Topic: Hey I'm addicted to gambling what else can I do?? (Read 3383 times)

After looking through the thread, everyone is telling you to find a hobby and get addicted to something less harmful. Mind telling us a tonyy bit about yourself so we can give more accurate suggestions?

You need someone to hold you back.

But in the end, its up to you. Theres this facebook guy name David Choe who has similar issues, before being rich on facebook stocks.

or get involve in any sports, spend time with friends, if you have cash ex. $50 and it comes to your mind that you want to gamble it and STOP! don't entertain that thoughts and spend your $50 to something like food or make your mom/son/wife happy for $50. and it's better to spend than to loose in gambling..  (im sure my grammar is wrong ) haha!

Have a Good Day everyone.

Hang out more with friends and take a vacation without casinos or computer, this would work out fine

Not to sound like I'm sucking your dick, but you have always been one of my favorite gambling website operators. Of course you are in it for the profit, but you give back so much to the community and actually deter problem gamblers from making you more money.

Anyways, I hope you get off gambling OP.

Vacations are very helpful. One of the benefits of having an extremely strict Baptist (really, more Anabaptist) family is the unspoken threat of silent judgment, which maybe sounds paradoxical to any addiction professionals. Nobody would dare smoke in front of my preacher grandparents, for example, even if they're visiting one of our houses. An extended vacation with them, then, can be very beneficial long-term. We're planning on visiting them in Florida for a couple weeks in October and, as a result of knowing I can't show any vices outside caffeine addiction in front of them, I've already given up drinking outright (though I don't drink much these days, anyway) and've moved to a cigar a day from 15-20 cigarettes in an effort to quit smoking while wife has severely cut back and now goes outside to smoke.

I think you didnt visit the site, and your suggestion is good but many gamblers share their experience in that site, it can help.
one way to change being a gambler is to accept some peoples advice or listen to it...

I believe you only believe in your self

Every addiction is hard to stop
You need rehabilitation, take trip, go away from society for a while to keep you away from gambling.

These bullshit sites don't help in any way. Thinking about it doesn't help an addicted gambler.

What you need to do is try something else. Find something you like on the Internet, maybe a job. Learn graphics. It's fun and requires time.

This site for gambling Addicts can really help you..
I lost a lot in dice game.. I really mean A LOT.. even the money to buy for food for christmas eve i gambled it in Just-dice and i lost so we just eat an ordinary food.. gamblign can really ruin your life,family relatives friends etc... you will be happy for a short period of time in your winnings... but you will suffer for a very long time...

visit this page for those who want to quit gambling.

http://michelletee.hubpages.com/hub/Gambling-Addiction10-Ways-To-Stop-Gambling-Before-It-Is-Too-Late

Thanks

Moderation, I believer, is one of the profound meanings of life.

So instead of gambling he should gamble?  That's what trading the market is nowadays anyway.

Learn to trade Forex! It literally took me several years of research to get profitable. Instead of spending all your time on gambling. Start researching go to babypip.com school read through the entire school. Take all the quizzes (all of this is free!) Then go to babypips forum and read through some of the longest standing threads. If anyone is hosting webinars ask to join! This especially can be very helpful. Once you think your ready start a practice account and trade for 6 months to a year.

If you are blindly addicted just to click to roll dice or something this is very bad, but if you addiction is also a big interest maybe It isn't very bad. You must analyze your game, ask your self what you are doing wrong, is it wroth doing it, accept your mistakes when you lose. Think about your game analyze It,be honest to yourself. I am more talking about Poker, sports betting, and other casino games. If you have slot machine addiction, then yes you must stop it or at least minimize to specific amount that you can give away for fun. I'm talking like about few dollars a day and when done just quit.

I'm addicted too but I've had a great led the past five years. Guys addiction for you could be 1000 BTC and for someone else it could be .5 BTC. It's all about how it affects your life and how you feel. If you think you're addicted, I'm sorry, but you probably are. Best thing is to stop, tell someone about it, try ga or doctor meetings to discuss, come up with a new hobby, and give control of BTC to someone else you trust, temporarily.

Hey magicman what about you?

Did you manage to deal with your gambling addiction?

Well you see.... but.... god damnit that's brilliant.

Make a huge bet with yourself that you will never gamble again. With that hedge, you can't lose.

I think I'm not addicted but I love to gamble for money.

I won 0.34 btc in prime dice, the other day I lost 0.36.

After that I make my daily visit on prime dice, grab the faucet and bet. When I win jay, when I lose who cares.

I always image I bet all my btc, then hit the button and when I lose then I'm glad I didn't play for money again.


@op : grab yourself a girlfriend

why not do due diligence on bitsharesx and dpos instead?

kinda like gambling, but more like an investment. it's a way to occupy your time and money.

I placed a bet last night it won :/ but now I have money in the account...I might bet today.. But I'm  Trying to cut back alot so I might not

buy weed and alcohol after that gamble while you're high

Hey man, your last post was two days ago.....don't tell me your betting 

or maybe your just keeping yourself away from computer


which one of the two?

Just got back from my third run in 3 days and no gambling proud of myself.. Reminds me of cigs where I just kept saying I will think about smoking a cig tommorow and never did I will gamble again... But jst not every hour of every day

6 women ?? Holy cow I had a hard time handling 2 before 

Yea i am doing good finically not great or anything nice car, decent job ....just dont want to gamble every night it has it ups and downs as we all know, that's why I want other stuff to do,  that's why I came here to ask some opinions, ive got a great response, All is good I've learned a couple things in here thank you all

Just find another 6 of them and you'll be all set.

I could be wrong, but it sounds like the OP is doing quite well financially to me.

you might be right that the op needs to decide what he wants in life, but it doesn't sound like he needs anything given to him/needs to skill up.

Good for you man. I'm rooting for you.

That is the worst advice you could've ever given him.

It's all good, I was a little mad at first, bit life is to,short and I'm  proud I didn't place a bet in 2 days after 2 strIght years.. I never said I needed or had to quit completely

I tried she only,wants it twice a week :/ lol it's ok better than nothing

Yeah, I am terribly blunt at times. I apologized to the OP via PM as well, but what you said is exactly the point I was trying to get across.

Everything you said is true, but I'm not sure how helpful it is.

"Take responsibility for your own situation" is indeed the answer, but that's easier said than done.

True thank you..

Apologies, the tough love approach works well for some people. While the wording was harsh, the underlying message was meant to be positive (also I admit I only read the OP). Only you can make that change.

No I never said I was super happy.. Thanks for the advice

I just started this topic to find things to do other than gambling.. And some people actually helped.. Thanks for being mean . Have a good night

You clearly aren't happy with your current state of life, so my best advice is to quit being a puss. You realize gambling all the time is not fruitful, yet you continue to do it. You really just need to mature a bit and decide what you want in life. Nothing is going to be given to you in this world (well, maybe if the Democrats continue winning elections), you need to go out and earn it. Unless you're happy living in a 1 bedroom apartment for life, I would get educated, find a trade/career, and do something with your life. No one here can make you do it, you have to man up and quit being such a derelict. This kind of addiction is mental, be stronger than it.

Well 2 days no gambling.. So bored lol, gonna buy a small amount tommorow for the weekend, guess that is Better than every night baby steps lol

I,don't think it's that bad I need to check in anywhere.. But everyone with a problem says that I guess...  The problem is I do need bitcoins every so often once a month, and I do,like to try and double my coins when I get them.. I'm signed up for cloudbet affiliate's program so I will be getting back .05 a month I do need to set away a certain amount a month if I do wanna continue, because that's my problem I lose I just run to coinbase and buy more like its no big deal... And can't even remember what I spent  until 2 days later I see on my account

71.50 coinbase
223.50 coinbase
172.20 coinbase

That was all this weekend and i thought I spent about 200

earlier I suggested trying marijuana... but I see that's already the case xP


but man... we are in the middle of a gold rush here! shouldn't crypto be priority numero uno?

investigate which altcoins might be worth investing into, and throw your gambling fund into that.

Set a specific amount your willing to lose per month and don't gamble over that amount. Alternatively you could learn affiliate marketing. What I mean by that is start promoting all these gambling sites you find enjoyable via a blog/forum/social media. Then gamble the earnings from said marketing efforts. This makes any risk and/or loss essentially 0 since the expenditure is 0 from your real world salary. Other than that maybe check into gamblers anonymous if it's really such an issue. 

I have a job..  It's only part time but I have a job..

get a job to occupy your time, then gamble with some of your paycheck

yes i also like sports but I rarely gamble
gambling addiction is not good, especially if you already have a wife  , as we know gambling more harm than good
try if you think the loss before gambling, maybe able to help. but as long as we can control ourselves it does not matter
for women try to get on vacation to a place that exotis, beaches may

Thanks again everyone.. Well today is gonna be very hard, it's Friday the girl is working and Im off with nothing to do(and I have money to spare ) .. this has been the problem I keep running into!!! I will hopefully stay strong and do some running and cleaning.. I need to stay off the computer like someone said but its so hard. As of now clean  for over 24 hrs lol

Completely agree with dooglus on this.

This is where your "problem" stands: you are not still convinced you have to quit and I'm afraid you won't change your situation until you will be 100% aware and conscius you have to change your betting "habits" (addiction I'd say).

I used, and still use, sports as the first try whenever something goes wrong in my life and it always worked perfectly to me.

Escape to nature together with your girlfriend. Be far from your computer as much time as you can. Find joy in real things. You can also play cards in nature just for fun.

Gambling as we know the lose probability always large than winning, so it must be play responsibly.
Need something new w/ you're lady ?
If you have enough cash, why don't you travelling to somewhere exotic place ? IYKWIM 
Or do something new like learn dancing that will control you're emotion and passion 
or learn to cook something with your lady that will be usefull for your future 

Spend all your money on your girlfriend and yourself go on holiday. Goto the most beautiful places. Take a look at the world and stay away from the Internet. Oh and give me your Bitcoins that you would have lost 

Dont u have any need to earn money for urself ?

That might not be an option for you.

When you quit smoking, did you ever try just cutting down? I've seen lots of people try that, and none succeed at it.

With addiction it seems to be that you stop, or you don't. There's no "scaling back".

try marijuana.

If you end up gambling enough, like way too much, you will eventually get sick of it. So the best thing to do is to keep gambling, but just do more of it.

Hey good for you but you're not out of the woods my friend.  One night is not going to cut it.  Believe me you won't want to buy Bitcoins if you just wait a little longer.  Take it a day at a time.  Don't gamble just for today and see what's up tomorrow.  It will take longer for you to "cool off".

I made it thru the night wanted to buy some bitcoins soooo bad, but I'm gonna wait until tommorow then maybe buy a small amout.. I had a productive night running,, then dinner, now tv and a little smoke and it,feels good

Not a bad idea.. My lady friend already has 5 cats so IDK.. Gonna talk  with her.. We live separate but those are my cats at her house also lol.. I can't take any  from her because she loves them all lol..

Aka crazy  sexy cat lady lol

WOW YOU ALL HAVE BEEN AMAZING.

1 I'm taking the night of from gambling .
2. I don't wanna quit completely I just need to scale back alot.
3. I'm going for a run see y'all tonight.. This has been great I'm glad I started this topic.. Shut maybe it,will even help someone else p..

Ps.. As someone mentioned I can't quit unless I what to.. Like when I quit cigarettes last year after 15 years I WANTED TO STOP so I did.. One of the things I picked up when quitting cigs was betting :/

I will take steps forward from tonight to scale back the amount Im betting I can't stay in this pace all my life

Agreed re: addictive personality.  Since I've stopped gambling for the most part, I've gotten addicted, basically, to exercise.  I have the best body I've ever had, and I've run marathons too (from only being able to do a few miles in the past).  You CAN get a high from exercise (or other hobbies) you just need to get off the gambling high first.  Give away access to money if you have someone you trust (like a good family member I mean).

Easy answer is you need to WANT to quit first. It's like anything -- smoking, drinking, etc. People spend all sorts of money on things like "the patch", the gum, hypnosis, etc. but unless you really want to stop. You won't.

If you really want to quit you'll go to the local bookstore and read up on addiction, go to the local gamblers anonymous, find a sponsor, cut off all your friends that are enablers, tell your friends and family what you are doing and reach out to them for support.

You most likely have an addictive personality which means you'll get addicted to anything. So if you replace it with anything like the people mentioned above, you'll find something that you latch onto and can't get enough of.

My suggestion is pick up a pair of running shoes, join a running forum, download an app like mapmyrun, and just go out and run. You'll get hooked.

The reason you don't find the other stuff exciting is because your mind is always focused on gambling and it doesn't supply the rush. Get away from it for awhile and you'll be surprised how much fun it is going out to dinner and joking around with friends.

Also, get a girl friend, if you can get one. Then find a couple girls that just like to hang out. It's much more exciting going out to dinner and/or the bar with a girl (or a few) then a couple of desperate horny dudes.

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Just think of what you can have if you don't gamble. I mean, 2 BTC is enough for an all inclusive vacation most places. Also, this might be bad advice, but next time you get money, instead of putting it on a game. Find a girl (that's worth it) and spend the money on her .. you can get a limo, dinner, drinks, show and more for the amount most people are putting on one game. You'll find it much more satisfying.

I wouldn't recommend this all the time, but, hell .. why not at least once ya know.

You should block yourself from every single gambling website you currently use, I believe you can do this by messing around with your hosts file.

And as mentioned above you should start hitting the gym, going for runs and hiking. You and your girlfriend will both love the benefits of it. It takes about a month to make something a habit, get a gym membership and force yourself to spend your new vacant time doing physical activity/playing a sport every day for the next 30 days.

If you can go without sports betting for 30 days then you'll most likely lose interest in it and in exchange gain interest in something beneficial as noted above. Log off of your computer and get started now.

Good luck

You're calling it a "habit" but I'm afraid it's an addiction.  If you can't stop and you want to, then it's an addiction.  It's ok, I have it too and I have a great life. 

Trying going to a GA meeting, or talking to a therapist.  If you stop gambling for a while you'll find that things like fishing, or whatever hobby you want to do, becomes more interesting when you're off the "high" from gambling.  You just need some time away from the bet.  Good luck

You can run your own website. Its very satisfying.
Try to think about something new or something with innovation, that in the future you can be one of the best in this subject.
You can make it associated with Bitcoin.
Good luck.

Yeah go to your local shelter with said lady friend and adopt.  Unless you're a sociopath or have a criminal record or something along those lines..

If that's the case, get a gym membership.

Some other ideas:
Cheese-making is fairly simple (though you'll probably want to design your own cheese press unless you're cool just making really soft, quick cheeses), though there aren't many home cheese-makers and good info's scarce. It's also not particularly cost-effective if you're after the simple stuff, and a good few places have government-controlled (expensive) milk prices. It might be viable if you assume you'll work up to fancier cheeses... it's one of those cool things where there isn't a whole lot of industry experimentation except on the high-end side, so you can come up with all sorts of new stuff to try.

Ice cream is another possibility... if you have a stand mixer, there's probably an attachment available for that, though a stand mixer isn't going to let you make ANY kind of frozen ice-cream-like desert since they have to blend so fast to keep everything from freezing, while real ice cream makers can be quite expensive (though again, you can always design one yourself!). I'm not terribly fond of this one, though -- there's only so much you can do with ice cream (and similar) partially due to how much flavor's hidden when you freeze things, though it's still just as delicious. It has the same cost issue as cheese, too -- tough to make cheaper than store-bought unless you can find some eccentric dairy operators really close willing to sell you a medium-sized batch of milk and cream at a great price, though OTOH, you can make it taste/feel however you want, so you may find superior value there.

Some people enjoy beekeeping, though that's a bit more than a hobby, I'd say, especially with all the government meddling in the US right now. You need relatively unregulated land, too. My mom's a beekeeper and does all sorts of stuff with the wax, honey, and other parts, but a good bit of their business also involves contracts/grants with schools and the government. You can branch beekeeping out to just about anywhere, though, from cosmetics, to medical, to culinary, to "ranching" (breeding, I guess'd be a more appropriate word? Bee breeder? ).

ETA: @above response -- distilling can be done tabletop (police videos always show these enormous 30-gallon gas-powered stills operating in some idiot's apartment which is completely ridiculous), while wine-making literally just takes a sterilized (boiled or let to sit ~10m with a weak bleach solution [and then rinsed!]) food-grade plastic or glass container, a packet of yeast, water, and fruit concentrate. Clawhammer Supply actually sells relatively tiny, pre-assembled tabletop pot stills on Amazon which work on induction cookers (electric's definitely the way to go here, and you need ventilation). Uhhh, but you should only use that for ethanol fuel production, given you have the proper licensing, officially. You can also distill with a device as simple as a large metal pot on an electric stove or induction cooker -- you'd dump the wine in the large pot with a smaller pot floating (or otherwise above the wine) inside that (this collects the ethanol, methanol, and whatever else comes with it). On the top, you'd want to use either the large pot's lid upside down or some other round-bottom bowl flipped upside down (you can also use aluminum foil, which I've found more effective for whatever reason). You place ice and a little water in the upside down bowl or foil, and this causes the ethanol to condense, then drip down to the center of the upside down bowl or foil, where it eventually falls into the little collection bowl inside the large pot. Ethanol, methanol, and other fuels boil at a significantly lower temperature than water, so if you get the heat to around 175-190*F, you get the ethanol instead of the water. Methanol boils at around 150*F, which is why you'll want to dump the first small bit of liquid you collect (alternately, just leave the lid of foil off the top of the large pot and let everything evaporate out until you get to ~170*F). It's not particularly efficient, but you probably have the supplies already in your house except maybe a good way to measure the temperature of your mash/wine - so it's a decent way to start understanding the process (keeping in mind you absolutely shouldn't have flames around it and the area must be well-ventilated). Interestingly, though it's illegal almost everywhere, there's a surprising amount of good information out there.

Since distillation passes will progressively take out the flavors in the wine or whatever horror you may've accidentally created, you can use all sorts of gnarly stuff -- anything cheap which'll ferment. I'm fond of rice since it's the only cereal grain I can easily find in bulk around here (with cereal, you generally want to coarsely chop it, then boil it until it's just slightly cooked, though I'm grossly over-simplifying this as this process won't maximize your starch conversion). Repeating distillation passes decreases impurities (including anything giving off flavor), so no matter how awful the wine is, you can still get a decent liquor from it and then flavor that. For example, you could purchase oak chips (for "aging") off Amazon, char them, then throw them in a mason jar with your liquor to get an extremely fast-"aging" hillbilly-style whiskey. Time aging isn't actually the whole equation -- it's surface area * time, so by having your charred oak inside the alcohol, you can age a multitude faster than corporate breweries with their massive 50-gallon barrels. -Just don't forget to filter it when you're done (coffee filters work great!).

Get a sponsor that you can call and have him talk you down in those times.

Sure. Try to live in the most energy/cost efficient way possible. If you smoke, buy an injection roller and buy online in bulk to take up a little time. If you have smokers in the family who wouldn't find it awkward, it makes for a relatively cheap (but what would be expensive to them) gift. My dad quit smoking before I made him a carton for Father's Day -- didn't know it until after I gave it to him with a bottle of wine. On that note - if you drink, fermenting is dead-simple, while distilling is a bit trickier but compared to most creation hobbies, still fairly easy to get into, and you can take it about as far as you want. Beer brewing can be difficult depending on how much you do yourself vs. just buying a couple cans at a brew shop and tossing it in a vat.

"Gamble on yourself." You can take money you'd otherwise gamble and "invest" it. Instead of having some asshole trained, licensed, and bonded professional install a solar farm for you, learn to set it up yourself, or even go so far as to make the panels yourself. If you're not in a good area for solar, wind might be available, though I'd be leery about suggesting someone set up a wind turbine with no experience (but you could still buy a kit with instructions). Welding and soldering are great skills useful in two of the three "hobbies" I've mentioned, and I'm fairly disappointed I can only barely solder, but it's something to learn later.

These three hobbies will all save you money (assuming you smoke and drink -- but I'm sure you use electricity) and give you something to do, while you're able to "gamble" by calculating the upfront costs and trying to recoup that money as fast as possible by doing the labor yourself and tweaking designs to maximize efficiency. It's not terribly complicated and you definitely don't need to be a chemist or engineer (or even go to a vocational school), but it'll give a fair sense of pride upon completion. In addition, there're plenty of people here who could help you out on them if you have questions - just toss 'em up in the Off Topic section. There are all sorts of similar things to do, if maybe you're not interested in those... working on small engines can sometimes bring in a little money (as well as save you from taking it to someone) and isn't too difficult to jump into... if you like a lot of "game" with your gambling, you could farm on an MMO, though that's about as fun as having your fingernails pulled off... Lots to do with lumber, or paving - you could create a ridiculous crushed-rock-pathed maze on your property which runs through fruiting trees, bushes, and herbs, with little sections almost like a zoo (or uhhh... what do they call them... outdoor botany zoo-things... uhh... botatorium? The name escapes me).

I like sports, I play sports 2 times a week  and stuff but any ideas of stuff to do other than betting 24/7  would be cool I'm trying to break this habit......
I even have a lady friend, maybe some ideas for us both lol.. Obvioulsy we go to dinner and stuff but I need more to do other than gambling.. Lets talk lol fishing, kinda bores me, movies bore me, bike rides are ok lol, any more ideas?