Topic: How to communicate with inadequate people? (Read 280 times)

Some people say the effective way to disarm rude people is to be cool and respond with politeness. If the person keeps doing that, try to talk it out, ask to lower his voice and so on.

Take a deep breath and calm yourself.

You don't have to argue if you are staying cool. But too much is too much, when I encounter people like that. I simply go through and tell them directly if they can lower the pitch of their voice. Nothing wrong to tell it to them that they are becoming rude if you find it offensive and rude to you, just be yourself.

The best is through emails, Whats App or any social network, and if there is no way, politely tell them to respect and that there is no need to scream, everything is with the right words, so as not to seem rude.

Those kind of people are looking for attention and you words will seems like fuel for them. The more you try to convince and prove them something, the more aggressive they will become. So best thing to do in this kind of situations is just shut up, look them in their eyes and let them talk until their mouth gets cold. Eventually they have to stop since they don't have infinite words to say and when they are going to notice you are not cooperating at all they are going to leave.

I just ignore them. 

I try to keep calm. And tell him as you like.

Watching movies is the best , you can literally enjoy your day even if you are alone. Well i agree on what you have said they are immature because they are being rude even if you talk to them in a nice way. It is really good especially on cold days you just chill and watch.

Very well said , you don't have to argue with this kind of people most of them are immature. Just like you I also do other things just make myself busy than leaving home because I don't usually interact with other people. I just read some books and watch movies.

Basic , just be quiet and don't talk to them anymore. I have experienced talking to someone like this , I mean my family respects me and they never say anything bad about me and someone I know will just do it? its inappropriate and rude. My mother raise me right that's why I will behave when someone raise their voice at me. This kind of situation is kind of similar into gambling you can encounter some rude people but now I have realize that I can entertain myself without leaving home and still enjoy the day by playing on the best gambling site.

Best answer is to remain silent, I dealed with this kind of person, just the more you answer, the most they shout. I just learn to take on me there are more important things in life.

Now we lack of informations, if you could give more details that could be great to try to help you

If they raise their voice and are being rude to you, then never go down in their level.

It is advisable not to get into such people, but if this happens it is better to ignore it, so that there is no great aggression on their part. They are fed by energy when they are contradicted, so you can either agree with their thoughts or close the topic of conversation.

the best way is not to communicate, and not to have any connections with them.

Moved away from toxic people

It's simple: do not communicate with these people, or cause physical damage to these NPC characters

The more quiet you are, the more they are going to get annoyed.

You may want to learn about interpersonal skills or interpersonal communication.
This will allow you to learn one important thing which is called relationship management.
In order to answer your question, I need a context so I know what you can say to this person.
Are they in a position of power, on the same level as you or lower level than you?
If they are in a position of power and raise their voice and are rude, you can't do much
except for fighting rudeness with kindness. Do not join the drama queen club and try to
ignore them as much. If the rudeness goes beyond normal levels and becomes stressful,
you can either raise your concerns to a person in a higher level than the person who is rude
to you. Remember, in our society the 'pyramid' is 'infinite' and there is always someone above
the highest positions.

If the person is on the same level as you or lower, then take the normal approach and be a bold
person. Tell them that their behavior is not ethical and that they should control their voice level.
Tell them that rudeness is contagious and, if they continue being rude to you, you will be rude to
them. The most important thing for you is to remember that you want to make the person realize
their rudeness in a smart way. Instead of pointing it out such as 'you are such a rude person!',
follow a discussion framework such as:
- Asking them if there is anything in place that upsets them
- Asking them what's their opinion on rude people who raise their voice
- Asking them if they like other persons being rude to them
Depending on the answers and on the individual's views, you can
introduce your question here: 'So, why are you behaving in a rude way to me, X and Y?'.

Disclaimer: This may not be of help if you don't have interpersonal skills

How to behave in communication with people who raise their voice and are rude to you?