secondly, i got a private mail and skype invite by another guy trying to scam for bitcoins seeing my post here saying he wanted to help.
If paxful can ban user and show status as banned, why dont u guys just ban a fellow and show on status as banned, that way it would have been much easier to know or put a status as risky below his profile picture
You jumped in blind and got burned. Rather than understanding how you got scammed, you'd rather blame the technology. You're saying bitcoin is not to be trusted, on a forum where hundreds or thousands of transactions take place successfully every day. I can understand you are angry, but ranting like this just makes you seem foolish - the perfect target for scammers. Consider yourself lucky that you only lost $35, it could have been much worse and maybe bitcoin isn't right for you.