How to gain self esteem?I used to be a "painfully, horribly shy" Real_Person.
Given a rare chance to give a brief talk in front of ~100 people I spent hours writing a simple statement that took only about 90 seconds.
I received an overwhelming standing ovation with people clapping loudly.
It felt so awesome!
I was "instantly addicted", with one more chance to talk again.
The first time, I was not trying/expecting such a reaction.
Second time,
I needed to feel that way again.
Thud... Tried too hard and no one cheered.
If you are ever blessed with a genuine, unexpected standing ovation, enjoy the moment, since it may never happen again.
^^^
Hey, this guy is pretty good, let's give him some applause!!!!