoy every bet you make, OP should take a break

I agree with you here. The best advice we take hid of is the one we give to ourselves. We can get a lot of advice on how to stop our addiction and several techniques, yet we still find ourselves getting addicted to it more and more. The moment we become interested and motivated to stop the gambling addiction. You will see the effort we will put into it. Even if it takes longer to get out of addiction completely, it will be worth it.

However, one thing I observed is that some life responsibilities can help reduce gambling addiction. I know of a friend who was very addicted to gambling during his single days, immediately after he got married he changed completely. Gradually his gambling addiction begins to die and now he does not gamble irresponsibly when he knows he has to look after his family before anything else. This means responsibility can either help reduce addiction or increase it because some persons will get more addicted to gambling when they have family to take care of with the excuse of wanting to make more money for the family.

Stop playing guys if you don't like the results, I have been deceived a thousand times and still got there to only be deceived even in a worse manner, most casinos I play at have surely changed the RTP, one time I got 0 wins and 10 lost out of 10 consecutive buy bonuses in Pragmatic slot machines, it happened again after some time and this time was 3 consecutive wins and 18 consecutive loses directly after which kills anyone with a sane brain, I was doubting myself but thanks to such bad happenings I am not playing slots anymore, you guys if you don't take the heat don't stay in the kitchen as they say, I have moved out of the kitchen and best decision ever.

Coolcoinz described your post well... and even gave you a nice (free) tip: Spend a little more time on the forum and put more effort into your next comments. Then your posts would make more sense. That's one way to get away from the gambling addiction, focus on other things... the ones that can bring you some money for example.

I understand your pain and your situation, but you brought this on yourself. Pull yourself together and start thinking in a different direction... I don't even want to get into how you gamble, what games you play, or your gambling style in general. There are many fine threads in the gambling section and even more good posts about gambling addiction and how to beat it. Take the time to read that, there's plenty to read elsewhere too.

In my opinion, you need to turn your brain off from gambling. As I wrote before, focus on other things that you like to do, things that can bring you some income... Start doing sports or reading books, there are really many things you can do instead of gambling and losing money.

Good luck!

The gambling addiction had destroyed my own financial situation,I was in many financial struggles due to the parents health problems.So I had tried to get a multiple my holding money for the financial problems.But the unfortunate was tied with my fate,So the gambling made me to loss all the savings for the last one year.So finally the loss of my money in the gambling site was 4k dollars.Incase I had hold without selling,you don’t believe.All my financial problems will be solved with my loss 4k itself,the money loss also made you to show your anger on your family members.Because we can’t able show our anger on the gambling site,first of all it’s just algorithm based gambling site.

I hope you should stop for a while and not touch gambling for some time, use your money to enjoy life starting with simple things, socialize more and socialize physically and do troublesome work so that slowly you will be free from gambling, and that's where you can think clearly what you have wasted all this time on gambling

A word salad is still a word salad!

You're now just looking for excuses for a real shitpost, sorry to say it that blunt but that was a terrible shitpost in which you have mistaken no less than five times loss for lost and losses and used losses when you actually need to use loss.
This forum is not a treatment facility or a support group, you opened a topic in which you didn't bother to reply for 6 pages and then when you were called out you chose to lock it and open one other, why???

And yes, you're making word salad after word salad!

If you search through this board, you will see a whole lot of locked threads and active onces maybe buried under which contains the same advice on how to help someone get away from gambling addiction.
 
One thing I will say is this: anyone who knows that they are addicted to gambling can easily get off it if they want; it's not by what they are told to do, but it's a matter of self-discipline. If you can't control how you gamble, just leave gambling alone entirely and focus on other things because you can't get back all that you have lost to it.

We’d probably need to understand what motivates you to continue losing money gambling to be able to help you. Especially if it is negatively effecting your life. If you’re trying to make money, stacking Bitcoin or buying stocks would have been a far better use for that $4K. If you’re just having fun and you can afford to lose $4K a year, then more power to you.

The best way to get away from gambling addiction is to know that it can destroy your life. No one wants his or life to be destroyed. Also the news we have heard about gambling addicts are not good at all. You will need to avoid gambling permanently for now to avoid yourself to be such a victim. Gambling addiction will make your family not to trust you when it comes to money. You do not need all these but to just quit gambling. I am not implying that you should reduce the money that you are using to gamble but to quit gambling. Think of it very well to know that is the right thing to do.

There are no tricks that can help you to overcome your gambling addiction, what you need is the help of professionals that are used to deal with a case like yours, also you need to understand that even if you were to work hard towards your goal for months and you were able to recover, addiction is a struggle that you will have to go through for the rest of your life, and a single moment of weakness could lead you to it once again and it is the reason why we warn against it so vehemently.

I understand how easily it can be to be misunderstood while in an attempt to express yourself.

If you are gambling just as a way to make money, then you should try switching your aim to another means that could earn you some amount of money because gambling is not a way to make money then also if you are gambling as a way for fun, find another activity to do for fun. There are many things that can take your attention away from gambling and help you with your addiction problem.

I always maintain and advice that for you to totally get away from gambling, you need the help of a professional psychiatrist whose specialty is all about curing and eradicating gambling in the system of the addicted individual.
They are the only ones who can set up a personalized approach on how to cure addiction based on how deep your addiction is.

Sharing up your experience into other people is something a good gesture specially into this forum on which we would really be sharing up ideas or any advises specially into those people who do really have those actual experiences. On your case on which you are wary that you have lost too much in gambling and making out some words that its never been easy to neglect it out on the moment that you would be having that huge loss.
The most common issue for most gamblers is that they do really chase up loses and this what keeps on piling up their loses even more and the worst they will already spending up on the money that they cant afford to lose. In result? You would really be chasing it up and might be able to consider on spending up your life savings or the worst you might be getting up some loan or borrowing money for you to be able to do so.

Gambling addiction is really that very common on gambling field but not all would really be able to become addicted and there are still ones who do able to moderate or control themselves about playing gambling.
It all matters about self control and discipline on which each person would really be having that different level when it comes into this approach. There would really be those individuals who would able to
mind about on the risks involved of gambling and able to avoid those possible addiction on which this is something a must to have on a certain individual on the moment or time that they do deal up with gambling.

The reason behind the same word repeatedly mentioned because it was made with the emotion of loss.I had loss over 4k dollars in a year,I hope you understand the reason for the word repeated which is “ Gambling loss,gambling loss,gambling loss”

The gambler who was in the gambling addiction only understand my pain and the situation which I was in due to the same gambling loss.The recovery of the loss in the gambling site was not easy one,So I made the people to aware of all my loss reason.So it may help some one in the gambling circle to get away from the gambling addiction.

Finally,if you know any way of approach to get away from the gambling addiction,kindly share to me.Because it was not able to recover my gambling addiction,when I get money directly I use for the gambling game.