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Topic: how to regain trust? (Read 608 times)

jr. member
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August 11, 2018, 11:42:48 AM
#78
i just want to make sure i understood you....if you're talking about regaining  trust in this world, it ain't easy to do so. Before one can earn your trust , it  takes many years to do so. I just want to ask. Why would you even break the trust of someone if you know , regaining trust in you would be difficult to ?
There are several things you can do to regain your trust . Let the person know you are very sorry.Not just telling them but show it.
newbie
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July 18, 2018, 03:26:08 PM
#77

By NOT doing the bad habits that you've done before.
And changing yourself for the better. Wink
newbie
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July 17, 2018, 01:51:58 PM
#76
Trust is hard to regain once its broken. it maybe regain if you are consistent enough to show you truly are sorry for what you did to broke her trust.
newbie
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July 17, 2018, 10:37:07 AM
#75
I think this is impossible, as well as glue the broken glass. You must live on, do not remember those relationships.
newbie
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July 09, 2018, 07:23:00 PM
#74
Broken trust can take time to regain. Patience is key and action is required.  Good things should be done to help the other party bE able to accept one back.
jr. member
Activity: 121
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July 09, 2018, 04:05:46 PM
#73
it seems that all the replies of this topic is only based on the title, they dont even read your saying, sad people just to have post. if you want to regain trust, work hard and do good here in forum
newbie
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July 09, 2018, 01:10:49 PM
#72
make them see your remorseful ,, and give them time , its the best you can do now
jr. member
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July 09, 2018, 11:10:46 AM
#71
To regain trust is not that easy especially someone that is very close to you more  especially your best friend, wife.,husband,your child,and even your parents but the following points can help you to regain trust. First of all you must forgive yourself by feeling a sign of remorse with the one you offended. Secondly you must feel free to admit your wrongs stop claiming Mr/Mrs right.Thirdly promise never to go back to the wrongs you have done i think with these it will help you to regain your trust once again.
newbie
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July 09, 2018, 05:10:49 AM
#70
its very hard to regain trust. sometimes it gets broken for good. keep hope though.
newbie
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July 09, 2018, 05:10:23 AM
#69
If the trust is lost then it is forever. I think that trust can not be restored.
newbie
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July 09, 2018, 05:09:05 AM
#68
sometimes all it need is time. wait for the right moment.
newbie
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July 09, 2018, 03:14:19 AM
#67
trust can't regain
newbie
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July 06, 2018, 04:12:57 AM
#66
if you lie to a man, it is not possible to make him to completely trust you again.
newbie
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July 06, 2018, 03:39:21 AM
#65
I think by explaining why you are lying. You do not need to explain too much detail if it is more painful, but you have to be honest about why you are lying. Maybe you want to protect him, maybe you know that the truth will hurt him, or maybe you are ashamed of telling the truth and want to cover it up. Whatever the reason, let him know why you did it. This will show that you can grow and try to do self-introspection, and you are not impressed just to apologize without getting a valuable lesson.
newbie
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July 06, 2018, 02:28:32 AM
#64
perhaps by not repeating the same mistake or in a better way that apologies sincerely.
newbie
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July 05, 2018, 12:25:48 PM
#63
if you want to get somebody's trust back,the first thing you have to do is lie and sincere apologies for hurting her.promise it never happen again.commitment you have to make is change.
newbie
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July 05, 2018, 11:13:42 AM
#62
trust can't regain. Its like glass
newbie
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Merit: 0
July 05, 2018, 10:15:26 AM
#61
apologize what ever you do and never repeat again, this tips is one to gain trust.
newbie
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July 05, 2018, 09:53:25 AM
#60
Acknowledge your mistakes, work on improving the situation and be patient.
newbie
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July 05, 2018, 07:30:39 AM
#59
Trust can only be restored by time. This is work. Doing things according to conscience, understanding the thoughts of another person before someone restores confidence
newbie
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July 05, 2018, 03:32:07 AM
#58
Regaining trust is very hard. Infact, you can never get 100% of it again from that person.
newbie
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July 03, 2018, 01:37:14 PM
#57
I recommend surprise gift 🎊🎁🎊

Buying your way out of problems isn't a good idea. The problem always comes back in the end.
newbie
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June 30, 2018, 06:41:20 PM
#56
I recommend surprise gift 🎊🎁🎊
jr. member
Activity: 126
Merit: 1
June 30, 2018, 05:55:43 PM
#55
Trust is what defines our integrity and peradventure we have lost it, it is in our hands to start redefining our true self by portraying new attribute, by saying a thing and doing it, promising a thing and fulfilling it, in that way; we can regain it.
newbie
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Merit: 0
June 30, 2018, 05:54:57 PM
#54
Regaining trust for me is so difficult. It needs time to heal all the wounds that you've done. I believe that when someone give you his or her trust you must 100% care for it. But I think by doing all your best to prove that you are sincerely regreting that you broke his or her trust.
newbie
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June 30, 2018, 03:44:42 PM
#53
by doing good and trustful behaviors.
newbie
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June 29, 2018, 02:05:26 PM
#52
just prove yourself in a better way.
newbie
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June 28, 2018, 12:52:56 PM
#51
be truthfully and accept your past mistake
newbie
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Merit: 0
June 28, 2018, 04:17:43 AM
#50
Believing that the biggest thing that does not know the status of faith can never be happy. When a person believes in someone once and the person does not respect the faith, then the person will not believe in him any other day.
jr. member
Activity: 121
Merit: 1
June 27, 2018, 02:25:36 PM
#49
I did not open my account for how many months. Now I decided to join the campaign again. Please give me some advice. Thanks in advance to all.

Just do what you gonna do men, its hard to regain trust especially when you broke it, you need to prove that you've changed and stay consistent.
newbie
Activity: 144
Merit: 0
June 27, 2018, 01:38:47 PM
#48
Regaining trust is a very difficult task but I bet the following ways can help you regain your trust

Come clean. If you are the one who betrayed someone else, you need to come clean. In interpersonal relationships, it’s especially important to tell the truth when you would benefit from a lie.
If you have betrayed someone, coming clean at your own expense tells the other person that their well-being is more important than your own.[4] Denial will only make the other party's distrust run deeper, especially if the truth is already clear.
Admit all of your mistakes. Even if there are parts that you can keep hidden without getting caught, you should still reveal them to the other person. Only in admitting all your mistakes can you be forgiven for all of them.

Expect an emotional reaction from the other person. Admitting that you betrayed someone is not going to make things easier immediately. On the contrary, you can expect an emotional outburst—yelling, crying, and so on—from the other person when she hears you admit your betrayal. But remember, the best way to move on is by putting it all into the open.
Apologize. This one should be obvious, but unfortunately, sometimes it gets overlooked. How you approach saying your apology will influence whether or not the apology is accepted and you both can move on.[5]
When apologizing, avoid justifying your actions.[6] Don’t claim that the offended person misunderstood you (“you read that wrong”). Don’t deny their hurt (“you didn’t even get hurt”). Don’t tell a sad tale (“I had a troubled childhood”).
The best way to accept responsibility is by recognizing the other person’s hurt, saying what you should have done instead, and doing that behavior in the future.
Let the person you betrayed know why you are apologizing. If they know that you are apologizing out of guilt and shame, they are more likely to forgive you. If they think that you are apologizing out of pity, they are less likely to forgive you. Pity, unlike guilt and shame, does not show an element of personal responsibility of the offender. Pity also implies that the offender is superior to the offended

Forgive yourself. When you violate someone's trust, you may feel so regretful that you have a hard time forgiving yourself for the violation. While a repentant heart is an essential part of making up with the person you betrayed, you also need to accept and learn to forgive yourself after you put the effort into making amends.
Remember that no one is perfect. Whether your error in judgment was minor or major, it goes to show that you are only human. Accept your failure, and try to push forward into the future.
By clinging to thoughts of past failure, you risk devaluing yourself. Once you begin to have such thoughts, it could zap your motivation for self-improvement

LOL
You literally copy/paste the whole Wikihow page that could be googled in 1sec.
Dude, that's against the rules.
newbie
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June 27, 2018, 11:14:26 AM
#47
once a person loses to be trusted i think you can ever gain to be trusted person .because the first thought that comes to your mind is is his disloyalty.
newbie
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June 19, 2018, 09:19:12 AM
#46
Try to live with the people, live with yourself.
member
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June 19, 2018, 05:48:28 AM
#45
Trust is like a glass. You cannot put it back together. If you were, somehow, able to, everything is not the same.
It is not as good as it was. Doubt will always be there.

If there is one way to regain trust, then that is feeling you were really sorry with all your heart and showing that it will never happen again.
Of course the doubt will still be there. As the saying goes, "Prevention is better than cure."
newbie
Activity: 11
Merit: 0
June 19, 2018, 05:31:57 AM
#44
To regain trust,  you should proved yourself that you are worth it to be trusted again. Once you break the trust it will be hard to regain again..
newbie
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Merit: 0
June 19, 2018, 01:48:02 AM
#43
To gain trust again. First trust yourself and believe that people around you ll trust you. Be loyal, honest, loving and kind
sr. member
Activity: 303
Merit: 250
June 19, 2018, 01:30:27 AM
#42
Its not the TRUST(feedback of other users for bad behavior). What I mean is I cant join campaigns because I do not an activity for a long time. Do you think it will take a month for me to be able to join campaigns? Hope there will be a manager that will give a chance to members like me to join their campaigns. By the way thanks for all your feedbacks. I really appreciate it. More power to you guys.  Smiley  Wink
newbie
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April 28, 2018, 05:06:44 AM
#41
To re gain trust you have to trust First with time the trust will be regained.
newbie
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April 28, 2018, 03:08:01 AM
#40
Trust is something that is difficult to build it takes time and effort but seconds to destroy. Once you break it it can never be rebuild.. So don't even try to break it.
newbie
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April 18, 2018, 10:15:53 PM
#39
It is very difficult to regain lost faith except for the time that will allow you
jr. member
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April 18, 2018, 10:13:51 PM
#38
Im confused of this post.If Im mistaken just correct me then.The question is how to regain trust because of not activating account for a long time right?or its on the other way?Well I'll just answer the question base from my understanding.Apparently I had no idea if what will happened to an account that is unactivated for a long time, maybe you got negative trust because of abandonment or maybe not.Well if im in your shoes gaining trust is you need to work hard on it and it takes time to recover.So just do everything to get back on track again.
newbie
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April 18, 2018, 10:00:06 PM
#37
Get back your very hard faith just by you patience
newbie
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April 18, 2018, 09:30:10 PM
#36
no way
just try to be a better person in the future.
newbie
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April 18, 2018, 09:13:49 PM
#35
it is difficult to recover a trush that has been destroyed, if it can then it is a second chance
newbie
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April 18, 2018, 07:51:46 PM
#34
this is a very difficult task to do,man! at least apologize and try to be a better person, and do as many good things as possible
newbie
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March 30, 2018, 05:45:57 AM
#33
It is very hard to regain trust. You need to prove that you're changed.
jr. member
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Merit: 1
March 30, 2018, 05:24:01 AM
#32
If you want to lose, it is very difficult to fix because of how to fix very many people who have been betrayed, so it takes time to improve trust.
copper member
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Merit: 5
January 30, 2018, 11:42:57 AM
#31
do good things in every way so you can gain trust to others.

And then make like a proven record over time. So that the other can see that you actually earn it.
newbie
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Merit: 0
January 30, 2018, 11:27:04 AM
#30
honestly, when trust has been broken I cannot be regained back. It is just impossible because at the back of our mind a bad memory will trigger us to think sideways about a person. We may not have that clean slate but what we can do is offer them forgiveness and let ourselves know that we are only human. We must accept their flaws and mishaps.
newbie
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Merit: 0
January 30, 2018, 10:56:19 AM
#29
if with a wife we lose confidence, then discuss with her partner, apologize to the wife. how to create harmony in the family. Listen with an open mind what her partner needs. Brainstorm what each can do to improve relationships. Try as hard as possible to always put your partner first and do this every day so it becomes a habit.
member
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January 29, 2018, 07:43:45 PM
#28
do good things in every way so you can gain trust to others.
newbie
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January 10, 2018, 03:58:37 PM
#27
Regaining trust is very difficult. You need to be patient and understanding if you want to regain the trust of someone and prove that you are trustworthy.
newbie
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January 10, 2018, 01:08:25 PM
#26
Losing trust is really easy but regaining it is hard. I believe you should show little actions that show you can be trusted, through small steps you can regain the lost trust
member
Activity: 154
Merit: 10
January 10, 2018, 12:51:58 PM
#25
the best way is, you have to proof that you are now changed. by showing people you are now brand new and are wiling to pay the price for your past actions. even if the people will not accept you.... even until you die.
newbie
Activity: 126
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January 10, 2018, 12:17:37 PM
#24
the most important first step to regain trust is to practice open and honest communication.if you you can't talk to each other this way, then there isn't much hope of repair.But if both of you are both willing to sit down and talk to each other , then you have a great starting point. Each of you should discuss how you are feeling about the situation that caused the breech of trust.You should also be willing to listen to how the other feels, whether you agree or disagree.For the wounded partner, being able to let those feelings out allows you to release some of the hurt that you have perhaps been bottling up.For the offender, this is an opportunity to apologize,ask for forgivenessand to explain without defensiveness or excuses why you behaved as you did.Giving your partner a window into your frame of mind can help soften the blow of betrayal. After you have talk about your feelings, discussed how to rebulid trust between the two of you like talk about expectation and what you want the end result would be.Then come up with a plan that will work for both of you and don't be afraid to voice what you want and need.
newbie
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January 10, 2018, 11:25:19 AM
#23
Belief is hard to find again if you miss it. Belief comes when you do it yourself and try to overcome it. The truth, the concept of your life is the belief in this life. Keep your faith and do not lose it. lose it, do not rush to find old faith and slowly make new beliefs.
newbie
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January 10, 2018, 11:20:01 AM
#22
When you lose trust you can gain it back by changing the bad behaviour known you for.
newbie
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January 10, 2018, 10:17:19 AM
#21
Part 3 Getting Ready to Trust Someone Again
1 Assess the situation. Before you can rebuild trust in someone after they betrayed you, you should first ask yourself if the relationship is one you want to salvage. ...
2 Consider the person's reaction to the situation. ...
3 Keep an eye out for continued deception. ...
4 Express your feelings.
newbie
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January 10, 2018, 09:55:14 AM
#20
I did not open my account for how many months. Now I decided to join the campaign again. Please give me some advice. Thanks in advance to all.

for me it was a very amazing decision with the decision, hopefully this could be useful for the next, the task is to do a detailed research can read the situation just so that the results can be satisfactory in the end
newbie
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January 10, 2018, 09:54:25 AM
#19
i think you first be trusted then you can regain trust from the others. or you can be friendly and sooner or later they can already tell you a secret.
member
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January 10, 2018, 09:46:35 AM
#18
The easiest way is to do a good deed for the company!And show the result
member
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January 07, 2018, 06:44:41 PM
#17
Regaining trust takes time. It happens slowly if you prove yourself trustworthy over a long period. It's super easy to mess up and have to start all over again.
newbie
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January 07, 2018, 03:26:24 PM
#16
Trust is very hard to earn but easy to lose. Once it was shattered, it is impossible to return to its original form.
newbie
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January 07, 2018, 02:40:22 PM
#15
Trust is very important principle in anyone's life. It's like a fragile stuff that once you broke it never be same as an old. To regain trust, you have put your 100% effort to make the people you ruin their trust to you be felt sincere in all the things you have done to them. 100% Effort! Got it?
newbie
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January 07, 2018, 01:24:24 PM
#14
For me regain trust is the most difficult way in this forum or real life. Need long time to make people know about you
newbie
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January 07, 2018, 01:03:26 PM
#13
Regaining trust for me is very difficult. You should be patient in regaining the trust of everyone. Its like a glass that is broken, you cant put it together.
newbie
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Merit: 0
January 07, 2018, 12:46:45 PM
#12
Regaining trust for me is so difficult. It needs time to heal all the wounds that you've done. I believe that when someone give you his or her trust you must 100% care for it. But I think by doing all your best to prove that you are sincerely regreting that you broke his or her trust.
newbie
Activity: 21
Merit: 0
January 07, 2018, 11:59:36 AM
#11
to regain trust is very difficult; it  is like a broken glass, even though you tried to fix and patch things up but it is already broken.
newbie
Activity: 14
Merit: 0
January 07, 2018, 11:37:20 AM
#10
regain trust is really difficult Roll Eyes
The first thing to understand is trust itself. It may feel mysterious and elusive, but in fact we know a great deal about how it is formed and sustained, and recovered. The essential sequence is universal. To initiate trust, we must be worthy of it.

Trustworthiness, in turn, consists of three main characteristics: technical competence to perform a task reliably (ability), having benign motives (benevolence), and acting according to acceptable ethical principles such as fairness and honesty (integrity). Display these three attributes consistently and credibly, and you will be trusted by all but the most paranoid. Get any of them wrong, and your reputation will suffer. Trust is remade – strengthened or undermined – in every encounter.
newbie
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January 07, 2018, 09:57:34 AM
#9
Conversely, lack of self-esteem will have a negative impact on one's mental health, relationship, education, or career. The good news, there are several ways you can use to restore confidence in general or in certain situations, for example when a relationship with someone or at work. Smiley
newbie
Activity: 126
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January 07, 2018, 09:20:43 AM
#8
Regaining trust is a very difficult task but I bet the following ways can help you regain your trust

Come clean. If you are the one who betrayed someone else, you need to come clean. In interpersonal relationships, it’s especially important to tell the truth when you would benefit from a lie.
If you have betrayed someone, coming clean at your own expense tells the other person that their well-being is more important than your own.[4] Denial will only make the other party's distrust run deeper, especially if the truth is already clear.
Admit all of your mistakes. Even if there are parts that you can keep hidden without getting caught, you should still reveal them to the other person. Only in admitting all your mistakes can you be forgiven for all of them.

Expect an emotional reaction from the other person. Admitting that you betrayed someone is not going to make things easier immediately. On the contrary, you can expect an emotional outburst—yelling, crying, and so on—from the other person when she hears you admit your betrayal. But remember, the best way to move on is by putting it all into the open.
Apologize. This one should be obvious, but unfortunately, sometimes it gets overlooked. How you approach saying your apology will influence whether or not the apology is accepted and you both can move on.[5]
When apologizing, avoid justifying your actions.[6] Don’t claim that the offended person misunderstood you (“you read that wrong”). Don’t deny their hurt (“you didn’t even get hurt”). Don’t tell a sad tale (“I had a troubled childhood”).
The best way to accept responsibility is by recognizing the other person’s hurt, saying what you should have done instead, and doing that behavior in the future.
Let the person you betrayed know why you are apologizing. If they know that you are apologizing out of guilt and shame, they are more likely to forgive you. If they think that you are apologizing out of pity, they are less likely to forgive you. Pity, unlike guilt and shame, does not show an element of personal responsibility of the offender. Pity also implies that the offender is superior to the offended

Forgive yourself. When you violate someone's trust, you may feel so regretful that you have a hard time forgiving yourself for the violation. While a repentant heart is an essential part of making up with the person you betrayed, you also need to accept and learn to forgive yourself after you put the effort into making amends.
Remember that no one is perfect. Whether your error in judgment was minor or major, it goes to show that you are only human. Accept your failure, and try to push forward into the future.
By clinging to thoughts of past failure, you risk devaluing yourself. Once you begin to have such thoughts, it could zap your motivation for self-improvement

newbie
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January 07, 2018, 08:58:40 AM
#7
To regain a trust is very hard indeed especially for a person that have been betrayed for several times.
newbie
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January 07, 2018, 08:46:40 AM
#6
You must need time to gain it again. And also you must ready to accept.
newbie
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December 31, 2017, 12:34:57 AM
#5
trying as much as possible to a better direction.
newbie
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December 30, 2017, 11:08:50 PM
#4
Trust is something you need to earn. If by any chance, you broke the chance given to you, you need to work very hard to get back that trust. Simply learned for your mistake and prove that you'll not ever gonna do it again. Apologize for hurting the persons feelings and let him know that you can do anything what he thinks is right to forgive you.
newbie
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December 30, 2017, 04:32:52 PM
#3
I did not open my account for how many months. Now I decided to join the campaign again. Please give me some advice. Thanks in advance to all.
dont break it in the first place
member
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Merit: 100
December 30, 2017, 04:10:53 PM
#2
I did not open my account for how many months. Now I decided to join the campaign again. Please give me some advice. Thanks in advance to all.

The trust to return is very difficult, it must be earned by a person and for a long time.
sr. member
Activity: 303
Merit: 250
December 29, 2017, 03:21:11 AM
#1
I did not open my account for how many months. Now I decided to join the campaign again. Please give me some advice. Thanks in advance to all.
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