I know. My first thread here went really bad.
Just accept using escrow (i.e. fund the address posted by Tomatocage). Your first thread will go wonderfully well and your trust will be cleared:
https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/m.11569594
Of course not every newbie is a scammer. All old honest users were newbies one day. The problem is a lot of old users use new accounts to scam.
Honest users don't have any problem using trusted users as escrow so if a newbie asks people to send first and refuses to use a very trusted member as escrow then it's almost certain it's a scammer. A trustworthy newbie (or old) user will use escrow and therefore will have smooth deals.
Therefore nobody should deal with OP (Volemal), del1993 or any other newbie ever without escrow. And it's recommended to use escrow even when dealing with old members.
Unfortunately not even escrow protects from PayPal so it's not recommended at all to accept PayPal payments from users unless they're extremely trusted.