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Topic: Giving out merit to people you know, acceptable or not? (Read 752 times)

hero member
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Merit: 952
Should be okay as long as it's within limits. 'Meriting friends' system seems to be very famous in some regional sub-sections.
legendary
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Yelp i wanted to prove a point (to myself atleast Grin) that this merit system is full of favouritism and i just did, your other meaningless and senseless post don't mean anything to me Tongue.
Merit given in this forum is not base on anything else but favoritism

Bye Cool

So, if I give you Merits for crying, will you still say that one of my favorites is you? 😂 Silly. Merits are meant to give to posts that has enough quality to be informative and also to some posts that seems to be agreeable to other users. Even if its just a troll it can have exemptions. So stop crying mate, we are working on our asses to award users whose effort is indeed worthy of Merits.
member
Activity: 686
Merit: 35
Am not surprised, anyone who find that post worthy enough to give 13 merit is clearly showing favouritism, no matter how hard anyone try to defend it that post is not worthy of such amount of merit, how can you tell there is no personal sentiment attach it?
Most of the rules in here only applies to some certain class of people while the other class can do as they please Undecided
Well, am not also surprised on someone whose crying 'bout my posts getting Merited. You might cry even harder for I'm a Source now. Tongue

Just to tell you one thing, chewing shits aren't my thing, though I just spit on them and try to cover them with sand and throw them somewhere else. So the other's won't being seeing shits as I did.

And as an additional, FYI, even if you dig a whole lot of evidence, you really can't prove what alts you're saying that I have probably used. By the fact that I also don't know who's that user and getting vanished after a day.

It's been a while since you've posted here pajeet, have you gotten full of trash on your main account?

@CryptopreneurBrainboss Thanks for tagging me here, and for giving such clear detailed info as always. But still I don't think such pajeets will try to understand that. Just hoping that they will 😁


Edit 1: Hey Pajeet, don't waste finding my alts. I will just show it all to you. And the accounts that is somehow connected to me as for it is owned by my relatives.

https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/known-alts-of-any-one-a-user-generated-list-mk-iii-2021-q2-2544574

Just a little Message for you if you're about to see it:
"Read till your eyes bleed"

(Pardon me, @suchmoon for using your phrase)



Yelp i wanted to prove a point (to myself atleast Grin) that this merit system is full of favouritism and i just did, your other meaningless and senseless post don't mean anything to me Tongue.
Merit given in this forum is not base on anything else but favoritism

Bye Cool
legendary
Activity: 1428
Merit: 1166
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Am not surprised, anyone who find that post worthy enough to give 13 merit is clearly showing favouritism, no matter how hard anyone try to defend it that post is not worthy of such amount of merit, how can you tell there is no personal sentiment attach it?
Most of the rules in here only applies to some certain class of people while the other class can do as they please Undecided
Well, am not also surprised on someone whose crying 'bout my posts getting Merited. You might cry even harder for I'm a Source now. Tongue

Just to tell you one thing, chewing shits aren't my thing, though I just spit on them and try to cover them with sand and throw them somewhere else. So the other's won't being seeing shits as I did.

And as an additional, FYI, even if you dig a whole lot of evidence, you really can't prove what alts you're saying that I have probably used. By the fact that I also don't know who's that user and getting vanished after a day.

It's been a while since you've posted here pajeet, have you gotten full of trash on your main account?

@CryptopreneurBrainboss Thanks for tagging me here, and for giving such clear detailed info as always. But still I don't think such pajeets will try to understand that. Just hoping that they will 😁


Edit 1: Hey Pajeet, don't waste finding my alts. I will just show it all to you. And the accounts that is somehow connected to me as for it is owned by my relatives.

https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/known-alts-of-any-one-a-user-generated-list-mk-iii-2021-q2-2544574

Just a little Message for you if you're about to see it:
"Read till your eyes bleed"

(Pardon me, @suchmoon for using your phrase)

legendary
Activity: 2408
Merit: 4282
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Am not surprised, anyone who find that post worthy enough to give 13 merit is clearly showing favouritism,

You should understand, most higher ranked users don't actively participate in the meriting of post but when they do, they might just decide to offload their smerits on any worthy post they see not minding the amount they send. That post was (before it go ruined) a quality post and I'll explain below

This is more likely a discussion with spammers and endless shitposts, and I think it should be moved to altcoin discussion. This is going nowhere, the fact Yobit is not responding to scam accusations and concerns.

The whole yobit discussion wasn't a productive one to the forum as no sign of improvement was observe, it was just giving the signature more publicity instead of actually solving the problem until theymos stepped in and I'm sure most of the merits came before he edited the post.
member
Activity: 686
Merit: 35
Can someone tell me why this meaningless, uneducative shit post could attract so much sMerit than some really good post i have seen in this forum which have only manage to receive not higher than 2 sMerit ?
You may see it as a shit post but those who merited it probably agrees to what the poster is saying (or at least the poster said what they wanted to say).

That "merit worthy" is subjective imo. There are no specific standards. What's unworthy to me might be worthy for you or vice versa. We can use the post you are referring to as an example.



To the OP, I do not see any issue meriting someone I know as long as I find the post useful/informative to me or to others.

Am not surprised, anyone who find that post worthy enough to give 13 merit is clearly showing favouritism, no matter how hard anyone try to defend it that post is not worthy of such amount of merit, how can you tell there is no personal sentiment attach it?
Most of the rules in here only applies to some certain class of people while the other class can do as they please Undecided
legendary
Activity: 2114
Merit: 1150
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Can someone tell me why this meaningless, uneducative shit post could attract so much sMerit than some really good post i have seen in this forum which have only manage to receive not higher than 2 sMerit ?
You may see it as a shit post but those who merited it probably agrees to what the poster is saying (or at least the poster said what they wanted to say).

That "merit worthy" is subjective imo. There are no specific standards. What's unworthy to me might be worthy for you or vice versa. We can use the post you are referring to as an example.



To the OP, I do not see any issue meriting someone I know as long as I find the post useful/informative to me or to others.
member
Activity: 686
Merit: 35
Now i laugh so hard to see all the big accounts in here given an example of what a post may look like to attract sMerit, at least @op was sensible enough not to give a huge lump of sMerit to his friend unlike the below senseless post that was given a whooping 13 sMerit for shit posting,



Can someone tell me why this meaningless, uneducative shit post could attract so much sMerit than some really good post i have seen in this forum which have only manage to receive not higher than 2 sMerit ? or is it because he made the post in the much hated Yobit thread that makes it okey?

This sMerit was given by a Legendary member, which am guessing is either an Alts account of his or just like OP a very good friend of his Tongue   This is a clear example of merit abuse,
 
In my few weeks of been in this forum, i think i have made some reasonable post than this account Grin but since i don't belong to any gang, never save the forum from sinking Grin or not a friend of any Big Guy here, i don't deserve to earn 13 sMerit for my post Tongue

@OP don't worry about your few post to your friend, compare to the above Santa, you are very considerate and reasonable, am sure the merit you gave was worth the post.

Here is an example of a good post but with just 2 sMerit:-



Here you can find post and tell me if it worth 13 sMerit - https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/m.50718411
full member
Activity: 1022
Merit: 133
It's okay lol!

It's human nature to prefer someone you know or have made connection to. It's normal!

As long as the bias doesn't turn into exclusiveness or loyalty, it's fine!

Look at the positive side, you made him join as you know he will be a valuable member, so meriting his quality posts would only encourage him contributing more to the site Wink

Also, few merits are never equal to a true friend. Give or not give, doesn't matter Wink

Chill Smiley
legendary
Activity: 1792
Merit: 1283
Interesting discussion, I think that it would be better for him if I didn't intervene in the future.
I mean, if I were in his situation, I'd feel happier if I'd earned all merit by myself, without the intervention of a friend. It kinda devalues the achievement in the end.

Slightly off topic, but just a bit:
This reminds me of a scenario that unfolded several months ago where a wife was pissed at her husband because he would not give her merit so she could rank up to Jr.  I think it was right after de-rank-gate.  The way that husband handled the situation is commendable, although he may have had to spend a few nights on the couch.

That's actually a great story, I'm 100% sure he wouldn't be pissed at me. Heck, we wouldn't be friends otherwise Cheesy
copper member
Activity: 2996
Merit: 2374


The posts should be objectively good, and have a decent amount of effort put into them.

If you know someone from another place, don’t have any relationship that might be perceived as a conflict of interest, such as a family, romantic, close personal, business or financial relationship, I don’t see any issues with giving merit.

If you have any of the above types of relationships, I would generally avoid giving merit yourself, especially to family members, romantic partners and those you have a close personal relationship with (such as a roommate). For other relationships described above I would generally shy away from giving merit to these people, but if you do, I would hold these people to a higher standard. 

I don’t see an issue with reporting any of the above posts to others and others can make their own judgment on if a post deserves merit.

Well, when you talk about business relationships it gets kinda murky.
We do upvote each other posts on Steemit, so that could possibly be construed as a business relationship.

I would consider a business relationship someone you either trade with on a regular basis, have an employee/employer relationship, or run a business with. A business relationship is one that either generates income for you, or provides you access to liquidity and/or capital. The extent of how much of your income you rely on this person for also matters, for example if you make $200 a month from your relationship with the person when you make several thousand dollars per month, your relationship might not be a huge conflict of interest, while a relationship that generates substantially all of your income would be a more clear conflict of interest.

If you give a couple of merit her and there to someone you are in business with, while giving 95%+ of the merit you send every month to others, it would probably not be a big deal, while giving a larger percentage, or a majority of the merit you send every month to someone you are in a business relationship with is probably not making a good use of the merit system, in my view.

If the extent of your relationship with the person is you follow eachothers blog, and you chat for a few hours a week, (and you upvote eachothers blogs, which would result in very little money for each of you), I don't have any concerns about you sending merit to the person, myself.
member
Activity: 252
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Merit is meaningless garbage in its current form. However if ANY post is merit worthy. For example it made a positive contribution towards the optimal solution or outcome it should be seen as objectively deserving merit.

Since most people here have varying capacities for recognizing the TRUE value of a post then a true meritocracy is impossible with any kind of reliability or objective accuracy.

It is mostly a political weapon here, so giving it to people you are closely aligned with should be done so with extra consideration lest it comes under external scrutiny and you need to explain it.

Since it seems almost impossible to abuse merit unless to a PROVEN alt (which again is quite impossible) so I do not think you have much to worry about especially if the posts are of high value.

I would rather see people give merit to a true high value post of a friend than give merit to a clearly misleading or super low value post of someone they did not know. Although perhaps those that constantly merit the SAME people over a long period should have limits imposed upon the merit sharing.

legendary
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There's already a thread relating to your situation, please stop derailing this one.

Yes, of course, I am very sorry. From two days I keep answering all questions and did it without thinking too much.
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There's already a thread relating to your situation, please stop derailing this one.
legendary
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The case got complicated because of the following things, not just for meriting each other. Still I'm trying to figure out the truth.
Sharing email, telegram, ethereum address, facebook, referral link, IP, sitting in wwsocki's house and surfing internet together, still, communicating via PM's.


Because of my work, I am sometimes not available for a few days and this is the time when I sent very rare PM"s to Crypto Mania and only related to Bitcointalk.

In two years I think that was 5 PMs.
hero member
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If you merit him because you know him, it's frowned upon.
However, if you read his posts because you know him, and merit them because they're good, I see no problem there.
LoyceV, check his posts, he doesn't look like a spammer, so merit shouldn't hold him back.
legendary
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Well just to point out, that post you linked in your OP was actually worth meriting irrespective of whether you know the OP or not. I did merit the post myself because it was a honest question that other users could relate to) so you didn't do anything wrong. 

About meriting friends, I don't see anything wrong with that, especially when you did find their post won't meriting although you shouldn't abuse that privileges in regards to meriting spam or posts you won't have merited if you didn't know that individual personally because if you do it'll come back to hurt you.

Merit are met for quality contributions therefore irrespective of who the posters are, (be it friends, trolls, members of ranks we presume don't need merit etc) you're free to send them smerits with exception to yourself (alts).
legendary
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Interesting thread.

Everyone I know on Bitcointalk I found here or on anandtech or macrumors or  or 123macmini or  parts express forums.

Mostly found all my Bitcointalk buddies here.

Buysolar
Wheelz1200

live close by and I have meet with them more than once.

Generalt is also close by  maybe 40 minutes away.

I have done multiple deals with 2 of them and Buysolar and I are business partners in the Clifton NJ array

I never considered whether I should merit them. Or for that matter if it was wrong to do so.
hero member
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Honestly, every individuals of this forum have friends or someone which they like to give merit to special when the person done something which seems to be helpful to them (an example are campaign managers) but abusing the merit system where by ones give merit to post which seems pointless is something I dont agree with cause it may lead to controversy.
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legendary
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As long as the post is actually helpful/good, then whoever he/she is, it doesn't really matter if the person is your friend/relative/etc, as long as it isn't you.

I would tell you to think twice in sending your "friend" merit as you definitely could be accused of owning that account, but I don't think you really should think too much of it, as 6 merits in the spam of 6 months is nothing close to sort of "merit spam" at all.

Suchmoon has sent me 60 merits in total. But it doesn't automatically mean we're somewhat related. https://bpip.org/smerit.aspx?to=mjglqw&from=suchmoon
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Accounts connected: wwzsocki (uuid = 131333), crypto mania (uuid = 1774842)

Reason: using multiple accounts, trading merit, self-talking, account hacking, same ethereum addresses
I also wanted to give this example in my previous post but I skipped, not sure why.

The case got complicated because of the following things, not just for meriting each other. Still I'm trying to figure out the truth.
Sharing email, telegram, ethereum address, facebook, referral link, IP, sitting in wwsocki's house and surfing internet together, still, communicating via PM's.

Meriting a friend's post is not a bad thing in my eyes unless they merit shit posts for the sake of rank up which will be noticeable if got caught.

We are making things complicated here day by day, why should we discourage friendly things? A friend may like a friend's post, it's normal.
legendary
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...Whether they are alts or just friends either way it's complete merit abuse in my eyes...

I asked Crypto mania to not send merits to me at one time because he was sending me all the merits he got and I don't want to have problems like this.

After some time Theymos stated in the post that one can give merits to any post he wishes, so I stopped to take care of this.

I encourage everyone to read this posts which I merited and threads they are in, and you will see that I merit posts in Masternodecoin project because there are massive problems in this project and Crypto Mania is asking very good questions and don't let the dev team in peace.

Exactly like in Investa ANN thread, where there was distribution lately after ICO and listings, but the token is worth nothing and there is hard to get answers from the team and again Crypto mania asks many very good and detailed questions, which I really like.

I think one should look closer to posts, not only to summaries because there are more merits every day and amounts awarded will only keep growing. In small local communities is hard to not merit these same members, especially if they are good posters.

Additionally, I have never merited any shitpost.

legendary
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There's friends and then there's "friends". The trouble is, people always claim it's their "friend" when they get caught sending merit to their alts.

That's not an issue in this case

I'm not saying it is here, but it's where we start to have issues and that's usually the go-to excuse they use when caught. Let's look at this recent case. These two users were exposed as being likely alts and abusing merit:

Accounts connected: wwzsocki (uuid = 131333), crypto mania (uuid = 1774842)

Reason: using multiple accounts, trading merit, self-talking, account hacking, same ethereum addresses


Maybe they are real life friends or maybe they're just alts, but there is evidence tying them together that makes it look like they're alts, but it's certainly not conclusive. Either way this is clear abuse to me because they're just giving themselves merit back and forth for everything:

Merit summary for crypto mania

Merit: 92
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Whether they are alts or just friends either way it's complete merit abuse in my eyes. I'd tend to just stay away from meriting "friends". If their posts are good or great then someone will likely merit them but doing so yourself is obviously a conflict of interest and can be seen as unfairly helping a friend out.
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What are your thoughts about this? I mean, I'd guess it would be okay, as long as I hold his posts to the same standard as other people's posts, right?

As long as you hold to that philosophy I think you'll be alright.  You might even want to be a little more scrutinous since he's your friend.  Think of it as if you're a teacher and your child is one of your students, you wouldn't want to be accused of showing favoritism to your child.  This concern can lead a teacher to be especially hard on his own child, and expect more from him.  You might want to deploy that strategy with your friends.  If his posts are that good, he'll earn merit regardless, and you won't have to concern yourself with this matter.

Like hilariousetc mentioned, many merit abusers will use the "he's my friend" excuse when they are suspected of giving merit to their own alt accounts.  If someone suspects that you are giving merit to an alt, or even just giving excessive merit to your friends it could adversely affect your reputation.

Slightly off topic, but just a bit:
This reminds me of a scenario that unfolded several months ago where a wife was pissed at her husband because he would not give her merit so she could rank up to Jr.  I think it was right after de-rank-gate.  The way that husband handled the situation is commendable, although he may have had to spend a few nights on the couch.

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There's friends and then there's "friends". The trouble is, people always claim it's their "friend" when they get caught sending merit to their alts.

That's not an issue in this case, as I could provide public proof that this person definitely is not me. I mean, I'm in Belgium and he's somewhere in the state of Michigan, can't really fake that sorta stuff...

Proof:
me: https://steemit.com/@daan
Them: https://steemit.com/@bozz

Lots of personal blogs from them where their general location is clearly shown, same with my blog, but the more personal ones are further down.

Sending merits to alts is where I draw the line. Meriting friends is fine as long as you're not doing this because they're friends. It might be tricky to avoid bias so make sure to ask yourself: "would I merit this post if it was made by quickhunter" (replace "quickhunter" with the most annoying troll you know).

Yeah that's exactly where I'm stuck, I probably would give similar posts merit as well. Heck, I've given one or two merits for decent one-liner jokes once or twice.
That said, in reality I am probably a bit too biased, whether consciously or unconsciously, to give them any more merit in the future.

It's really what I needed to hear.

I mean, I'd guess it would be okay, as long as I hold his posts to the same standard as other people's posts, right?

I'm obviously still a little bit biased, because I'm actively looking at his posts (when he's asking me for advice etc.).
Yeah, it's frowned upon but if the posts are actually good and you don't overdo it, I don't think anyone is going to tag you for it.  And yes, you will certainly have a bias since he's your friend, and that's not something you can eliminate entirely.  IMO I probably wouldn't do it if you want to be morally pure (by bitcointalk standards), but if you're worried about consequences I don't suspect there would be any.

Merit abusers rarely get tagged anymore, and if they do then they've usually distributed merits to a slew of alt accounts or friends/family, and it's done for the purpose of helping them rank up.  Or they'll get tagged for selling merits--and even with all of that, it's still hit or miss.  So I wouldn't worry too much about it.  Others might disagree with me, but that's just my opinion.


Yeah, It's not because of the possible tags that I ask, though that would certainly be bad as well.
It's more about the ethical implication and from what I've gathered, it's not a good idea to do this in the future.

The posts should be objectively good, and have a decent amount of effort put into them.

If you know someone from another place, don’t have any relationship that might be perceived as a conflict of interest, such as a family, romantic, close personal, business or financial relationship, I don’t see any issues with giving merit.

If you have any of the above types of relationships, I would generally avoid giving merit yourself, especially to family members, romantic partners and those you have a close personal relationship with (such as a roommate). For other relationships described above I would generally shy away from giving merit to these people, but if you do, I would hold these people to a higher standard.  

I don’t see an issue with reporting any of the above posts to others and others can make their own judgment on if a post deserves merit.

Well, when you talk about business relationships it gets kinda murky.
We do upvote each other posts on Steemit, so that could possibly be construed as a business relationship.

I don't think I overdid it in the past, but I've already explicitly mentioned (to him) that he's now off to get his own merit Tongue
I'm sure he will thrive here eventually without my help.
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There's friends and then there's "friends". The trouble is, people always claim it's their "friend" when they get caught sending merit to their alts. Either way, it can still be seen as a bit shady because it's impossible to be impartial and people are more likely to give merit to their friend even when they don't deserve it. Other users are also more likely go unmerited if people constantly give merits to their pals (especially if you're not a merit source). Obviously this situation is a grey area and I think it should be taken on a case by case basis, but personally I think it can still count as abuse if you continually give merit to someone you know personally, though there's no rules against it and knowing someone in real life doesn't mean you can't or shouldn't merit them, but I think there is a real problem with people just meriting their buddies they know in real life and there's been some quite large merit farming exposed by users just passing/laundering merit between their pals/schoolmates/cousins/next door neighbours and that's when it leads to problems and obviously that shouldn't be ok.

This also probably belongs more in Reputation as there aren't really any set in stone rules when giving merit and this sort of merit abuse (if it is indeed abuse) probably isn't going to be acted upon by the admins anyway.
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Meriting your friend's post is not prohibited here...
If your friend(s) make quality posts then I don't see a reason why you shouldn't merit.
But to merit your friend(s), just because they are your friends is unacceptable imo while their posts are shitty.
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I mean, I'd guess it would be okay, as long as I hold his posts to the same standard as other people's posts, right?

I'm obviously still a little bit biased, because I'm actively looking at his posts (when he's asking me for advice etc.).
Yeah, it's frowned upon but if the posts are actually good and you don't overdo it, I don't think anyone is going to tag you for it.  And yes, you will certainly have a bias since he's your friend, and that's not something you can eliminate entirely.  IMO I probably wouldn't do it if you want to be morally pure (by bitcointalk standards), but if you're worried about consequences I don't suspect there would be any.

Merit abusers rarely get tagged anymore, and if they do then they've usually distributed merits to a slew of alt accounts or friends/family, and it's done for the purpose of helping them rank up.  Or they'll get tagged for selling merits--and even with all of that, it's still hit or miss.  So I wouldn't worry too much about it.  Others might disagree with me, but that's just my opinion.
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The posts should be objectively good, and have a decent amount of effort put into them.

If you know someone from another place, don’t have any relationship that might be perceived as a conflict of interest, such as a family, romantic, close personal, business or financial relationship, I don’t see any issues with giving merit.

If you have any of the above types of relationships, I would generally avoid giving merit yourself, especially to family members, romantic partners and those you have a close personal relationship with (such as a roommate). For other relationships described above I would generally shy away from giving merit to these people, but if you do, I would hold these people to a higher standard.  

I don’t see an issue with reporting any of the above posts to others and others can make their own judgment on if a post deserves merit.
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Sending merits to alts is where I draw the line. Meriting friends is fine as long as you're not doing this because they're friends. It might be tricky to avoid bias so make sure to ask yourself: "would I merit this post if it was made by quickhunter" (replace "quickhunter" with the most annoying troll you know).
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I'm having a bit of a conundrum here about giving a friend of mine's posts merit.

I'll explain the situation:

So, there's this person who joined Bitcointalk after I suggested it to him, the reason for that was because he wanted to learn more about Bitcoin & talk about the altcoins he's interested in. 
I've met him at least a year ago through Steemit and I know he's just someone who loves to write and have interesting discussions.
His Steemit blog is the complete opposite of spammy, so I thought he'd be a great addition to Bitcointalk.

Now, here's what I'm having trouble with:

I've given some of his posts a couple of merits here and there, not much, I think around 6 in total over a period of like 6 months.
Now, I'm kinda worried that this might be frowned upon.

What are your thoughts about this? I mean, I'd guess it would be okay, as long as I hold his posts to the same standard as other people's posts, right?
Though, it does feel a little bit like collusion to me. Idk, I'm obviously still a little bit biased, because I'm actively looking at his posts (when he's asking me for advice etc.).

I did disclose this when I gave merit to his thread in Beginners & Help:
https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/m.51252956

I realize I might be a bit late to ask this, since some merits have already been given, but yeah, I hope it's not to late to fix this if it's really an issue.
Honestly, it's better to be honest about this sort of stuff before it comes back to bite me in the....
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