There are no other blk*.dat files. Is this ok?
On Mac, there is no log/ directory, but there is database/, as well as 2 .log files:
db.log
debug.log
I tried deleting (moving) these files as well, but Bitcoin still crashes.
are you close to each other? If so - the second option might be best, especially if you're on the same network.
Find out your IP by going to
www.whatismyip.com and make sure inbound port 8333 is set up, then just give this to your friend and get them to start bitcoin with the -connect=YOURIP. Then at least the traffic will just download within Vietnam.
Otherwise, make sure your friend deletes all the files (except wallet.dat, if he has bitcoins already) then copies your blk*.dat files into the bitcoin configuration directory.
Will