I believe you guys are arguing from different viewpoints, better defined as:
intrinsic "monetary" value
intrinsic "survival" value
Gold demand is weak compared to water, but strong compared to other store of value medium,
with a limited slow supply, expensive to mine,
hence a high price and higher intrinsic "monetary" value
What you are missing is that golds monetary value only exists because it has intrinsic value (jewelry). Without golds beauty value it has no money value.
Money needs to have certain properties like being divisible, scarce etc. AND it needs to have intrinsic value.
You cant SEPARATE intrinsic value from money value.
So what you are saying is money needs to be good at doing something besides being money in order for it to be money. Right. /s